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Law of Attraction Love and Relationships
July 28, 2008

Law of Attraction Love and Relationships


Law of Attraction love and relationships, were not questions that I thought I would get inundated with, when I started the Law of Attraction Tips and Advice page. But clearly, there are big misunderstandings about how you can and canít apply the Law of Attraction.

To clear this up, I thought I would put the record straight....

Yes you can use the Laws to find love...

But you cannot use the Law to change someone elseís behaviour, or how they think and feel about you...

The moment you do that, then the Law of Attraction is no longer Law.

What I mean by that is this;

The Law of Attraction says that our reality is reflection of our conscious or subconscious beliefs.

Therefore, if we could to impose a reality on someone who is creating a different reality, consciously or unconsciously, or if we could impose a desire on another who does not desire it, then we would be using a Law to impose something on someone who is using Law to stop it.

Itís rather like saying that we could use gravity to stop ourselves from falling, not recommended!!

The only control you have is self-control, not the control of others.

Try to think of the Law of Attraction a the Law of Harmony, a Law that puts things that are in harmony with each other in line with each other.

We see this happen throughout the physical world. In science when several elements come together it is called a compound. Compounds can be made up of two atoms or hundreds of atoms.

No matter what atoms are in a compound, they all want to be "happy". A happy atom is one with the right number of electrons in the outer orbital. That desire to be happy is why some elements only combine with a few other elements. Not all elements can make each other "happy".

In much the same way, that, if you desire someone specific to make you happy, yet the fact you are together, antagonises that someone, then, you cannot align, no matter how much you desire it.

Many questions I receive ask,

ďHow can I use the Law of Attraction to bring me the one thing I desire, the company of someone who I am in love with, who doesnít respond?Ē

When I hear this sort of question, I tend to tip it up on itís head a bit, to me it sounds like,

ďI am extremely unhappy that I am not in this relationship, and I am desperately trying to become happy by using the Law of Attraction to bring me the one thing that I know will make me happyĒ

The focus is,

ďI am extremely unhappy that I am not in this relationship.Ē

Now as the Law of Attraction is a Law of Harmony, what will it do?

Feed the harmonious condition...

Whatís the harmonious condition?

Well quite simply, the focus...

ďI am extremely unhappy that I am not in this relationship.Ē

I know that sounds a bit strange, but when you think about, itís quite straightforward. The Law of Attraction is a Law, it just does, it doesnít know or care what you really want, you provide the cause and it supplies the effect, you think it, you have it.

And it must be a harmonious condition, otherwise why focus on it!

Is that fair? Isnít the Law just misreading my thoughts?

Well no, itís Law, it cannot choose, it just is. You are the cause and the Law provides the effect.

I donít hear people giving up on gravity because they fell and cut their knee, in fact, far from it, they learn, they change their behaviour, they work in harmony with it, otherwise, it hurts...

Perhaps this is the lesson we need to take on board, letís learn from what we see that we donít like, change the way we think until we start to see what we do like, letís start working in harmony with Law, and stop getting hurt...

If you have any questions on the Law of Attraction, why not send them in at the Law-of-Attraction-Guide Advice Page.

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John Peace.

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