Am I Attracting The Lack Of This

I just watched The Secret movie yesterday and fell in love with it. I told myself from that moment on I will believe in everything I do. I did everything the book told me to do.


My question to you is, I got out of a 2-year relationship 5 months ago. We broke up for many reasons. But the main reason was we had no future. We were going to be in two different countries. And after we both realized that, all we ever did was fight on the smallest of matters.

The fighting was too much for both of us so we broke it off.

Now, we go to the same medical school and we see each other everyday. We had our bitter phase after the break up and now we're really good friends. We still have our soft corners for each other but we've accepted that we don't have a future.

But I think, according the Law of Attraction, I'm attracting the lack in the relationship, because I know I still care about him. I don't know if I'm thinking that maybe we can be together or whether we need to move our own separate ways.

Please advice me on what you think of this.

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

The only time that people tend to attract the lack of the things they want, is when they become so wrapped in having what they desire, that all they seem to think about, is the fact that they have not manifested their desires.

This often happens when someone is using the Law of Attraction to attract a romantic relationship, but tries to manifest this relationship in a specific person. And, as we cannot manifest a reality in another, they notice the lack of what they trying to manifest.

They talk about, think about and feel about, what they do not have, adding what they do not have to their vibration, and manifesting a reality of not having.

To manifest a specific reality, you must match the specific vibration, as if that specific reality existed now, but you must leave the how, the when, the where and the with whom to the universe, you must have faith that that which you ask for, is given.

If you try to have the thoughts and feelings of having any desire now, and then wonder how, then you are not really having true thoughts and feelings of having it now, and you shall manifest a reality of not really having the things you want.

If you try to have the thoughts and feelings of having any desire now, and then wonder where, then you are not really having true thoughts and feelings of having it now, and you shall manifest a reality of not really having the things you want.

And so on….

If you wish to be in a relationship, then align with the vibration of being in a relationship now, and leave the events, the circumstances and the people to the universe.

If you wish to align with this person, in the best way that you can, whether it be in a relationship or not, then align to the parts of him that make you feel good.

Think and feel about the things about him that you like, that pleases you, that makes you feel good, that makes you happy. Turn away from the things you don’t like, as the attention to the unwanted manifests the unwanted just as readily as the wanted.

Align to the best of him, and for as long as he can manifest the best of him, to you, as a match to your vibration, he shall.

If you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below…


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