Am I Born Unlucky

I’m 42 years old and I have a life full of regrets and failures. As a kid I never did too well in school, I was a below average student. When I grew up I joined my family business and after learning how to run a company, I floated my first company.


It bombed! I went on to float another one, it didn't start, usually the one with a positive outlook I went ahead with another venture, and it bombed too.

I took over my family business and I haven't been able to grow it into something significant, all my investments have not yielded me a penny in profits; in fact most of them have either earned me nothing or booked losses for me.

I'm a business school graduate, my portfolio is being looked over by professional wealth managers, I meditate, I’m honest, I'm truthful, I’m fair, I’m hard working, I help people to the best of my abilities and I’m known for these qualities in my business, as well as family circles.

So is it that I’m born unlucky or I’m simply a bad luck magnet?

I'm positive, I’m upbeat, I always cheer people up if they are feeling down, I’ve advised many people positively in my life, and those people are thankful they came to me.

But why am I not able to attract wealth, prosperity abundance and success in my life?

I've got so frustrated that I’m contemplating suicide, but since I have a small child I’m scared to do it.

Please advise

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If you want success, you’ve got to move towards it, you’ve got to give your attention, focus and energy to your desires so that the Law of Attraction can line them up for you.

If you focus your energy on what’s wrong with your business, and how you have failed in the past, you will be moving in the wrong direction.

These thoughts of ‘what’s wrong’ will stop you moving forward.

There is nothing wrong in being aware of the negative, but you mustn’t let it define you.

You need to walk towards your desires regardless, and as you move forward you may make mistakes and meet obstacles on the way, but it’s the way that you handle that failure that will move you ever forward.

So what of failure, how does failure help you succeed?

To begin with we need to understand what failure really is.

It’s interesting how we measure our own or other people’s achievements. We use bank balances, property size, lifestyle, power and evidences of abundance as a measure of success or failure, but we don’t really understand the difference between them.

Success and failure are not measures of have or have not, they cannot be judged by the size or the amount of our possessions, they are not destinations that we can look at and pass judgement on.

In Napoleon Hill’s book the Think And Grow Rich, he writes about R.U. Darby and the “Dig and Grow Rich” story, Hill shares with us the story of Darby’s uncle who in the last century, was caught by ‘gold fever’ and went West to dig for gold.

“He staked a claim and went to work with a pick and shovel. The going was hard, but his lust for gold was definite.

After weeks of labor he was rewarded by the discovery of the shining ore. He needed machinery to bring the ore to the surface. Quietly he covered up the mine, retraced his footsteps to his home in Williamsburg, Maryland, told his relatives and a few neighbours of the ‘strike’ They got together money for the needed machinery and had it shipped. The uncle and Darby went back to work in the mine.

The first car of ore was mined, and shipped to a smelter. The returns proved they had one of the richest mines in Colorado! A few more cars of that ore would clear the debts. Then would come the big killing in profits.

Down went the drills! Up went the hopes of the Darby’s! Then something happened! The vein of gold disappeared! They had come to the end of the rainbow, and the pot of gold was no longer there! They drilled on, desperately trying to pick up the vein again, all to no avail.

Finally, they decided to quit.

They sold the machinery to a junk man for a few hundred dollars, and took the train back home. Some ‘junk’ men are dumb, but not this one! He called in a mining engineer to look at the mine and do a little calculating. The engineer advised that the project had failed, because the owners were not familiar with ‘fault lines.’ His calculations showed that the vein would be found just three feet from where the Darby’s had stopped drilling! That is exactly where it was found!

The junk man took millions of dollars in ore from the mine, because he knew enough to seek expert counsel before giving up.”

So is this failure?

As a chapter of Darby’s life, this project is a failure, as the Darby’s quit and gave up on their dreams, only to find that they were only three feet from realising them. But in the contents of Darby’s life it is not failure.

You see Darby took the lesson of success through persistence that he had so harshly learned in his short mining career and applied it to everything he did. As a result Darby became one of a small group of fewer than fifty men who, at that time, sold over a million dollars in life insurance annually.

So what is failure?

Absolute failure is the habit of quitting, while failing with renewed determination to achieve is a stepping-stone to success.

Throughout history, in the world of commerce and science, we see this pattern of failure, determination, persistence and success. How many millionaires have a bankruptcy against their name? How many experiments by the likes of Edison and Bell failed, before they reached the conclusion they had been seeking?

Have you ever heard of WD40?

I think most people know the product, but how many people know how it got its name?

In 1953, a fledgling company called Rocket Chemical Company and its staff of three set out to create a line of rust-prevention solvents and degreasers for use in the aerospace industry.

It took them 40 attempts to get the water displacing formula to work, hence the name WD40, Water Displacement perfected on the 40th try.

Heck they even named their product based on the number of times they failed.

It is with passion and faith that you will have the power of persistence. It is with belief that the Law of Attraction will be invoked and your journey of success will be realized.

Whether you understand the Law of Attraction or not, you must get out of the habit of thinking in your reality (unless your reality is where you want to be).

To make changes to your circumstances you must intend to, you must visualize your dreams and desires and move towards them with passion and faith.

So is it that you were born unlucky or are you simply a bad luck magnet?

Well neither, you were born lucky and you will be as unlucky or as lucky as you think you are.

You define your luck, and you are able to overcome the setbacks that have come your way, but remember, that’s just what they are, setbacks.

Remember you are not judged by how far you fall, but how far you rise after you fall... And you have it within yourself to get back up again, and make it work.

It’s down to you, and only you can make it happen.

Reading your question I see a talented person who has overcome many obstacles, a person of many qualities that are recognised by family, friends and colleges. A parent who is admired and looked up to.

I also see someone who feels and believes that they have been dealt a poor deal, someone who has had trouble coming to terms with the trials of life.

So now it’s down to you, are you going to allow these setbacks to define who you are, or are you going to take control, and take back what’s rightfully yours.

I would seriously consider looking at EFT to overcome these negative emotions, as it is such an easy thing to use, and has some fantastic results. Take a look at this web site called Try It On Everything, you’ll find the tools to take your physical and emotional well-being back into your own hands.

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You Can Be Born Unlucky
by: shayne

I was brought up abused, mentally, physically, sexually, picked on at school, as an adult 43, my life has changed none, in 4 years I broke my back, lost my mother, relationship, cut two of my fingers off, failed business, laid off 3 weeks before xmas, start a new job and on the morning my friggin van breaks down, job gone...................

So if anybody can say,,, you make your luck, or you cant be born with bad luck ,,,,,,then you obviously have good luck, bad luck is a reality and it follows me, I have learnt to expect that every situation in my life turns to sheeeite, not because I?m thinking it will,,,, my thoughts didn?t break my van, my thoughts didn?t cut my fingers off or break my back, on a positive note.. I could have lost all my fingers or maybe not been able to walk again.

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Hi Shayne, I know it seems difficult to accept that you cause the reality you experience by the thoughts you have, after all, who in the right mind would ever think themselves into this kind of misfortune?

But I think you hit the nail right on the head when you said this, ?I have learnt to expect that every situation in my life turns to sheeeite.?

This is exactly what I try to get at. It?s not that you have had thoughts about your van breaking, or cutting off your fingers, or breaking your back, it?s just that you ?expect sheeeite? in whatever form it takes.

So can this change?

Yes it can, and if you?d like to take up the challenge, I?d love to help you out. I will email you personally and hopefully show you how you can start to ?Attract? the experience you want, and learn to expect the best of everything..

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You're not the only one
by: Anonymous

I'm one of those naturally unlucky ones myself, and same as you try to keep as upbeat as possible. people say luck doesn't exsist but I as a poker player of 20 years knows it does. I'm also an avid board gamer and spend many an evening trying out new games with my friends. I KNOW luck exsist simply because I have experienced the bad side of it nearly my whole adult life. It's gotten so bad that friends refuse to play board games or even poker with me, not because of my attitude but because they feel sorry for me that nothing ever goes right for me. but yet I stay upbeat and believe things will balance themselves out.

I believe that the universe is based on balance. it may be unlucky now but I believe it will change in the future. Bare through it and believe that that balance exsists and your time will come, just make sure to keep an open mind on it. perhaps a car narrowly misses you keeping you alive, or your child falls 2 stories and lives. It can come in something obvious or simple, it doesn't always have to be in a form of wealth.

suicide won't solve anything simply because you nor anyone else knows what happens when you die, just live, love hope for the best and raise your child to the best of your abilities and teach them to always be looking up in life.

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Re; Am I born unlucky
by: Anonymous

I agree, I work twice as hard as others, for only half the results. Seems like every time I think something good is going to happen, the rain clouds appear over me, and BAM....Like my last job, I found a job with pretty good pay, I was excelling quickly, management loved me and 10 months into it, they close down the office. Thank god I don't have kids...at least I can pull the plug anytime.....

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Born unlucky - always unlucky forever.
by: David

Unlucky - understatement of the year! I'm ALWAYS unlucky at EVERYTHING - and I mean EVERYTHING. I've NEVER been lucky in life, I have no friends, I'm autistic and everything I try is guaranteed to fail.

There is such a thing as "luck" and some people are born lucky and have everything they want, like rich people such as Bill Gates. Then there are unlucky people like me who always fail and never have luck their entire lives.

Suicide remains a strong possibility to escape from this sheer hell of a life!! It will never get better, I will never have luck and I will always have nobody or nothing, except family.

It is impossible to break a curse.

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Encouragement for original poster and others, etc.
by: Anonymous

Something struck me as very conflicting in your post. You said as a child in school you were 'below average'...boy is that something I'd always felt myself...never made great marks, always struggled, etc. BUT, but, but then you said, you have a DEGREE in business/finance so how does a so called BELOW AVERAGE person get a degree period???

I think it comes down to the old tapes and beliefs about ourselves. IT sounds like you've carried around a chronic sense of low self worth due to what your experiences were and how you felt about them and yourself as a child. So, I'd look at the messages you and others gave to you when you had no choice but to 'accept' them as truth. Work on replacing them with gratitude for all you've managed to learn (about business and people) ie. getting a degree, raising a family as well as INTENDING that your business dealings or anything else you pour yourself into will manifest in good time.

NOW, you are an adult with many responsibilities. I understand how bad it can feel when you put your heart and soul into something and it just doesn't seem to go right. It's easy to see nothing but the LOSSES and it's easy to see all the positives as a useless waste of time and all for not.

But you obviously have some inner work to do on that young person who didn't feel good about themselves and it's carried over to today.

I'm working on this very thing myself. Please know you aren't alone. In fact, I wish I could help you in your business by working for you because its people like you who'd probably give a person like me a chance at a job when others haven't. I'm smart but I do things different and learn differently than others do.

Your life is a precious and necessary thing. You are needed in this world - don't ever give up!

S.K.LF.
AvoidantPersonality.com

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

Some great points, thank you (and thanks for sending the edit..).

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Luck is not a just positive thinking
by: Anonymous

I have read what everybody wrote, indeed such platform for un-lucky is needed to vent our feelings and exasperation and frustration. Well I am another unlucky person born in rich family. Well that's all. All the attempt in my life was unlucky.

I was born with disease when I was child. As i grew up I never made to high grade. House politics spoiled my child hood. I grew up in isolation. I joined my engineering, I was victim of ragging. I started my first venture, it bombed, continued reading Nepolean Hill book THINK & GROW RICH, Nothing changed, joined pranik healing, nothing changed. In all management technique nothing changed. I employed expert managers, nothing changed, kept on loosing money and business never improved.

I had tie up with a national company for marketing, I bombed. Chimney in factory fell down injuring people. Chemical tank exploded injuring people. Factory was jinxed with exorcism, vacated factory and started in house in small way, went for marketing on own, toiled morning till night, with bubble on foot, nothing changed. Took rate contract for govt supplies, I was booked for supplying sub standard with case in court.

Started new business, people cheated me. I started school was doing ok, iI had to sell it off at 20% of the market cost. Now started new business it is bombing. Life is full of shit, may be i am born with bad luck or jinxed. But life is full of miseries, disappointment and bad luck. Now left with only thoughts of suicide in life.

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life is luck ( fact )
by: J

I am 42 and are in the final stages of finishing a book based on life. I have been writing this for over 5 years ( with a ghost writer )

Firstly, to understand who I am. I was born with a very high intellect, that high , that i am part of Mensa. I do not do drugs or drink alcohol. So my mind is as clear as ones could be to do this project.

Let me begin to say that life is 100% luck. there are 2 factors in each persons life. ( fact )

When you are born , you have ( Brute Luck )
This determines your country of birth, gender, race, physical appearance, height, intellect, skills (born with a voice like Mariah Carey, Hit a golf ball like Tiger Woods) etc. And also any diseases, illnesses or disorders you have.

Now your born, you have ( Option Luck )
This is where everyday you have multiple options (forks in the road) where "You" decide the path you take.

A good example of "lucky" option luck, would be meeting your life partner who provides you a stable life, who is born without any illness or disease, does not have a drug or alcohol or gambling addiction.

As I am limited to how much I can write on here. I will leave the title of my book on here when it goes to print (roughly 5 months time July/Aug 2011).

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Life is 100% luck
by: J

I will add very briefly to my previous comment. Rather than further explain my " factual " comments. As i am publishing a 230 page book , which cannot be explained in 3000 words or less.

I would like you to explain " factually " that "your" beliefs are correct , factual.
Please explain how "anyone " can benefit from your affirmations or visualizations.
Please provide me a process or procedure to the following example.

I am a 23 year old female born with severe autism, I cannot speak properly and also have severe atrophy. I was born in the Philippines and live with my Grandmother, as my father died as a child, and my mother left me to live with my Grandmother.

Please explain your extraordinary method/s to turn my life around.

I use this young girl as an example , as the vast majority of people I know throughout third world countries suffer endless heartache and pain.

This is the sole purpose of my book.
You seem to either have a low intellect, or a combination of denial / few life experiences.

I, and other readers on here will wait with anticipation for your detailed and "factual " response.

I say this , and when you offer "false Hope " to people, you are " in fact " offering this to all 6.7 billion people throughout the World.

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A Dilemma
by: Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

Hi J, and thank you for your comments. It's always good to add to the contrast of experience a point of view that makes us choose.

It's rather like the fork in the road you talk about.

To begin with, I didn't want to argue my view against yours, there is no point. This is the beauty of life, there is room enough for both point of views, and either way you look at it, we can both be right.

But this post does leave me with a bit of a dilemma...

Why would one person's life be what we term as lucky and another as unlucky? Seemingly for no reason at all.

Why would it be that when then fork in the road is reached, how a lucky person would randomly choose route A, and lead them self to an experience of abundance and joy, and an unlucky person would choose route B, and lead them self to an experience of poverty and sadness?

I guess you would call this simply bad luck.

Is it the case that when faced with the same choices, a lucky person chooses the right direction, simply because they are lucky, and an unlucky person chooses the wrong direction, simply because they are unlucky?

Basically, if I am unlucky I will tend to make the wrong decision?

This does suggest to me that this person's belief about their luck does tend to lead them to the choices that confirm, what it is they believe.

So here's my dilemma...

If I tend to make the wrong decision because I am unlucky, and my belief about my luck, tends to lead me to the choices that confirm, what it is I believe.

What would happen if I changed my belief, in spite of what I had experienced in the past?

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Born Unlucky
by: Anonymous

To those of you who feel you were born unlucky, I share your angst! But please, I urge you, don't commit suicide. The world needs you. Your smile can make someone's day. Your unconditional love and support can bring infinite happiness to your child. Even if you are unlucky, your life means something in this world. Sure, your experience of life may be terrible, but you are worth something! You deserve to be here! And there are people who would miss you terribly if you go. Sending you all love.

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Dear people
by: Anonymous

if we all start depending on luck for no rhyme or reason, why would God then give us hands, legs, brains...im not sayng luck isnt important, it is. It can cause significant changes.. Not studyng and expecting a distinction in exam and blaming luck is ABSURD...our present life is to seek forgiveness from God for our previous misdeeds(Bhagavad Gita).. Everyone is blessd with sth..God isnt unfair or bias..He loves us all equally..the previous post mentiond sth 100% true, everyone has a role in this world..take for eg this forum, majority of u guys complain abt how unlucky u have been, suicide thoughts etc, and in reply ppl who say sth positive...this is life, we are meant to help one another...Our existence is Gods blessings...place all your faith in Him, He will hold your hand and guide you along.. LOVE IS GOD, GOD IS LOVE...We should all pray for one another

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ALL CRAP..
by: Anonymous

this is all crap. people say i am very ambitious, hard working and type of go-getter.
since last 1 year i am looking for a good job or start my own practice....but each time it comes to final stage..and something unusual happens..infact illogical things also...and i have lost the oppurtunity.
i can challenge that i have not given up..i had tried EACH and EVERY option possible..by keeping my mind open for every possible oppurtnity..but still i failed each time.. i have not thought anything negative at all... believed in myself..
but now...after exploring every possible thing..i wonder...Yes people talk about bad luck..and i have seen it how it is...!its with me.

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suggestion
by: saliyah

hey, i read what others had said. And if anyone says there isnt such thing as luck. I would say its all about believing. If you believe in luck pls continue on believing. Bcos sometimes when you fail its a easy way to cosole yourself. Just blame it on luck and try again. As a suggestion, When i feel sad, the only thing i do is read others experiences. Trust me if you try what i do, you wont be disappointed that much. Btw in the road of sadness always wear positism. Those who wants to suicide, give urself atleast one chance look on the brighter side the end is not far away lol :-B

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suggestion
by: saliyah

hey, i read what others had said. And if anyone says there isnt such thing as luck. I would say its all about believing. If you believe in luck pls continue on believing. Bcos sometimes when you fail its a easy way to cosole yourself. Just blame it on luck and try again. As a suggestion, When i feel sad, the only thing i do is read others experiences. Trust me if you try what i do, you wont be disappointed that much. Btw in the road of sadness always wear positism. Those who wants to suicide, give urself atleast one chance look on the brighter side the end is not far away lol :-B

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by: Sahana

i dont believe in luck,but i am not getting anything which i desire to have. i am struggling at every point of my life. i want to enjoy my life, but nothing goes good. according to others i am the most happiest and luckiest person, but i never felt so. i am introvert, i dont have self confidence, i want to change myself, but i am not able to. i dont know what is the solution for this

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Repies to David
by: Anonymous

Hi. David. I am Autistic too and for a while actually thought your post was mine since I read so many sites about people being unlucky and posting some comments.

Me and my parents no matter how hard we work as soon as we have a decent amount of money saved for emergencies we always have to have it drained usually within 3 months tops and are at *even*.

The only thing that saves us from the debt collectors is we always make sure we can afford what we do and very rarely go on credit so we have good credit standards which is probably the only blessings we ever have.


It seems like if you are good at *faking* and are born *rich* you are guaranteed instant success at whatever it is you are skilled at or otherwise you WILL be a failure in terms of wealth but I am figuring out that we are meant to spread messages of peace and love.

On the contrary: I have lots of vent up frustrations so it's hard to feel any thing close to love at the moment with all the possible conspiracies that are going on all around the world that are right under our noses taking away every bit of our free will under the sun.. :( :( :( :(

To make matters worse I am no good at keeping friends as life causes them to gravitate away from me as if life thinks I am a disease.

Sigh I wish I was born rich and ignorant as ignorant is the bliss.

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Luck exists but we choose......
by: Anonymous

How to respond to it. Some of us our born to be unlucky but choosing to bottle up anger will just attract more negativeness then what we were born with.

And to those who don't believe in luck well all I can say is *Ouch! I am glad I am not one of them.* These people will eventually though perhaps not in this current life time will eventually hit rock bottom then later realize everything we do is based upon luck and it's how we respond.

If I respond with more anger then I attract more of the same in return as I have lost a lot of good turn arounds due to my anger issues. :(

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you can be born unlucky
by: Anonymous

Peoples who dont beleive in luck are the lucky ones... It make peoples feel better to think they deserve the good stuff that happen to them because they think positivelly. The little palestinian child wouldnt had his organs harvested if he was thinking positivelly.

I saw also a post about boardgame, I suggest you play games that have no chance in it. ex: Puerto Rico

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I believe we all born to be lucky
by: yasmin

We are all born equal.And we all back to same prosess as we come in this planet. That is showing us we all are the same.owever it is your responsiblity to work your dreams with attention and focus and if you think you didn't think you were born with luck, make your luckines.


We all have the key to make our life in a better way.

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Life sucks, it's full of pain
by: Anonymous

Some of us are born unlucky. I've been dogged by ill-health and ill-luck all my life, just when I thought I was out of the woods and things were finally going well, I became type-1 diabetic too. Bad luck has dogged me in everything I do - everything I try fails, usually in a way that seems to punish me for trying with a cruel one-in-a-million irony.

Everything I get involved in crashes and burns, whether it's business, social life or charity.

I've tried to be decent, kind and honest all my life yet those around me who are stupid, cruel and dishonest always seem to go on to greater and greater prosperity whilst my life gets worse and worse.

Life is worthless, a long drawn-out agony. I look forward to the end of it all, if only for the relief from the constant punishment.

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Love, Motherhood, Luck & Life
by: Mermaid

I've the worst life ever and I'm still trying to figure out why "Me" of all the rest!
My life is without any love and mostly repeatedly failures in Love, education, career, gambling
Nothing I do can work out for me. I'm such a failure and loser
From the first day I entered Casino till today I've been losing & losing throughout. Lots of my saved money has been eaten up never can I be a winner or walk out of the casino as a winner. I really hate myself so much!
One side I'm losing money, one side I'm losing lots of hairs,
One side there's no love in my life!
I'm so alone but there's one thing I know for sure,
God really hates me! I was so close to buying my own
Car but, struck with a tragedy that ended all my passion of driving. I'm still wondering why I'm still Alive!

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What a useless life of mine
by: Anonymous

For the past years, I have tried to build up my life but all my efforts are in vain. I work very hard, yet nothing changes for better. I am 39 and sometimes, i feel it is because I am not married. For this reason i borrowed money from a close relative and got married to see if things will change for better and it seems i have just made the biggest mistake of my life. I am confused and completely tired of life itself. I wish to die but I cannot commit suicide due to my upbringing. I am just trying to accept my fate and wait until my dying day. I am truly regretting ever been born to this world. Could it be that I am unlucky or is it just my destiny?

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one is either mostly lucky or mostly unlucky
by: Anonymous

I am one of those who are MOSTLY UNLUCKY.I hate my life.It feels like opportunities that just fall into other people's laps,pass me by.When I expect the opportunity to be in the east and go for it,it was in the west all along.When I go north,it was in the south all along.It feels like someone is playing a game with me,and is enjoying seeing me go through this.I like to call it fate.Its like I was destined to miss all chances.I'm always losing when everyone else is making it.I come from Kenya,and here,people love the English Premier league.I stopped watching since whenever I'm wanting team A to win,team B will always win.If it wasn't so annoying,it would be funny.But I have to admit,I thought I was alone.I just stumbled onto this website,and I'm glad to see that I'm not alone.I actually feel better after writing this.Well,I guess I'll just get back to my already crappy day.

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Would you, if the opportunity presented itself, try to change your luck?
by: John Peace Law-of-Attraction-Guide

This post on my website has been concerning me for some time now, with the various messages of despair and unhappiness that are being put up as comments, these messages go against many of the ideas and beliefs that I promote with this site.

The site is called the Law-of-Attraction-Guide, and is meant as a guide to anyone who wishes to know about how and why the Law of Attraction works, and how to get this Law working to your advantage.

So, what it the Law of Attraction?

Simply put, the Law of Attraction says that the reality you experience is aligned to you, based on your predominant thoughts and feelings. That you attract to your life whatever you give your attention, energy and focus to. Whether wanted or unwanted.

Put another way, we create our reality by what we think.

Of course, for anyone who has a completely ?unwanted? reality, they would tend to shout no at this suggestion, after all, who in their right mind would create an unwanted and totally undesirable experience, if they had the power within themselves to change it? And the only reason you would think about being unlucky would be that you had had that experience, and your thoughts are only an observation of what had happened.

There is some truth in that, but I warn you, if you continue to observe and think about all the bad luck you have had, these thoughts will only serve to bring you more of the same.

So my question to anyone who feels as though you are doomed to failure and despair is this, ?would you, if the opportunity presented itself, try to change your luck??

And if so, would you commit 30 Days to giving this a try?

You see, I cannot convince you that the source of all your bad luck is in your mind, but what I can do is demonstrate it, and if you would commit 30 Days to do this, and I mean truly do this, you can change your luck.

If you want to stand up against these forces of misfortune that have been dealt to you, follow this link to purchase my 30 Day Law of Attraction WorkBook.

The cost of the program is just $27 Dollars, and I guarantee you that this will be the most valuable purchase ever made. If not, I will return your money.

Believe me, you were not born unlucky, it?s just that up to now you have not been shown the way to create the luck you need.

Give me 30 Days to show you how to change you luck?

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Almost the same as the guy who asked this question
by: Anonymous

I can relate with the man who asked this question. I'm 17 and yes, I've heard the whole "you're still young, it'll get better" bit. Well, first listen.
All of my life I feel like I could do anything. But in grade school, from about 4th grade up, I was bullied for reasons unknown. While that didn't affect my studies, it affected me. I felt that if I ignored it, it'll stop. But it never did. It only got worse to the point wen I shouted a threat out of rage at the class for joining in on the bullying and then no one let me live that down. In 8th grade, I finally found a best friend, my only true friend. We're stil friends now, but around mid-junior year he got a gf. Then we kind of drifted apart, but stil maintained contact. But with him getting a gf and everyone else around me getting into relationships, I couldn't help but feel left out of love. I had a few gfs before, but each one ended after like a month or so. To add onto that, I just dropped my new iPhone after only one day of having it. I've felt really depressed, mostly cause I'm having a hard time trying to find a gf and more steady relationship. They all say that I should wait and let love come to me, but I feel like I've waited too long for the right one. My heart aches wen I see some of these couples and then look at myself and kick myself for letting the bullies get to me and ruin my self confidence. So why can't I find love like my friends did and how can I feel better evn after going thru so much with the bullies and let my heart be broken, hoping that each girl I was w/ thnk that she could fix it?

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No luck
by: Anonymous

I agree with everyone on here about bad luck. I have had nothing good happen to me in 54 years. Everything has been a disaster. Everything I have tried or done falls apart. I can stand on a corner and get hit by a car...on the other side of the road. People are born lucky or not lucky. Period.

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unlucky
by: Anonymous

I'm an unlucky person that has only scored luck once in my 26 yeats living on this rotten rock.

Was writing a job list so i could convince the welfare office i was looking for work and get free money but as i was about to leave one job ad caught my attention.

The more i stared at the job ad the more 'strange' feelings i got from within me.

I told my welfare office if he could setup an appoiontment for this job ad. Week later i got the job.

Now that is LUCK or pure FLUKE. Really the same thing.

5 years later i have been having more bad luck occurin than good luck. The latest being that i lost someone cordless drill, which has a story of its own.

A good luck is when you take a step back from the situation to have a better look and you end up telling yourself 'it turned out better than you had expected'. Now that is when you had a good luck moment

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my problem
by: prince soni

Hi sir/ma'am,

My name is prince studying in college right now. My father is teacher. He wants me to be topper in my class in study, but still i actually performed average getting around 70% in study

Because of this reason i wasn't allowed to go outside of my house, play with friends, since my childhood.

Due to this reason i began to disrespect him, not talk to him, not to help him when he is miserable like bringing medicine when he is ill.

He finally realised now that i do not respect him and soon i will leave him when i got job.

He's is sorry for all of his action, has become suddenly too linent to me.

There is also one problem in the college . girls like me a lot . i am one of the most smart and handsome guy in my class, so you kind a understand girl do come near to me again asking for help in some work.

Bit you know what they too stoped talking to me because i do not talk to them. I have become like this i talk very less, there are no friends of me in class and i prefer to stay alone.

But i want to make girl friend, dammit what should i do??

Regardimg study i want to go to abroard. For this i am tryimg hell a lot. Studying for 12-14 hrs per day, .any doesn't even get the tym to read newspaper r visit relative house.
My life is boring but i am still working hard bcoz after few years i would be leaving alone hence i need to have good job.

Please help me . a lot of tym i cry bcoz of social insecurity

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Hard work, upbeat, and still unlucky
by: Anonymous

I am the least lucky person I have ever met. I have worked my ass off my whole life and kept a positive attitude. BUT, it has never mattered. I have had to struggled my entire life. Worked harder than anyone else, and always I get crap results. It is to the point that I refuse to play any games involving luck at all. I am a talented person, but the second you add an element of luck.....I fail. Don't give me this crap about positive thinking either. For 20 years I have always kept a positive attitude and it didn't amount to crap. It is to the point now that I no longer even try.

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black cloud
by: Anonymous

So sorry to disappoint,but you are wrong. Iwas raped by a parent sarting before I could remember. My mother took a blind eye. NO child chooses full on intercourse before age four just as no child begs for it to continue until age 12, 3 to 4 times a week. No child asks for a police officer to put her head in a pot of boiling (Rolling boil) water on the stove. No child says no doctor because the cop would be punished. I am now 60 and the black cloud still follows me with lightning striking. I live my life trying to make good for others because there is nothing for me. So that I guess that is all choice. I do not choose this life. It is what has been handed to me. I have tried everything to no avail. Now I hope for death not of my own hand because I believe I will have to redo this horrible time. No matter what you can not make silk from a sows ear. So I continue to try making life better for others and waiting for my black cloud to end

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Luck
by: Anonymous

The reason I was on this page was because I feel like you do, the only thing that I have learnt from life are its bitter lessons. I have been bumped from one disappointment to the next. It has turned me into a bitter person. Trust me I have cursed God a lot, but it has given me a new defiance. It's like a bully picking on a weakling. That's how I see God. Like a bully. But like everyone knows there is a tipping point where either the weakling looses it or looses the fear of it. I would like to see of myself as one of those stubborn asses who refuses to learn in life. I keep asking the questions until God himself is frustrated and sick and tired of my inscasent pestering and gives into my demands. Keep at it. Guys there is a true story of a man in india who demolished a mountain. It's not a folk lore, it happened in the recent past. It took him his whole lifetime but he did it. He destroyed a mountain. Be stubborn. Be arrogant in the face life. I want you to be arrogant and scoff at life.

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born unluck
by: Anonymous

fully blown up unlucky me. i stop college bec of my ex bf, using drugs and unfavirable work, my parents brought me in rehab and finish college with poor grades. i did abortion many times,being prostitutes, sex slave gf,beung rape and abused. i work abroad but not last i go home empty handed. in a relationship with a wrong man, and a guy that cant bulit a family. all my life is distressing, lot of problems, loosing hope, sometimes i feel why i have been born, i dont realize this is the life i have been through when i was young. i think theres no future is waiting for me i cant ptedict for a good one, im older now and i cant find till now my self in a good succesful and happy life it can be. its all in my head and never be came true. all struggle and only bitterness. born unlucky wish ur not born

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U dont make youre own luck
by: Anonymous

Such bullshit!!!! 1 good =3 bad daily.. Some are just born losers no matter what its always bad luck.

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Don't get it
by: Greg

Had health problems since birth, uncaring family, bullied all during school hence education has suffered hence no career. Never had friends I mean every false,con or negative in life I got. No joke from no birthdays, holidays, graduations, weddings, anniversaries ha I mean every single damn thing a human does I did NOT. Long story short I still have health problems at age 50+ no life and just waiting for it to end. Now this is what I don't get..For 50+ effing years I get crapped on but yet I don't get to just freaking die?!! I mean really WTF!! 50 years just flew by but at times it felt like a 100 or 10 man I really hope there is no such thing as reincarnation.

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Through Christ there is salvation
by: Anonymous

We all feel pain and suffering from circumstances in our lives. We all may think there is no end to this suffering but there is.

This is the physical world, everything is depended on time an everything is worked by physics. It may sound like I'm getting off track, but this here is the truth. The time will come when we will die, we will enter a different dimension instantaneously and become immortal. Happens to everyone!!!!

In this dimension there is eternity, there is no number that can describe eternity. It's for ever and ever and ever, infinity. Nothing is the physical or time relevant anymore.

LOVE through Jesus the father's only begotten son can set us free from all of our fears, through love anything can change. Just ask him tell him that you want change, tell him you want peace and a different life. Tell him you want him and embrace the holy spirit.

don't believe it, try it! spiritually open your heart and let him in.

Through Christ anyone can change, anyone can love and simply be reborn.

It is such a beautiful thing that Jesus died on the cross for all of us through his love. He made it possible that we can all be saved. Just choose life. Eternal life for all eternity.

Life on Earth is not easy, but at least it can be made better and embrace us spiritually to keep you going and strong.




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Empathy
by: Ntukwasi

Feels the same with you here @ Mermaid ? Hope it'll still work out

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Doesnt work NEW
by: Anonymous

Im only 13 but life is already hitting me round the backside with bad luck. I think i wasted it all getting into a good school because now everything is going down, for instance give me a board game that involves dice (ecxept for monopoly) and i can nearly guarantee that i will lose. I have become so used to failure that i can expect to lose which i do. I tried the techniques listed above but i cant get the negativity to go away and not much goes right these days. I also cant do public speaking because (this is the voice of my failures speaking) i will mess up and i need a better friendship status; more than 2 friends. At least my grades have been good. Thats probably one of the few things stopping me from getting depression, even at my age.

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