Apply The Law of Attraction To Heal A Relationship
I have been in a relationship with this guy for 7 months but it's a long distance relationship. I went back home and meet him for 4 days and we were a perfect couple, and I knew it from the start that I was so in love with him and will never be able to leave him.
But in 2010, April, we broke up for a small misunderstanding and no one's taking any action to get each other back, and also we're in different places.
I really love him and I can forgive him for what he did, no matter what, I want him back into my life but I cant take any action because we have broken up for 2 times before and both of those times, I crawled back to him. But this time, I have to keep my dignity and pride.
In my deepest soul, I really love him, but I also know that he doesn’t want me back and is moving on.
Will you give me an advice on how I can apply the Law of Attraction to heal the relationship and get him back?
I know he's the only one who can give me my true happiness in love.Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
In order for you to repair any relationship, it is important that you focus your thoughts on the best of what you feel from someone.
All to often, relationships break down because one or both parties of a relationship focus on the unwanted behaviour they see, rather than the wanted behaviour they see. And as the Law of Attraction aligns you to the things you focus upon, you manifest more unwanted behaviour.
This pattern of thought can also said to be true of many peoples day-to-day experience, that is, that they spend more time aligning to what they don’t want, rather than aligning to what they do want.
For example, you say that you know he's the only one who can give you your true happiness in love, and because this is what you believe, and you feel that this experience is missing, your thoughts and feelings align you to the lack of this experience.
It is the very fact that you believe that he is the only one who can give you your true happiness in love, that you align yourself to the lack of your true happiness and love.
So clearly you have a choice…
You can either swallow your dignity and pride, and take the action you feel you need to take, to get this person back.
But if you were to do this, you have to understand that you cannot manifest in his reality, you cannot make him change the way he
feels, or align him to a reality that doesn’t match his vibration.
Or you find your true happiness and love for yourself, and add this focus to your vibration, and simply align to the source of love that comes to you.
You see, the Law of Attraction aligns thought and feeling to experiences, and whatever you predominantly think and feel, is the cause of your reality.
Thought is cause, and the effect is the reality you see.
So what is the effect you want to see?
Well effects are experiences, and experiences are made up of events, circumstances and people.
It is easy to understand that we cannot predict the events and circumstances that define our reality, but you have to accept that neither can you predict the people.
An effect is not an event, not a circumstance, nor is it a person. An effect is an experience, and an experience is made up of a number of specific things happening in your life.
So what experience do you want?
It is my understanding that you desire the experience of being in a truly happy and loving relationship, and if this is the case, you need to define the cause in the way of thoughts, that will produce this effect.
If thoughts are the cause of all experience, it is clear that thoughts of love and happiness shall produce an experience of love and happiness. It is therefore going to be much more productive to attend to your thought, rather than attending to your reality.
By believing that he is the only source of this feeling, you are putting happiness and love out side of you. You are attaching a condition of being with him, and only then being happy and in love, and for as long as you are without him, you are aligning to the ‘withoutness’ of this experience.
But there is only one true love and happiness, and that is a true love and happiness for self. It carries no conditions, and depends on nothing.
It is with a true love and happiness for self that self becomes loving and happy, and as self then carries the thought that creates the cause, it will align to loving and happy effects.
The work and the action lies within, not without, and as soon as you attend to self, self will align to the best of the without experience.
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