Applying The Law of Attraction To Get My Love Back

by Richa
(Mumbai)

I broke up with my guy around 3 months back!!! Everything was perfect a day before my break up, and he gave silly reasons for breaking up, which I haven’t been able to know by far..!!

We were in a very beautiful relationship, our parents too knew about it!! We were sure that we would definitely be a married couple some day!!

Somehow everything went wrong. He doesn’t talk to me and I have tried talking once, but keeping my self-respect in picture, I haven tried calling him since that day!!

I want him back and I want things between us to be better. I love him a lot and want him, and only him, and a better him..

I tried applying the secret, but I don’t know how to exactly apply it to this situation.

Can you pleas help me get by love back??

Please tell me, by using my thoughts, what can I do or what should I do to get the love of my life back, and what can be done to make things better???

Please help me!

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

To begin with, it must be understood that you cannot manifest a reality for another, the Law of Attraction does not work that way.

The Law of Attraction aligns experiences for us based on our predominant thoughts and feelings, our vibration, and whatever we vibrate through our thoughts and emotions, becomes our reality.

If we vibrate happiness and focus our thoughts on what makes us happy, we experience a reality that makes us feel happy. And if we vibrate loneliness and focus our thoughts on the things that make us alone, we experience a reality that makes us feel alone.

This is a Law for all of us, and it is the way that someone vibrates that creates the experiences they have.

It would be impossible for you to focus your thoughts and feelings in such away that your boyfriend would receive the experiences that you are aligned to. That would defy Law.

He aligns to his reality based on his vibration, and you align to your reality based on your vibration.

I understand that in the past you have both aligned to each other’s reality based on each of your vibrations, so in effect you have both manifested a reality in each other, so why can you not continue to do so?

Our reality is made situations, opportunities, events and people, and each of these things are brought to us depending upon the way we vibrate, therefore our thoughts and feelings do effect other peoples reality, because they exist in ours.

But these people do not randomly exist in our reality, they come into our experience based on what they vibrate, and what we vibrate.

They are cooperative part of our creations, as we are of theirs. Our combined experience together, is a match for what they are aligning to, as it is a match with what we are aligning to.

Our reality is like a cooperative soup of events and people that bring to each person involved, a match to a specific thought and feeling.

Everyone in your reality, the people you like and the people you don’t like, are all there because they are being held there by each other’s vibration.

But as much as we are bringing some people into this cooperative alignment, we are also pushing others away, and as our thoughts and emotions change, so do the people that are match to our thoughts and feelings.

It is this change in thinking and feeling that is the biggest cause of relationship breakdowns, and the unfortunate thing is that most people cause this misalignment without ever knowing what it happening.

The Law of Attraction aligns experiences for us based on our predominant thoughts and feelings, and for as long as our thoughts and feelings towards our partner are happy, joyful and fun, we will normally have a happy, joyful and fun experience together.

This is normal in a new relationship when each person looks for, and feels the happy, joyful and fun things about the other, and if they are a cooperative match to each other’s vibrations, it is easy to manifest the happy, joyful and fun experiences.

But as time goes by, it is not unusual for one or both parties to start to notice the ‘not so pleasing’ behaviour of the other.

How often do you hear married couple complaining about their wife’s nagging or their husband’s laziness?

It is no coincidence that the more we notice, think about and feel this unwanted behaviour, that the more unwanted behaviour we seem to experience, as our vibrationaly matching cooperative partners, help to manifest exactly what we vibrate.

Or, put it this way, they match the vibration of the unwanted behaviour, for as long as they are a cooperative part of this creation, and as soon as they become the uncooperative part, they leave the vibration altogether. They have to, it is Law.

So how does this help you?

I can understand your feelings for the lack of this relationship, but for as long as you think and feel, or vibrate this lack, this is what you shall experience.

This is also true of your want and need, as you can only continue to align to more want and need by not being together.

He is the cooperative part for you to continue to align to your focused thoughts and feelings.

It is your very thoughts and feelings that make it impossible for you to come together, and for as long as you to continue to manifest more lack, want and need, he has to be in a position where you lack, want and need him.

The secret to applying the Law of Attraction, is shifting your thoughts and feelings to match your desires, not the lack of them, and any adjustment to your vibration, will have to be mirrored in the experiences you receive. It is Law.

Focus your thoughts and feelings on what this relationship gave you, not what you are going without, and as you do, the cooperative parts that are needed to manifest this reality, shall be brought to your experience.

Will this bring you back together?

Unfortunately, no one can say…

If he is a cooperative part of what you most desire, then it could happen, after all he has been matching your vibration for a long time now.

But if he is no longer a matching part of your desires, he will have to leave your vibration altogether, so that the perfect alignment can be found.

If you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below…





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