Applying The LOA To Revert Everything

by Bee
(New York, NY, United States)

I have been in a committed relationship for 2 years. 3 years ago I went through a major heart break and The Secret helped me recover from it and soon I started applying LOA to manifest the person that I want to spend my life with, and it did happen. I started going out with a common friend of my roommate and we started our relationship. He was everything I wanted .. we even moved in together and he was committed to me until recently when we started fighting a lot over everything.

But still we couldn't be separated and still wanted to marry . We also talked to our parents but all of a sudden from nowhere he got laid off and on top of that he has a court case going on for driving under influence. We come from very good families and have never been in such situation. He was already traumatized with all this and his parents got to know about it so they lost trust on him. Any positivity I try to bring he shoves it off saying that all these things like LOA is bullshit and only bad things are going to happen after this

He is so depressed that he has even talked about ending his life a few times. And I am so scared and worried for him. I want to help him but how.

And due to all these situation he has lost his self confidence and has become a very negative person, he thinks we should not be together now because he does not have a good future.

Please, please tell me how do I use the LOA to makes things better in our life.

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

To apply the Law of Attraction, I would tell anyone who asked, to focus on the best things they have in their life, and spend some time each day feeling some gratitude for what they have that pleased them, and then, as events unfold throughout their reality I would tell them to focus on the parts of their experiences that pleased them, and whenever they felt negative about something that had happened, or felt fear or worry about what might happen, I would tell them to refocus their attention to those things that make them feel good.

To apply the Law of Attraction, I would tell anyone who didn’t ask, nothing.

Why? Because not everyone is ready to hear that they have created their own reality by thinking and feeling in a certain way, and if they are faced with a completely unwanted experience, it might not be helpful to tell them that they created this experience themselves, no matter how true it is.

You may be surprised for me to tell you that the remedy for negative thinking is not thinking positively. This is because to think positively when you are thinking negatively is impossible, and as the two states cannot be in the same place at the same time, the more you try to bring him positivity, the more he’ll push you away.

Our emotions are an important part of understanding the Law of Attraction, because how we feel helps us to understand how near we are to attracting our desires.

For example, if we are in joy, appreciation and happiness, we are vibrating at a high frequency and because we have no resistance, many of our desires are being manifested to our reality. But if we are in a state of depression, fear and unworthiness, we are vibrating at a low frequency and as the feeling that we would have if our desires were manifest would not match the way we were feeling, our desires are held from us.

Putting it simply, feelings of joy manifest a reality that joy can continue to be expressed, while feelings of depression manifest a reality in which depression can continue to be expressed. We are what we feel.

Abraham-Hicks describes our emotions as a Emotional Guidance Scale that ranges from the high vibrations of love and joy, right down to the lower emotional vibrations of fear and depression.

1. Joy/Appreciation/Empowered/Freedom/Love
2. Passion
3. Enthusiasm/Eagerness/Happiness
4. Positive Expectation/Belief
5. Optimism
6. Hopefulness
7. Contentment
8. Boredom
9. Pessimism
10. Frustration/Irritation/Impatience
11. Overwhelment
12. Disappointment
13. Doubt
14. Worry
15. Blame
16. Discouragement
17. Anger
18. Revenge
19. Hatred/Rage
20. Jealousy
21. Insecurity/Guilt/Unworthiness
22. Fear/Grief/Depression/Despair/Powerlessness

And it is along this scale that we must move when we attempt to raise our vibration from what we could think of as a negative vibration, to a vibration that is more positive and constructive.

Your boyfriend is probably expressing emotions of powerlessness and unworthiness, and in your attempt to help him move up the emotional scale, you are probably pushing him towards hopefulness and optimism, which is an impossible leap to make.

If you think about your own circumstances, when you want through your heartache you plummeted down the emotional scale, from your emotions of happiness and positive expectation, to emotions of possibly anger, blame or frustration.

Then, after seeing The Secret, you possible began to move towards contentment and hope, and as you then started to apply these methods you felt belief, enthusiasm and passion, until you manifest this relationship with the joy, empowerment and love you have.

So what can you do?

Without doubt, your job is to stay as high up the emotional scale that you can. If your boyfriends attitude has helped you to move to pessimism, look to feel content. When you are feeling content about yourself I am sure that you will be able to find hopefulness and optimism, and from there, belief, enthusiasm, passion and then joy.

Your job lies at joy, because at joy your desires are manifest.

Yes you can help your boyfriend, but you can only help him express himself, and be there ready for him to start his move up this emotional scale.

When he is angry, you can help him in his discouragement and blame, when he is accusing, you can help him to identify with his worries and doubts. When he is doubtful, you can see his disappointment and understand his overwhelment and frustration. And in his frustration you can join him in pessimism. It is only then that he might start to understand your contentment and hope.

Remember hatred is more positive than depression, anger is more positive than hatred, and worry if more positive than anger, and although positive thoughts may not be the answer to negative emotions, thoughts that are a little more positive than how he feels, will help him to feel better.

With Gratitude

John Peace

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