Attract A Mate Using The Law of Attraction

Over the past couples of years I have expanded my knowledge and awareness on many different subjects including the laws of the universe, manifesting and quantum physics.

My desire is to attract someone who is well versed on these subjects and who uses them in their own life; but I don't seem to be able to attract someone on my level. The men I meet have no idea what I'm talking about when I bring up these subjects.

I love to have my mind stimulated and seem unable to attract anyone who is able to go on that deep level with me, could you please shed some light on this matter, as I am having difficulty understanding why I'm not attracting friends and men alike, who are on the same path as I am, since I believe likes attract likes!!

Thank you for taking the time to read this lengthy question.


Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

The Law of Attraction will always align us with the circumstances and opportunities, which match our vibration. What is our vibration?

Our vibration is the culmination of our focused thoughts, feelings and beliefs, and whatever resonance we have, our experience shall always be a perfect match.

It will always be the case that someone who experiences an unwanted reality, must also be vibrating a match to that unwanted reality, and in just the same way, someone who experiences a wanted reality, must be vibrating a match to that wanted reality.

It’s interesting that many people seem to have minor successes using the Law of Attraction, but fail to get it to work when it comes to an important, specific thing.

The key to this problem is the importance that we put on this specific thing.

Whether it’s a specific type of person, a specific health problem or a specific amount of money, the more important these things are, the more difficult they seem to be to manifest.

This is because many people put so much effort into manifesting these important things, that their lack of them, causes them to notice the lack, more than they notice the circumstances and opportunities that are calling to them.

For instance, if you are trying to attract a specific person, and you keep noticing that you are failing to attract that specific person, you would usually respond by trying harder.

Then as you try harder to attract that specific person, and you notice even more that you are failing to attract that specific person, you respond by trying even harder.

Then as you try even harder to attract that specific person, and you notice that, more than ever, you are failing to attract that specific person, you respond by trying harder than ever.

And so on, and so on, I think you get the picture.

So what’s happening here?

The more you try, the more you see that it does not work, and so you try more, and the more you try, the more you see that it does not work.

It’s almost as if the effort you are making is underlying the lack of what you are looking for, it is adding emphasis to what you do not have, and your focus through effort on more of that something, is translating into a shift of vibration to the lack of it.

So that the harder you try, the more of a vibration of lack you are offering, and as the Law of Attraction always lines you up with your vibration, a reality of lack is what you get.

To get over this problem you need to de-emphasise what you want. Yes I know that you are told to visualize and think and act as if your wanted reality was happening now, but if your efforts are causing so much want, maybe it would be better to back off a bit.

To be honest, you have been very clear in what you want, and I don’t think that the Universe could get your message any clearer.

So how would you de-emphasise what you want?

Very simply, by just becoming satisfied, happy, content, self assured and grateful for where you are now, and having faith that when the time is right, your perfect partner will be found.


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Mar 25, 2011
by: Anonymous

Thanks John,

It was very well put and clearly explained. I have now understood my past mistakes- why my relationship did not work in the past and why it started working out later - because I put too much emphasis on it, slogged to make it work - but all that it gave me were tears, bad health and adversty in my career.

Finally when I realised that I could no longer try to please my husband, i put my foot down, stopped bending over backwards for him, resgined from my job and took good care of my own self (mentally and emotionally).

and then the miracle happened. my previously 'irritating' husband miraculously started trying to be a good husband own his own accord. having read the above article, I now undertand how that happened.

I am not trying the principles of LOA and am trying to get a job/sucess in a business. I hope that it materialises soon.

Aug 25, 2011
by: Anonymous

but wait, what if u arent just content with waitng, what if u want that partner now. Then what, is there a defect in the loa or how the universe works.

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