Attract My Husband Back

by Maggy C
(Nanjing,Jiangsu,China)

Two and a half months ago I told my husband I wanted a divorce. I felt lonely and misunderstood by him because we were so far away from each other. At that time I was in China and he stayed at home in Germany.


He begged me to think over it until I came back, but I didn't want to, so he finally complied to my request...

Then I watched the secret movie and began to realize it was not his fault that I was unhappy, but mine.

I wanted him back.

I wrote him emails full of regret telling him I wanted him back and I believed we could make it happen again.

We never really talked through our differences.

He replied that he wanted us to stay friends but his final decision was only friends.

He's a Muslim, so even though we're not legally divorced, once he speaks it out, it's done.

I want him back, as my husband not as a friend.

I'll be returning to Germany in less than a months time...

Can the law of attraction give him back to me, even though he might not want to at the moment, or had other romantic encounters I might not be aware of?

Thank you for advice,


Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

Hi Maggy, and thanks for your question.

Simply put, you cannot use the Law of Attraction to manifest in an others reality.

The Law of Attraction says that whatever you think about, whatever you feel about and whatever you vibrate, becomes your reality.

If you think, feel and vibrate love and joy, love and joy shall be your experience.

If you think, feel and vibrate sadness and heartache, sadness and heartache shall be your experience.

So what ever you think, feel and vibrate, shall determine your experiences, not your husbands. And, of course, whatever your husband’s thoughts, feelings and vibration will, in turn, determine his experiences.

So where do you go from here?

Continue to think, feel and vibrate love and joy. Accept your husbands hand of friendship, it is a generous offer, and one with which many bridges can be built.

Of course he will not jump at building a relationship with you, look what happened the last time. He has learnt, subconsciously that all the trust and love that you offered him, can be turned against him, leaving him empty, lonely and sad.

No matter what the goods times are, that will be his lasting memory, and he’ll do anything he can, to protect himself.

Accept his friendship, but not as a stepping stone to something else, as someone to share and enjoy experiences together, if it is meant to be, it will be, but on each others terms, not your demands.

I would suggest that you read Esther and Jerry Hicks book, Ask and It Is Given: Learning to Manifest Your Desires another good read which will help you, would be John Grays book How to Get What You Want and Want What You Have


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Oct 21, 2009
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Good Answer, Good Answer
by: Anonymous

I have been going to a similar situation and luckily for me I found "The Secret" in time.

We have successful turned around our relationship, day-by-day and each day he is becoming more loving, giving and compasionate and I hope to eventually fully renew our vowes to seal a fresh start.

There is hope and you can turn around your relationship and you never know, it may even be with your very same husband. I wish you love, joy and peace and know that everything will work out for you.

P.S. The Abraham Hicks book is a great read and will make you feel good. Try it, I loved it!

Dec 16, 2010
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Today is a New Day
by: Anonymous

Thank you for being positive and encouraging.

I grew up in a very abusive home. I looked to God for guidence, I had to hide my bible from my father, but the Word help me through it all.

I believe in the Law-of-Attraction, if you think it, it will be.

My partner and I were together for 10 years, several years ago, I lost my mom, his father and his mother moved in for over a year, he kicked out my son and our relationship fell apart.

I have always tried to keep a positive attitude, but I let the sititution destroy my attitude.

We became angry, distrustful and we verbally abused each other and 3 kids who were at home. The final straw was when he grab my arm and left a 3" dark purple brusie. I called the police and we seperated.

It has been a year, and a year of emotional roller coaster. I have two sons;from another marriage, he has a daughter from another relationship and we have an 8 year old son. We have been been trying to make something work, we are co-partening our son, but all the anger, distrust and hurt kept getting in the way.

About a month ago, after another misunderstanding, our son not wanting to go to his house and a talk at a netural place, we did not get anything worked out. I left, he left.

He showed up at my home, he said to just give our son a hug, but I know better. He hugged our son and left. I thought I was wrong, he really did want to just give our son a hug.

He has control issues, has to have the last word, just can not let things rest and allow emotions cool off. This brought back many issues and emotions of my childhood.

In the last year, many people gave me and my boys spritual support. I have come to forgive, let go of the anger and guilt and begin to put God first in our lives. He does not have a strong spritual faith and does not believe anything he can't see, tough or understand. He refuses to seek family couseling to resolve our difficulties.

I invited my son's father to a local place to talk, he was unsure and did not want to fight anymore. I agree, but I wanted to let him that things will be changing in my home and I wanted a positive path for all of us.

It was very emotional, but good. Now that I have let go of the anger and guilt, my attitude good. I know that there will be bumps in the road, but staying positive will get us through anything. I want my boys to also see that"It is not what happens to you, but how you react to it". Life can be easy or hard, it is our attitudes that determine which way.

Thanks for being here for all of us that need to just hear how to become more positive.

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