Attracting A Permanent Job
I NEED A DECENT PERMANENT JOB WITH A DECENT SALARY. THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE TELEPHONED ME ARE RUDE BECAUSE I WAS FIRED FROM MY PREVIOUS JOB, THE TRUTH IS MY PREVIOUS JOB WAS MY FIRST JOB AFTER STUDYING AND I HAD TO FEND FOR MYSELF I WAS NOT TRAINED, MY BOSS SAID I WAS NOT COPING AND FIRED ME. MOST OF MY JOBS BEFORE THAT WERE TEMP JOBS I WAS UNABLE TO GET A PERMANENT JOB BECAUSE I HAD NO SKILLS. I AM 32 YEARS OLD AND I AM STRUGGLING, I AM BECOMING DESPERATE, IT IS GOING INTO MY 5TH MONTH OF UNEMPLOYMENT! PLEASE HELP ME?
I would like to answer your question in two parts, firstly how and what you’ve written, and then, how to find your ideal job.
The Law of Attraction is a law by which you attract to your life, whatever you give attention, energy and focus on, whether you want it or not.
In other words, by giving a situation attention, or noticing it, and by offering energy or emotion to it, and then by focusing or thinking about it, you will bring to your life more similar situations.
This is great when you’re getting what you want, but disastrous if you are not.
Here’s what I mean....
You have noticed that people are rude to you on the phone, this makes you feel an emotion, an energy or a vibration, you then think about people being rude on the phone.
Now the Law of Attraction doesn’t know that this is not what you want, it just lines you up with things you give attention, energy and focus to, so, the next time you use the phone, you are more likely to experience a rude person.
When you do, you notice it, offer it vibration and think about, guess what happens then..... the Law of Attraction lines you up for more of the same.So How Do You Break The Cycle?
You need to change your position, when it comes to speaking to someone on the phone.
To do this, spend some time visualizing the conversation you’ll be having. Imagine speaking to polite, helpful and pleasant people on the phone, if this is not what you experience, do not react to it, do not offer any emotion to an unwanted experience, instead, pick out the positives and express gratitude for them.
You also need to stop blaming others for the situation you are in, maybe you did not get enough training, but did you do everything within your power to gain more experience and skills?
Yes your ex-boss may have treated you unfairly, but can you find it in your heart to forgive him?
Forgiveness is an important part of getting what you want, as it switches your attention away from an unwanted past, to a more desirable future.
Take a look at this book by Chris Dines, called Heal Your Unconscious Pain
, it will help.From What Position Do You Ask Your Question?
What do I mean by position?
By attitude I mean your disposition, frame of mind, mood or mindset.
Are you speaking from a position of ‘having it all’, or are you speaking from a position of ‘not having it all’?
I know this seems like a stupid question, but it is the key to change what you are getting.
Reading your question, I get the feeling that your mood or mindset is from a position of
‘not having it all’, and as the Law of Attraction gives you what you give your attention, energy and focus to, ‘not having it all’ is what you get.
So the secret to getting what you want, is to shift your mood or mindset to ‘having it all’ and the Law of Attraction will respond.How Do You Shift Your Mindset?
Just pretend... How simple is that!
You see, if you have a position of ‘having it all’, even when you don’t, the Law of Attraction will respond to your attention, focus and energy, and line you up with more of what you want.So How Do You Find Your Perfect Job?
Grab a sheet of paper and start to describe everything about your new job, ask yourself some questions about your perfect job environment and write down the details, as exactly as possible.
What sort of job will it be?
Who will you be working with?
What sort of atmosphere will you be working in?
How near to your home will it be?
How will you be treated?
How much will you get paid?
Write down everything you would desire in your new job, but make it as believable to you, as you can.
Once you have the description of your perfect job, spend 15 minutes each day, quietly visualizing your day at work. Don’t leave out any details, visualize the whole day from getting ready and looking forward to going to work, to commuting, to your perfect day in work, oh and don’t forget to open your perfect pay packet at the end of the day!
Make this visualization exercise fun, get into the spirit of it and feel yourself enjoying your perfect day.
It is also a good idea to write down an affirmation on a few Post-Its and place them around your home wherever you’ll see them.
Your affirmation should read something like, “I am so happy and grateful that I have my perfect job, I get paid well, I love going to work and feel valued and respected.”
Each time you see your Post-It affirmation, repeat the words with conviction and passion.How Long Will It Take?
Things will happen as quickly as you let them, and will only happen, if you let them, you are in control.
For things to change you have to allow them, you have to have faith and believe that you will find your perfect job.
Every time you have doubt, you push your ideal condition a little further away, so it is important to stay in a positive frame of mind, and continue to focus on your ideal life.
But watch out for those little negative thoughts that can keep popping into your head, you know the ones, “It can’t happen to me”, “I never get the breaks”, or even just thoughts of frustration like, “where’s my job?”
Every time you get a negative thought you need to apply your medicine, a drop of positive to cancel it out, simply repeat your well versed affirmation, “I am so happy and grateful that I have my perfect job, I get paid well, I love going to work and feel valued and respected.”
It would also be worth reading John Gray’s book How to Get What You Want and Want What You Have: A Practical and Spiritual Guide to Personal Success
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