Attracting Certain Types of Girls And Pre Destiny Situations
I have been manifesting a perfect girlfriend, and I think I was somewhat successful, however, there always seems to be something wrong about the girl. In the beginning they are just what I asked for, but then they become weird.
Some are unloyal, some lead me on, and some just become strange in their personality.
I always visualize the perfect relationship and all the traits I want in the girl when we are together. I'm not sure what happens. I even picture us together and think about the traits I like, but can't seem to keep them around too long for some reason.
What could I be doing wrong??
What if I visualize the perfect relationship throughout much of the day, but sometimes have doubt, but more of the time is positive than negative. Does that mean it won't manifest if I'm thinking positive 70% of the time and 30% negative, how does that work?
Also, I read some stories about near-death experiences and a lot of people stated that many events in their life are pre-destined to happen in order for us to learn from it.
Are some circumstances really pre destined to happen? If so, how does the law of attraction stop it, or could it?
Another confusion I have is...what if we master the law of attraction and visualize ourselves living 1,000 years old? Or what if I visualize myself buying a jet airplane or playing in the superbowl? This is obviously impossible, but I was told anything is possible with the LoA.
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The Law of Attraction aligns experiences to your reality as a match to your vibration.
Experiences being people, circumstances, opportunities and events. And your vibration being your predominant thoughts, feelings, emotions and beliefs.
In other words what you predominantly think, feel and believe, causes you to align to people, circumstances and events that make you continue to think, feel and believe in the same way.
You can see this in your experience. You think, feel and believe that you can attract the right sort of girl, and you align to the people, circumstances and events that match what you have been vibrating. However, you also think, feel and believe that these ‘right girls’ will show you an aspect of themselves that you do not like, and you then align to the aspects of their behaviour that bothers you.
It seems that you are visualizing the perfect relationship, and feel that you have no issues attracting the right person, believing that the perfect relationship shall be attracted to you. But when you have this relationship, you think that they will always change, feel that something will go wrong, and believe that you won’t be able to, “keep them around too long.”
Your thoughts and feeling are anticipating a change of their behaviour and your beliefs are waiting for them to leave. And of course, your reality is reflecting your vibration.
Up to now you have observed that you are somewhat successful at manifesting a perfect girlfriend, you have also observed that something always seems to be wrong about the girl.
Through your observation of what is, you have chosen to think, feel and believe certain things. You have chosen to think, feel and believe that you have no trouble attracting the right girl, and of course these thoughts have served you by aligning you to that experience. But you have also chosen to think, feel and believe, that something always seems to be wrong, of course these thoughts have not served you by aligning you to that unwanted experience.
It is clear that your vibration about the outcome of your relationships do not match your desires about the relationships.
The remedy for this, as for all unwanted experiences, is to change your vibration. To change your thoughts, feelings, emotions and beliefs. But changing your vibration is not an easy thing to do, after all, you have been practising thinking and feeling this way for some time.
So how do you change your vibration?
As we have discovered, many of the thoughts we
offer are in response to a condition we are observing, and these thoughts could be described as good thoughts about our experience, or bad thoughts about our experience.
When I say good thoughts or bad thoughts, what I mean is thoughts that serve you by aligning to your desires, or thoughts that do not serve you by aligning to the lack of your desires.
The thoughts that serve you are your thoughts, feelings and beliefs that you can attract the right sort of girl, and the thoughts that do not serve you are your thoughts, feelings and beliefs that these ‘right girls’ will show you an aspect of themselves that you do not like.
So if you change the thoughts that do not serve you by shining new light on the past relationships you have had, and focus your attention to those parts of the experience that please you. You shall start to chip away at the predominant vibration that leads you to experience the things you do not want.
Spend some time focusing on the parts of them that you liked, to de-emphasis your negative thoughts and feelings about these past relationships.
Even though she was disloyal, what I liked about her was…..
Even though she led me on, what I liked about her was…..
Even though she had a strange personality, what I liked about her was…..
Shine a new light on these past relationships and try to see the best parts of what these relationships offered you.
Continue to visualize the perfect relationship and all the traits you want in a girl when you are together, and when this new relationship comes, as it has in the past, shine this new light on this new relationship too.
Even though she may at times be disloyal, what I like about her is…..
Even though she may at times lead me on, what I like about her is…..
Even though she may at times have a strange personality, what I like about her is…..
Focus your thoughts and feelings on the best of what you observe, and with time this focus will become belief, will become a vibration within you, and as you vibrate the best of what you see, the best of what is, shall be aligned to you, as the best experience there is.
Vibrate what you desire, not what you lack, and the lack of what you experience shall be no longer.
Moving on to the other parts of your question…
With regards to something being “pre-destined to happen” would suggest that, regardless of our experience of time, if something is pre-destined, it must be something that has happened in the future.
If that is the case, if it has happened to you in the future, could the ‘future you’ choose not to experience this event, by focusing on the ‘now you’ to change something you are doing, to move you away from the pre-destined experience?
Could this be intuition?
To explore this properly, I would suggest that you read the Conversations with God series
, by Neale Donald Walsch. You will find some fantastic insight.
With regards to living to 1,000 years old, buying a jet airplane or playing in the Superbowl, all these things would be impossible without the Law of Attraction, but only possible for you, as much as you would think they are.
I am certain that the first person to live to the ripe old age of 1,000, will think, feel and believe that it is possible.
That anyone buying a jet airplane, would have thought, felt and believed that it is possible.
And anyone who walked out of the tunnel to play in the Superbowl, can never have done so without thinking, feeling and believing that he could.
If you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below…
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