Attracting More Feeling That I Am Important, Useful And Smart.
I have bad fear that I don't understand what people are saying and I afraid that people tell me I'm stupid and useless. Whatever people say, I'll take it personally. I want to eliminate this belief and attract more positive thoughts that I am useful, smart and important and needed person. What else do I have to do to attract this belief into my life? I know I have to believe that I already am this person who I want to be, but this obviously doesn't work. Am I doing something totally wrong?
Here is an extract form Charles Haanel book, The Master Key System. If you have not read the Master Key, you can download a copy from the Law-of-Attraction-Guide library. This is from Chapter Nine, called Affirmations and Your Mind
If you wish to change conditions you must change yourself. Your whims, your wishes, your fancies, your ambitions may be thwarted at every step, but your inmost thoughts will find expression just as certainly as the plant springs from the seed.
Hold in mind the condition desired; affirm it as an already existing fact. This indicates the value of a powerful affirmation. By constant repetition it becomes a part of ourselves. We are actually changing ourselves; are making ourselves what we want to be.
The easiest and most natural way to do this is to select an affirmation which seems to fit your particular case. The positive thought will destroy the negative as certainly as light destroys darkness, and the results will be just as effectual.
It is sometimes an inspiration to hear from someone who has actually put these principles to the test, someone who has demonstrated them in their own life. A letter from Frederick Andrews offers the following insight:
I was about thirteen years old when Dr. T. W. Marsee, since passed over, said to my mother: "There is no possible chance, Mrs. Andrews. I lost my little boy the same way, after doing everything for him that it was possible to do. I have made a special study of these
cases, and I know there is no possible chance for him to get well."
She turned to him and said: "Doctor, what would you do if he were your boy?" and he answered, "I would fight, fight, as long as there is a breath of life to fight for."
That was the beginning of a long drawn-out battle, with many ups and downs, the doctors all agreeing that there was no chance for a cure, though they encouraged and cheered us the best they could.
But at last the victory came, and I have grown from a little, crooked, twisted, cripple, going about on my hands and knees, to a strong, straight, well formed man.
Now, I know you want the formula, and I will give it to you as briefly and quickly as I can.
I built up an affirmation for myself, taking the qualities I most needed, and affirming for myself over and over again, "I am whole, perfect, strong, powerful, loving, harmonious and happy." I kept up this affirmation, always the same, never varying,
till I could wake up in the night and find myself repeating, "I am whole, perfect, strong, powerful, loving, harmonious and happy."
It was the last thing on my lips at night and the first thing in the morning.
Not only did I affirm it for myself, but for others that I knew needed it. I want to emphasize this point. Whatever you desire for yourself, affirm it for others, and it will help you both.
We reap what we sow.
If we send out thoughts of love and health, they return to us like bread cast upon the waters; but if we send out thoughts of fear, worry, jealousy, anger, hate, etc., we will reap the results in our own lives.
I hope you find this chapter useful.
So how do you deal with negativity?
By dealing with it, instead of pushing it to the back of your mind to grow and gather strength.
Here are a couple of techniques you could use.
Heal Your Unconscious Pain is a fantastic way of overcoming negativity, this book is written by Chris Dines, author of Power, Love and Abundance.This e-book is going to show you how to heal yourself. Do not be fooled or judgemental by the simplicity and short content. These tools are Power!
You will need to be ready for the shift you are about to receive, though the shift will happen only when you take action. No action = no results.
So relax and take a deep breath. All is safe and you must be ready to heal because you have attracted this writing.Click Here To Read Heal Your Unconscious Pain
it is written in pdf, so you’ll need Adobe Reader
to read it (you should have it on your PC.
EFT is another easy to use technique, and can be used to tackle emotional issues, physiological issues, limiting beliefs and health problems.
My favourite site is Try It On Everything
You can discover the vital secret for emotional wholeness and physical relief. You can take your physical and emotional well-being into your own hands. It's simple for anyone to master.
Another great way of dealing with problems and negative issues is The Sedona Method
I would suggest that you read Esther and Jerry Hicks book, Ask and It Is Given: Learning to Manifest Your Desires
another good read which will help you, would be John Grays book How to Get What You Want and Want What You Have
I know that I have suggested a lot of reading, instead of tackling your problem head on, but believe me, I could write a book in answer to your question.
The biggest help I can be is by telling you to deal with these issues, and stop locking them away for a rainy day, I promise you if you keep pushing them to one side, they will be back to haunt you.
I hope I have helped a little, and Good Luck.....
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