Boy Help

by Anna

Well, I know this boy who is in the grade above me. I talked to him 2 years ago, when I was in 7th grade, but we haven't spoken since. I really like him, but I am too shy to say anything. How will he notice me?

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

You can’t use the Law of Attraction to attract a specific person, but you can use it to attract a specific experience.

If the experience you want is to have a meaningful relationship, you must act as if you already had that experience.

You do this by visualizing, affirming and expressing gratitude for that experience.

What do I mean by visualizing, affirming and expressing gratitude?

If you desire to have a meaningful relationship, have a meaningful relationship in your mind, use your imagination to think about being in a meaningful relationship now, and your thoughts will attract this experience to you.

Affirm to yourself that you are already in a meaningful relationship by stating, “I am...”, this will bring more of that experience to you.

Show gratitude for being in this relationship, (even if you are not), this is an expression of faith, it is a statement of believe that you shall receive the experiences you ask for.

But it is important not to be specific about the person, as this will slow the whole process down. It will frustrate you and ensure that the experience you desire, is kept out of reach.

I’d also like to say a word about being “Shy”.

You say that you are to shy to approach this person, yet without approaching this person, you end up in the same place.

Being shy is showing fear, and in your case it seems that you have a fear of rejection.

So what would happen if you approached this person and you were rejected?


Nothing would change, you have never been in a relationship with him before, and without approaching him, you probably never will. So nothing changes, you have nothing to fear, but you have the possibility of gain.

This fear is what I would call a limited belief, because without overcoming it, you will limit the experiences you will have.

Before I worried to much about creating the perfect relationship for myself, I would certainly do something about getting over this problem. After all, if you had been able to approach this person 2 years ago, you definitely wouldn’t be feeling the way you are now, whatever the outcome was.

So how do you gain more confidence?

You do this in exactly the same way as you manifest any other experience, you visualize it, affirm it and expressing gratitude for it.

If you desire to be more confident, be confident in mind, affirm to yourself that you are already confident. Show gratitude for being confident, (even if you are not), and in time, you shall manifest this confidence in who you are.

EFT is an easy to use technique you can use, it uses a tapping sequence which has similarities to Acupuncture. To learn the EFT Tapping sequence you can download a free eBook by simply filling out your name and email address on the left hand side of the The Tapping Solution Website.

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