Can I Use The Law of Attraction To Manifest Romance With Him

by SC
(Malaysia)

Before I got to know anything about the Law of Attraction, I decided to have a brand new relationship, a few years after breaking up with my ex.


A few months ago, just a few weeks after I had asked, I met a guy who seemed to totally meet my requirements. Did I use the Law of Attraction to find him in this case?

We are now friends but there is not much improvement of our relationship. I like him very much, we have many things in common and we can talk about a lot of issues, but we have not much change to meet up.

I started to learn about The Secret and then the Law of Attraction, and only then I learnt that I cannot attract a specific person through the Law of Attraction.

In this "half way" case, should I continue to aim for this guy to be my new love or should I just let go of him, even if I like him so much?

Do I have to restart my mind to solely focus on my ideal relationship and feel the relationship as if I am having it now, without thinking of the face of that specific guy?

Thank you.

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

Your initial question about whether or not you used the Law of Attraction to attract this guy is simple to answer. This is because the Law of Attraction brings all experiences to you as a match to your predominant thoughts, and whether or not you knew about this, makes no difference.

The question is, did you deliberately attract this person to experience a particular reality?

The Law of Attraction responds to your most predominant thoughts, your focus, beliefs and emotions, and it responds in a way that aligns a reality in your experience that matches these predominant thoughts.

You focus your thoughts, develop your beliefs, and feel your emotions, and the Law of Attraction aligns the things in your experience to keep you thinking, believing and feeling the same way.

If you focus on the happiness in your life, believe that fun things come your way, and feel joyful, the Law of Attraction aligns the things in your experience to keep you thinking happy, believing fun and feeling joyful.

But this has nothing to do with what you want or need to experience, in fact, as wanting and needing are thoughts, beliefs and emotions of not having your desires, the Law of Attraction will almost always align you to a reality to make you feel more want and need.

Regardless of what you want or need, if you focus on the lack of happiness in your life, believe that no fun things come your way, and feel less than joyful, the Law of Attraction aligns the things in your experience to keep you thinking unhappy, believing in no fun and feeling less than joyful.

Therefore, what you are experiencing today, is a result of what you focused on, believed and felt yesterday, and if you deliberately focused on something, deliberately believed something, and deliberately felt something, then no doubt you deliberately created today’s experience.

So whether you deliberately attracted this person, depends on whether you deliberately thought, believed and felt this experience, before you had this experience.

Moving on to your question about attracting a specific person, this causes a lot of confusion.

Yes on the one hand I will say that you cannot attract a specific person using these methods, but on the other hand, any reality experienced by two people, is the result of an interaction with a specific person.

If you are experiencing a specific reality based on your passed thoughts, and there is a specific person sharing in your experience, is it not the case that you are manifesting a reality for that specific person?

To understand this you have to think about the law of Attraction as a Law of Harmony, or a Law of Cooperation, as it is quite clear that you cannot have an experience with another without some sort of harmony or cooperation.

I have already said that the Law of Attraction brings all experiences to you as a match to your predominant thoughts, but this is not your personal Law, this is a Law for everyone, whether they know about it, whether they believe it, or whether they can apply it.

All experiences for all people, are aligned by the law of Attraction, as a match to their predominant thoughts.

Therefore, any reality that is shared, must be a reality that matches your thoughts, as well as a reality that matches the thoughts of the people you share this experience with.

They cooperate with your reality, as well as their own. So that all reality is a harmonious match to all thought.

This means that the way people interact with you, is a manifestation of a matching experience to your thought, as well as a matching experience to their thought.

Any good relationship you experience, must be a manifestation of your focused thoughts, beliefs and feelings towards a good relationship, as well as the manifestation of your partners focused thoughts, beliefs and feelings towards a good relationship.

But also, any bad relationship you experience, must be a manifestation of your focused thoughts, beliefs and feelings towards a bad relationship, as well as the manifestation of your partners focused thoughts, beliefs and feelings towards a bad relationship.

If you focus on a happy relationship, believe that this relationship will bring you romance, and feel love, the Law of Attraction aligns the relationship to your experience to keep you thinking happy, believing in romance and feeling love.

So can your friend be a cooperating part of a happy, romantic and loving experience?

This is an impossible question to answer as we do not know his thoughts, but strictly speaking, what does it matter?

You see, if you wish to experience a happy, romantic and loving reality, you need to focus your thoughts, believes and feelings to this experience, and if he can manifest to you a match to your thoughts, he will. If not he shall leave your experience as an uncooperating match to the reality you are focusing on, only for a cooperating match to be found.

If you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below…


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Oct 01, 2010
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IT WORKS
by: SC

Thank you for your reply!

In these 2 months the Law of Attraction has helped me a lot in adjusting my emotions and thoughts when interacting with my friend.

Our relationship is considerably improved in just 3 months time..

He is a shy and passive guy.. but he took the first step to asked me out for movie! We are now meeting up more than previously, and I can feel that he treats me as his special one, although he is yet to propose to me and not yet say anything clear to me.

I knew I should keep believing, thinking of joy and happiness without looking back..

Hope I'm on the right track...

Thank you very much!

Jun 01, 2011
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Sailing in same boat
by: Anonymous

HI SC,

I am also sailing in same boat. Like you i also like one girl. But, she treats me as good friend only. Could you please guide me how you started changing your thoughts.

Your response will be appreciated.

Jun 09, 2011
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Need Clarity!
by: vaneesha

Hi,

I discovered LOA after reading book secrets,
I tried using LOA and was able to manifest a job where my desire was that it was meaningful and I could see that my work changed people lives something like People corp. I got a job in united nations helping refugees. I tried to use LOA to manifest higher income imagining trips outstation but it didnt work. SO i decided to use prayer and trips to local temple practically every day thinking this will boost me up. It worked and i did go on short trips to states I wanted and got paid very high just for couple of weeks. Now I am seeking a permanent jobs, using visualisation through youtube, visualising myself when alone, but after 12 months its unsuccessful, as I keep landing jobs I am unable to work in for longer period or I dont like. What I do visualise myself that certain events is happening such someone congratulating me for getting a job in this company and I feeling very happy and proud of myself. I see myself beaming. I imagine and visualise myself being very happy starting my new job. So far its 4 months with visualisation. Wonder what else do i need to do to make this happen. At the moment I am a job seeker.

Your advice or tips or outlook will clear my confusion or help me understand.

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