Change Others Using The Law of Attraction

Can the Law of Attraction be used to help others? My sister is suffering from depression, she finds it difficult to manage relationships, and she cannot cope with failure in her examinations.

She also has a bit of a hot temperament...

How can I change her personality using the Law of Attraction?

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

Can we change others using the Law of Attraction? Some would say not. In this situation some would say that it is your own sisters “responsibility” to change what she is attracting into her life, what I mean by “responsibility” is her “ability to respond” to her experience.

There is some truth to this, but does that mean you are powerless?

In the film The Secret, they gave two good examples of our ability to change others. The first was a gay man who was being abused by co-workers, the second a wife in an abusive relationship.

In both these examples, the abused visualized the people around them in the way they would most like to see them, and on both occasions, the film explained that the visualization and the behaviour of the abuser could not exist together, as our experience is a reflection of our thought.

In other words the abuser would change their behaviour or move on, as they said in the film, you will “Zig or Zag”.

OK, I am sure that you would prefer to stay “Zigging” with your sister, and help her to attract a better reality! But I am sure that it will help if you visualize your sister, having the ability to be happy, being able to find a good relationship, having the confidence to take her exams and being cool and calm.

After all, praying for others is widely accepted and encouraged around the world.

But maybe it would also be helpful for you to use Attraction, to find the right tools and the right approach to help her.

Has she seen The Secret? Has she read any books about the Law of Attraction? Have you introduced these principles to her?

A great
book to read is Wallace Wattles’s The Science of Being Well, here’s a short extract from the summary of the book....

“A human being is a form of this Living Substance, and has within him a Principle of Health. This Principle of Health, when in full constructive activity, causes all the involuntary functions of the human body to be perfectly performed.

A human being is a thinking substance, permeating a visible body, and the processes of his body are controlled by his thought.

When a person thinks only thoughts of perfect health, the internal processes of his body will be those of perfect health.

A person’s first step toward perfect health must be to form a conception of himself as perfectly healthy and as doing all things in the way and manner of a perfectly healthy person.

Having formed this conception, he must relate himself to it in all his thoughts, and sever all thought relations with disease and weakness.”

As you can see, your sister must sever her thoughts from sadness, not being able to cope, not being in a relationship, failure and anger, she must then replace these thoughts with ideas of happiness, coping, achieving, desire, faith, success, sharing and calm.

But........ And here’s the Big But!

To do this, she needs to recognise that she has a problem!

Once she has done that, then she’s well on her way, and many techniques, particularly affirmations and visualizations, will work wonders.

Another technique, which you could share with your sister, is EFT.

EFT uses the same principles as acupuncture and involves a tapping technique, to help overcome problems such as, pain, disorder, depression, migraines, in fact, it has been used in so many circumstances, and has some amazing results.

There is a website called, that has some videos demonstrations and a free guide to download.


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PS Please let me know how you get on, if you try the EFT technique, let me know how it worked.

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by: Anonymous

What to do in a situation when the person who is introduced to LOA and EFT fails to use it to overcome his/her depression? I am asking this as I am facing this after introducing LOA and EFT to a loved one in depression- partly in remission. He has insight but may be not the energy to act on these concepts. Also he does not have inherent liking for concepts like LOA.

Any suggestions?

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

The idea of the Law of Attraction does not appeal to a lot of people, and unfortunately this is something you cannot force on someone.

Perhaps suggesting meditation to your friend may be helpful, I have practised Vipassana Meditation for some time now and I am sure it will help this type of situation, take a look at the Website for some great information, you can also download an eBook on Vipassana called Mindfulness in Plain English.

If this person is resistant to this type of practise, introduce him to Bruce Lipton?s book, The Biology of Belief:

With Gratitude

John Peace

Change other's look by LOA
by: Bhumi

My engagement has been fixed. But my futurte husband is not good looking. He is a nice man . but I always wanted a handsome guy with a great personality. So can I use low of attraction to make him good looking? Because he does not believe this theory. So please guide me how to use low of attraction for this.also,let me tell that I really believe in LOA theaory Please reply

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