Confused And Guilty

by D
(India)

I have been married for 4 years to my hubby who doesn’t love me. He physically abuses me because of his frustrations of not being able to buy a house. I have tried my best to tell him that we need more of communication, trust, emotional intimacy, but he tells me to shut up.


He is an egoist. He tells me to worship him because he brings food to the table, which I do. I’ve kept him on a pedestal.

I’m fed up of his emotional, verbal and physical (slaps) abuse and that’s the reason I’m not thinking of starting a family.

Recently an acquaintance who is married confessed he has feelings for me and heard my story out. He says that he wants me to have a relationship with him with no strings attached, at least he claims that I will be happy and out of my shell.

I have not met him yet, but I am attracted to him. My husband and his wife have cheated on us in the past.

Will this extramarital affair give us happiness and stop me from slipping into depression. I have not smiled in ages and this friend of mine at least makes me laugh...

Please help.

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

This is the most simplistic way that I can explain the Law of Attraction to you.

You exist to create, and the way you create is through thought. You will experience contrast, and the contrast will help you decide what you want.

Things that you like, make you feel good, things you do not like, make you feel bad.

The feelings you have are your thoughts, or your vibration, and it is this vibration that creates your reality. So if your feeling is good, you get a reality that feels good, and if your feeling is bad, you get a reality that feels bad.

When you experience a contrast and find something that makes you feel good, keep doing this thing, and through the Law of Attraction, more experiences will come to match the way you feel.

On the other hand, when you experience something that makes you feel bad, stop doing and thinking that thing, and use the contrast to find the things that make you feel good.

The trouble is, that it is our nature to stay doing the things that make us feel bad, because we can’t see any alternatives. This makes us feel bad, makes us talk about feeling bad and through the Law of Attraction, more experiences to make us feel bad, keep turning up.

It is the way we feel, that is called our ‘asking.’

So from what point are you asking? A feeling good point or a feeling bad point?

Reading your question, I can summarise your ‘asking’ vibration.

Confused, Guilty, Unloved, Emotionally Abused, Physically Abused, Verbally Abused, Isolated, Un-trusted, Downtrodden and Depressed.

Now from this ‘asking’ position, I can assure you that unless you change your inside, not much will change on the outside.

You Do Not Have To Put Up With This!

No one has the right to treat you this way, and as soon as you start to believe that, the sooner you will find it in you to change the experiences you are having.

But you don’t need to fight or push against your husband, which will only cause him to fight and push back harder. There is a better way.

Change the way you think, and your experiences will change. There is nothing more certain.

I know it sounds impossible, but you need to stop beating the drum of how hard it is. You need to stop telling the story of what has happened.

Today is your knew now, and it is in the now, that you have your power.

Decide what you would most like to have in your life, and I don’t mean the people, decide how you wish to feel. And when you know how you want to feel, start to feel it now, it is your moment.

Do you wish to be loved, then start to feel loved.

Do you wish to be respected, then start to feel respected.

Do you wish to be appreciated, then start to feel appreciated.

When you start to feel and vibrate in the way you most want to be, then Law will correspond to your vibration, and give you the experiences that you ‘ask’ for.

I know that this must be difficult, especially when you are surrounded by the things you don’t want, and feeling so depressed about life, but if you want change, you must do it.

No one can do this for you, this is your life, your experience of life, and you must decide to do this for yourself.

There are a few techniques that can help you.

EFT is a similar technique to acupuncture, and can be used to tackle emotional issues, physiological issues and limiting beliefs.

To learn the EFT Tapping sequence you can download a free eBook by simply filling out your name and email address on the left hand side of the The Tapping Solution Website.

Another great technique is called The Sedona Method.

Like EFT it has some great success stories, especially in tackling emotional and physiological issues, I have posted a video as an introduction to Sedona, which you can watch here.

If you would like some help with these methods, sign up for my Free Unlock The Power Mini-Course, you’ll discover how to combine your emotions to the things you want, making your most desired experiences manifest quickly.

I would suggest that you read Esther and Jerry Hicks book, Ask and It Is Given: Learning to Manifest Your Desires, another good read which will help you, would be John Grays book How to Get What You Want and Want What You Have


Heal Your Unconscious Pain is a fantastic way of overcoming negativity, this book is written by Chris Dines, author of Power, Love and Abundance. Click Here To Read Heal Your Unconscious Pain it is written in pdf, so you’ll need Adobe Reader to read it (you should have it on your PC.

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