Do Not Visualize
My problem is that, whenever I put my energy and focus on something that interests me and start visualizing it and feel as if i got it, I get the opposite results!! Exactly the opposite!
To the extent I have decided not to visualize anything, so, in that way, I wouldn’t lose it!!
A friendship, trip, anything that I want, I don’t visualize it.
My other question is, does the law work on relationships if I have some one in mind?
I really appreciate your help.
Visualization is a very important technique to learn, to harness the power of the Law of Attraction.
If you have been following the Free Lessons of Unlock The Power of You
, and practising the exercises, you will see that you need some practise, before you can really harness the power.
A beginner’s visualization exercise would involve these five simple steps;
Find a quiet room and get into a comfortable position.
Think of something, anything that brings you strong positive emotions of love, joy, or gratitude. Re-live the experience until you can feel the joy in your entire body with all your senses. It is important to feel it, as this adds emphasis (and speed) to you manifesting your desires. Make sure all your senses are being used. What did it sound like, smell like, feel like, etc?
When you're in a truly happy state, visualize what you want to create and see it as if it has already happened -- that you are driving that new car, living in that new home, enjoying that relationship. Really get into the feeling and use this experience to its fullest. Again use all your senses.
Try to hear those ocean breezes, smell the scent of the pine trees, feel the touch of your fingers on the steering wheel of that car, taste that kiss, and see yourself enjoying that new car or relationship.
When you are done, say it out loud or write on a piece of paper, ‘I am so happy and grateful that.......’ and fill in the object of your desire. For example, ‘I am so happy and grateful that I have enough money to pay for anything I want and to travel anywhere, anytime.’ Then write or say, ‘It is done. And so it is.’ Say this in a confident and commanding tone and expect it to happen.
You have now released it to the Universe so go about your day and forget about the ‘how's.’ This is where you must ‘Let go and let God’ as the saying goes. This is the true Art of Allowing, the secret manifestation art, because you have given it over to God (The Universe). Remember this is the part where we often fail because we question or we keep noticing that we don’t have it yet.
To understand this further, you would do well to read Napoleon Hill’s book, Think and Grow Rich.
The book covers 13 Steps to success, the first step being desire, as success always begins with desire.
Most people want to, or have a desire to be successful, but wanting success is a waste of time. Worse, it just produces frustration! Only a burning, all-consuming, fervent and passionate desire will produce the exceptional results that make up true success.
Wanting is best understood by its second meaning in the dictionary: lack.
To want for something is to lack something and so long as you merely want success, you will
Wanting is mere wishful thinking, desire, on the other hand, is an extremely potent force. It is a supreme motivator. It is a metaphysical principle of creation.
Hill goes on to tell us that, "all thoughts that have been emotionalized (given feeling through desire) and mixed with faith, begin immediately to translate themselves into their physical equivalent or counterpart."
Not only must you have a burning desire for a specific thought or goal, but you must also have the faith or belief that it is your birthright and all you need to do is claim it as your own, and it shall be yours.
Most people have their faith or belief formed by the evidence of what has already happened or been made manifest.
As a result, they find it difficult to believe in things that are not historically proven.
Faith is a state of mind, which may be induced or created, by affirmation or repeated instructions to the subconscious mind. It is a state of mind, which you may develop at will, because it is a state of mind which develops voluntarily, through application and use of these principles.
Repetition of affirmation of orders to your subconscious mind is the only known method of voluntary development of the emotion of faith.
And all thought which have been emotionalized and mixed with faith, begin immediately to translate themselves into their physical equivalent or counterpart.
But reading about these principles will get you no-where, it is only by making application, and repeated practise that you will develop the skills necessary to succeed.
As they say, “practise is the mother of all skill.”
It is not then surprising that Hill includes persistence as a step to achievement, explaining that desire (passion) plus the power of will (persistence) make an irresistible pair.
Desire and faith are the fuel that produces persistence. Persistence turns stumbling blocks into stepping-stones on your pathway to success. "Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; un-rewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent."
If you fail to persist, you will persist in failing.
In answer to your second question, I often get asked questions regarding attracting the attention of a specific person.
Can the Law of Attraction work in this case?
Loosely speaking it can, as long as it is a mutual journey...
But, you cannot use the Law of Attraction to bring an individual into line with your wishes, when that individual does not wish for the same.
If that could work then the Law of Attraction would not be a Law.
If we say that the Law of Attraction is the Law by which our reality reflects our inner most beliefs, then, if you both had different beliefs, how could you both experience the same reality?
You can use the Law of Attraction to bring you anything you desire, health, wealth, happiness and love, but.... You cannot chose the vehicle...
You can overcome illness, but cannot predict the cure for disease.
You can bring riches, but cannot predict the source of money.
You can live in happiness, but cannot predict the reason for harmony.
You can be loved, but cannot predict the lover.
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