Focusing On One But Still Attracting The Others

by Anita
(Budapest, Hungary)

I am a 31 years old woman, having broken up with my boyfriend just recently, as he was not able to decide whether he truly wanted our relationship or not. This went on for quite a few months, made me feel terrible, frustrated, and finally I said that if he cannot change I cannot do it any longer. Told him that in case he can do the changes in future he knows where he can find me, and this is how we ended the relationship.


I, of course, really want him back and hope that if I try and use the LOA in connection with him it can be successful.

And my question is this: if I concentrate on the good about him, and on the blissful moments we had together, and visualize that we are back together and our relationship is stronger than ever, and what I really want from a relationship, is it a way of thinking that makes me find real committed relationship in general?

My point is, that at the moment I feel that I want HIM, and I am incapable of thinking and feeling about a perfect relationship which does not include him, but I do not want to set the limits either and make the mistake if he is just not the one for me....see, if he is the one I can attract him this way, but if he is not the one, can I attract Mr. Right if I am feeling and attracting those good feelings in connection with him?

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

As you seem to appreciate, you cannot manifest a reality in a specific persons experience.

Understanding this, you are concentrating on the good about him, and on the blissful moments you had together. You are visualizing that you are back together and your relationship is stronger than ever.

You are including the best qualities of this relationship in your vibration, and as the Law of Attraction will align a cooperative reality to you as a match to your vibration, you are aligning to this experience.

I say cooperative reality, as any manifested experience is always a match to our focused thought. And as many, if not all, of our experiences are shared experiences, any reality must be a match to the focused thoughts of all people sharing that reality.

Therefore, if you are including the best qualities of this relationship in your vibration, and the Law of Attraction is aligning you to a cooperative reality as a match to your vibration, you are aligning to this experience with the person who best matches the resulting reality.

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by: Anonymous

i culd b blonde but that all went ova my head i got lost few lines in so are you sayin if u try to imagine bein with one single person it still may never happen?

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???? No compredo
by: Dee

I'm not blond but that reply went way over my head also and I am in a similar situation.

Nov 19, 2010
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Focusing On One But Still Attracting The Others
by: Elaine

What he's saying is that since you are focusing on the good about your ex and the blissful times the two of you had together, and that you are visualizing the two of you back together... you are aligning yourself with these qualities.

The Law of Attraction will respond by sending you what you focus on and what you align to, so you will manifest the person that best fits the qualities of this alignment.

However, I believe that in order for you to manifest the person that is right for you, you have to visualize in a way that will allow this. Why? Because now you are focused and aligned with your ex coming back, not having the right person enter your life.


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