Get Back With My Ex With The Law of Attraction
I would love to get back with my ex but I know you say you can't make someone want you, plus he already has another partner.
However, I am constantly thinking about my ex every day and wishing we were back together, and I know that is the wrong route to take as I am getting myself more of what I don't have (am I right on this point??).
What do I have to do in order to bring love/romance/partner into my life when it's my ex that I truly want to be with????
I'm at my wits end.Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
To begin with, you need to define what it is you really want.
Your answer to that I guess would be, to be with your ex, but that is not really the experience you want.
The experience you want is to be in a loving, caring and sharing relationship, a relationship of mutual and unconditional love, a relationship of cooperative creation full of joy and romance.
The confusion that you are having is that you seem to think that your ex is the experience you desire, not the experience itself. You are confusing the desire you have, with what you believe, is the source to manifest this desire.
In other words, you know what you want as an experience, but because you do not have that experience, you feel negative emotion. You are then focusing on something that may fill that void, but because you do not have that something, you feel more negative emotion. You then focus even harder on that something that may fill that bigger void, but because you still do not have that something, you feel even more negative emotion.
This is kind of an obsession. You know your desired experience, and you think that this experience can only be fulfilled through one source, and as you cannot have this source of fulfilment, you focus and think more and more about it.
This is really a classic case of looking for love in all the wrong places.
You see, the Law of Attraction brings your experiences to you, in synchronicity to your vibration. What I mean is this. Your experiences are always a match to your vibration, and your vibration is determined by your focused thoughts and feelings.
It is the way you think and feel that determines your reality.
In knowing this, so many people get hung up about their negative feelings, and in an attempt to define what they want, they use all sorts of techniques to define their desires, thinking that as soon as they receive
their desires, their negative emotion will disappear.
But this is not the case. You cannot fill the void of negativity with the desires you are seeking, because this negativity is the very thing that keeps your desires away from you.
In your case, you know that the experience you desire is to be in a loving, caring and sharing relationship, a relationship of mutual and unconditional love, a relationship of cooperative creation full of joy and romance.
And because you do not have this experience, you feel bad.
You then try plugging the gap with the only source of this desire you know, which can never work, as it is your ‘feeling bad’ emotion that is the only thing that keeps you from experiencing your desires
The only way to get from where you are vibrationaly, to where you want to be in reality, is to change the vibration of where you are now. There is no other way.
In fact, this negative emotion that you are feeling is just an indication of the gap between the vibration of your desires, and the vibration that you are holding. And as soon as you raise the vibration you have, to a vibration that is nearer to your desires, you will feel the relief.
Watch this video from Abraham-Hicks
, called A Relationship Rampage, it demonstrates this really well.
So how do you raise your vibration?
The very best way to raise your vibration is through appreciation and gratitude.
Do everything in your power to notice, talk about, tell the story of, be grateful for, be happy about and love, about your experience now. Resist the temptation to complain, to moan and to condemn anything in your experience now, and concentrate your thoughts on the best of your now experience.
Notice the care in your life, and be caring.
Notice the generosity in your life, and be sharing.
Notice the joy in your life, and be joyous.
Notice the love in your life, and be loving.
Learn to live in the spirit of the desires you seek, and as soon as you do, the experiences you long for shall belong to you.
Here’s another video from Abraham-Hicks
, called A Rampage of Love, if you can, watch this every day.
Rampage of Love
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