Getting Back With An Ex or Walk Away
I've been with my ex for 6 years. In university we were on and off a lot but always somehow made our way back to each other. In August we broke up over a fight.
I'm finishing law school and he has just started a new job. We started communicating again and seeing each other. I want to be back together but he says that he's not ready to get back into a relationship, and is focusing on getting his CMA and work for now.
I'm not sure what to do, or if I should let him go.
I don’t know if I should continue to spend time with him and not pressure him, or if I should walk away?Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
The very first thing you need to do is come to terms with where you are.
At the moment, you refer to your relationship, as an ex relationship, so before you begin to move forward from here, you need to accept and find happiness as an ex…
Why do I say that?
Because as long as you focus on being with him, and for as long as he focuses on being without you, you are activating the vibration of being without, in you, and as the Law of Attraction brings you a match to your vibration, you are manifesting more without.
You vibrate without, the Law of Attraction brings an experience of without, you feel more without, you add more without to your vibration, and the Law of Attraction brings you even more without.
So if you accept being single as a happy, desirable place to be, you can then remove this unwanted vibration, and begin to attract a different experience.
How do you accept being single as a happy, desirable place to be, when it is neither happy nor desirable?
By focusing on the positive aspects of being single.
Make a list of all the positive experiences and advantages of being single, and then spend some time, each and every day, focusing on these positive things.
Use this list to reinforce your happiness every time you feel without, so that you start to replace the unwanted emotion with positive thoughts about where you are now.
Next, I would start to define what I wanted.
I know that you will say that you want to be with him, but as you cannot manifest in
his reality, and cannot make him change his behaviour, what is it you really want.
Do you want to be in a relationship?
Do you want to be with someone who loves you, someone who is romantic, who respects you and enjoys your company?
If this romance is your desired experience, I would then add it to the list of positive things about being single, as a ‘won’t it be nice’ statement.
What I mean by this is every time you feel a negative feeling on this subject, stop and recite all the good things about being single, and then add on the things that will be nice, when you find your perfect partner.
It should go something like this, “Isn’t it great being single… I have freedom to do as I please, I can meet all the people I want, I’m having fun, I’m doing everything I want to do, I’ve got time for my family and my friends, and they just love the way I am… Even though I am enjoying this single experience, won’t it be nice when I find the perfect man, someone who can enjoy the things I do, someone who loves me, someone who is romantic, who respects me and enjoys my company,”
So what should you do regarding the relationship with your ex?
I would handle this situation in very much the same way that you changed the vibration about where you are. I would make a list of all the positive experiences and aspects of your ex, and then spend some time, each and every day, focusing on these positive things.
Make these positive things about him a part of your vibration, and as the Law of Attraction brings to you experiences that match your vibration, it will either mean that your partner will become these positive things to you, or he will vibrate right out of your reality.
You see there is no physical action required on your part, no pressuring him, or walking away. All you need to do is align with where you are, set your vibrational tone to what you want, and everything you desire shall walk right into your experience, and everything you don’t desire, shall vibrate itself away.Law-of-Attraction-Guide.com
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