Getting My Love Back


(India)

I was (am) in love with a guy. Because of a previous unsuccessful relationship I would always fear that this guy would leave me, just the way the previous guy had.


I had even shared my fear of the same with him, and he would always tell me, to remove the fear and negative emotions about our relationship from my mind, and to have faith in his love.

But, having burnt my fingers once, I was just unable to do the right thing.

I would always ask him, “Have I lost you?” And one day we had a misunderstanding, a real serious one, and now our relationship is a bit different than it was before. I am being very careful in choosing the words as not to start thinking of anything negative, as I have already experienced the effects of doing so.

I got what I always thought. But now that I have learnt my lesson I am going to get my love back. I am sure that we are destined to be together and no mistake can ever take us apart.

I wish to have my love back in life and ask the universe to help me in doing the same.

I would appreciate if anyone can guide me in putting my thoughts in the right direction, and thus help me in getting my love back.

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

This is a common misconception that many people have. They think that by learning the lessons of their history and telling the story of how bad things can be, that some how, this will stop history from repeating itself.

Unfortunately, quite the opposite is true. What will happen is this, by learning the lessons of your history and telling the story of how bad things can be, some how, history will repeat itself.

Just because you have had an unwanted experience, that should not give you any basis to believe that that experience will repeat itself, however, by attaching an emotional vibration such as fear, to such an undesirable outcome, you are certainly making it more likely to happen. As indeed you have discovered.

You may have read throughout this site, that you cannot manifest in another’s reality. In other words, you cannot cause someone else to experience something, through your own thoughts.

Indeed I do stand by that statement, but it also true that you can manifest an experience with someone, based on your thoughts.

From reading between the lines of your question, I would say that your partner’s vibration was one of love, faith, trust and companionship. And although you may have wanted those same feelings, you vibration was one of fear, loss and mistrust.

So your partner would by lining himself up with a relationship that was full of love, faith, trust and companionship, and you would be lining yourself up with a relationship of fear, loss and mistrust.

Therefore, for the Law of Attraction to work, your partner will manifest love, faith, trust and companionship into his life, while you would move on to manifest more fear, loss and mistrust.

You see by offering such different vibrations, there is no way that you could make this relationship work, however, if you were to change your vibration to one of love, faith, trust and companionship, how different the outcome could be.

So how do you do this?

There are two exercises I would do to try to change the way I was feeling. The first deals with the past, as it is quite apparent that your issues for the future are based on past-unwanted experiences. The second would be concerned with the future, as it is important that you concentrate your thoughts on wanted experiences.

Dealing with the past.

It is important to let go of negative issues about past experiences, as the longer we let these experiences define us, the longer, and more often, we will experience things to make us feel the same way.

It is clear that you have issues over the way you have been treated in the past, and it is clear that you have a fear of experiencing the same treatment in the future, but the longer you vibrate this fear, the more likely it is that you will define a similar hurt in the future.

Forgiveness is the key to letting go, if you have been mistreated in the past, the real power of overcoming that mistreatment will be found in forgiveness.

But to many, forgiveness is a bitter pill to swallow, all to often people see forgiveness as, “letting someone of the hook.” They would rather see this person suffer, pay the price, and be punished for what they have done, they fail to understand that their own thoughts of suffering and retribution will only manifest punishment and pain in their own lives, not in the lives of their perpetrators.

True forgiveness lets you of the hook, it allows you to grow, to expand, to move forward and gives you the power to look at the contrast of what you like and don’t like, and choose the experiences you wish to have, not move from one experience to another by default.

True forgiveness is power…… Your power.

Heal Your Unconscious Pain is a fantastic way of overcoming negativity, this book is written by Chris Dines, author of Power, Love & Abundance.

This e-book is going to show you how to heal yourself. Do not be fooled or judgemental by the simplicity and short content. These tools are Power!

You will need to be ready for the shift you are about to receive, though the shift will happen only when you take action. No action = no results.

So relax and take a deep breath. All is safe and you must be ready to heal because you have attracted this writing.


Click Here To Read Heal Your Unconscious Pain it is written in pdf, so you’ll need Adobe Reader to read it (you should have it on your PC).

Dealing with the future.

One of the easiest ways to raise your vibration is through gratitude. An attitude of gratitude keeps you in a positive vibration. It keeps your awareness on the positive aspects of your life, and stops you from focusing on the negatives aspects.

If you wish to experience positive things in the future, express gratitude for the positive things you have now, and through this vibration, more positive things shall be manifested in your life.

When it comes to romance I would strongly urge you to write down all the positive things about your relationship, list everything you enjoy, everything you share and everything you love. Start each morning reading through your list, saying, “I am so grateful that I have _____________, in my life.”

I would also encourage you to spend at least ten minutes a day thinking about all the positive things you have with your partner.

As you go about your day your previous habitual way of thinking may try to rear its ugly head again, and you will get waves of negative emotions, be them fear, frustration, criticism, guilt, unworthiness, or distrust. As soon as you catch these negative thoughts, forget them, which means Get Something For Them….

Replace your negative thought with a practised positive thought, a thought of gratitude, or a positive aspect of your relationship. Repeat this positive statement, over and over. You see a negative thought cannot exist in the place of a positive, and with practise, you will no longer return to your negative way of thinking.

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Jan 26, 2010
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by: Anonymous

I am very grateful to you for your comments and insight on my problem, rather case. I will and am trying my best to practise the same in my actions. I am sure that soon I and my love would be reunited and be together forever. And I am saying this with such great confidence because there was a point in time when both of us would say the same that our meeting and realtion is not a coincidence but has been planned by the supreme power. Thanks a lot again and I will surely get back to you with all the positive developments.

Jun 30, 2010
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by: Anonymous

I realise now I attracted my current partner because we were both vibrating on the same level.

We both felt lonely, insecure and fearful because of our past experiences. We were both deeply humiliated in our past relationships, so we both shared the resentment vibration and lack of forgiveness.

He is a good kind loyal man but I have spent time feeling like a victim because of my ex. This in turn makes me see my current partner as a selfish man who will inevitably let me down... which he has now done (but I contributed to this with my suspicious controlling attitude.

He is spending time with his family and I miss him so much. I may see him soon and I'm so glad I have read this because I could have so easily greeted him with sarcasm and hostility which is just a mask for my hurt.

Now I can choose thoughts of acceptance, love and passion and see what manifests!

Mar 13, 2011
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Imagine, visualize, believe and most of all... stay positive
by: La Verite

I also believe that your love will be back with you..

Just remember to:

- imagine
- visualize
- concentrate and work on the above
- believe and have faith
- and most of all.. STAY POSITIVE!

and soon he will be back.. soon!

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