Getting The Love Back To My Life
My ex, who has always been the love of my life, has a child, can I still use the laws of attraction to get back together?
When we think we set up our vibration, and to this vibration the Law of Attraction aligns resonant experiences.
If we think of being alone, the Law of Attraction will align us to a lonely experience. And if we think of being in love, the Law of Attraction will align us to a loving experience.
The Law of Attraction does not align us to the things we want or desire, it align us to the things that match our vibration.
For instance, someone may want and desire money, but because they think about no money, they vibrate no money, and the Law of Attraction aligns them to an experience that matches their vibration, that has to be no money.
Similarly, they may want and desire a relationship with someone, but because they think about not being with this person, they vibrate not being with this person, and the Law of Attraction aligns them to an experience that matches their vibration, that has to be not being with them.
Therefore, the only way to attract a specific experience would be to think as if that experience existed, so then you would vibrate as if that experience existed, so the Law of Attraction will have to align that experience to match the way you vibrate.
If the only way to align to an experience would be to think and vibrate as if that experience existed, then for the specific person that you are thinking about, to align to the experience that you desire, they would also have to vibrate that to.
In other words, as this is a Law, and as we all align to experiences that match the way we vibrate, to align this person to you, either they would have to vibrate as a match to the experience, or you would have to control their thoughts, which of course would be impossible.
When I explain this to people, they will often respond by saying that the Law of Attraction cannot work because they cannot attract the things that they want to attract.
The point is that you were never supposed to control the elements of your experience, you only have to control the way you think, and in doing so, the Law of Attraction will align the elements to your reality, to match what it is you are thinking.
You get to choose your destination, but you don’t control the elements of your journey.
If you desire riches, you match your thoughts to being
rich and the Law of Attraction will align the best events and opportunities to you in order for your reality to represent your thoughts.
If you desire love, you match your thoughts to being in love and the Law of Attraction will align the best events and opportunities to you in order for your reality to represent your thoughts.
It’s like imagining the perfect vacation. You can see it, it is perfect, the sea, the sky and the land all look to you like the perfect place to be, now if I tell you that if you think in a way that matched this place you would align to being there, why would you ever worry about which airline that is going to get there?
Your ex is not an experience; he is the source of an experience. And for as long as you think and feel the lack of romance in your life, you add the lack of romance to your vibration, and as he is the best matching part of your reality that keeps you thinking and feeling this way. Your ex continues to align to your reality to help you to maintain your lacking romance thoughts.
It may feel that you need to control each detail of your experience in order for your reality to be what you want it to be, but it is not necessary for you to do this. Your experiences represents your thoughts, and for as much as you try and alter your reality to be what you want it to be, it simply aligns new experience to match the way you think and feel.
So can you use the Law of Attraction to be together? Well yes and no.
Yes you could focus your thoughts to your desires and think and feel as if the companionship you wanted already existed, and then align to the best reality that matched your vibration, which may include him.
Or you could focus your thoughts to your desires and think and feel as if the companionship you wanted already existed, and then align to the best reality that matched your vibration, which may not include him. Either way the best match for what you vibrate shall always become a part of your experience.
I hope that you have found this information useful, and if you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below…
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