He Is My Soulmate. How To Use The Law of Attraction To Keep Him

by Nathalie
(New York, New York, United States)

This person has been in my life for 1½ years. I love being around him and he has amazing qualities. He is kind, thoughtful, caring, loyal and romantic. He is a hard worker and a family man. When I think of him my heart feels as light as a feather, at the same time like all the emotions, the love that I’m feeling is causing my heart to almost burst out of my chest. I admire him because of the things he has accomplished for personal growth and because of the things he is doing to better himself financially.

It wasn’t always like this. Initially we had both decided that we didn’t want anything serious, no commitments. He called me daily, multiple times a day. I actually like it. It lets me know that he was thinking of me as much as I was of him. We became boyfriend and girlfriend and were very happy for a few months.

During those months, though I was happy, I kept doubting myself and asking myself if this is real. After a couple of months together I found out he was actually younger than me. Just four years, but when you are in your mid twenties, it kind of makes a difference. I was falling in love even though I felt I should not because he is a few years younger than me.

But he started to distance himself, he didn’t call me for a few days and created different excuses. He broke up with me. I was devastated. I cried myself to sleep for a few days. But a week later he called, he missed me and wanted to see me. We saw each other but he was clear that he didn’t want a commitment.

Things between us were good and bad. Every time we saw each other I knew there was this intense chemistry between us. Then one day he called I didn’t pick up, another day he called and I didn’t pick up. I felt that we weren’t going anywhere. Two months went by before he made contact with me. But he was present in my every thought. It was difficult for me to accept that I would not see him again. Though strangely I was at peace.

We picked up where we left off. Again he called on a daily basis and again he distanced himself. During our time together he said he loved me. Though before our last separation I asked him not to say it. I know I feel that he loves me. Sometimes I feel that he wants to say it… but holds back due to fear of a deeper commitment. I want him to say he loves me.

After two more months of separation we are together again. We are happy. I’m happy. He is happy with me. A few days ago he said he didn’t know what it was about me that keeps drawing him in. He has never met anyone like me. On previous occasions he has said that I make him believe that he can accomplish things that seem impossible. that I give him “hope”, I may sound like a madwoman, but I know by the look in his eyes that I’m important to him.

I keep visualizing him as my lifelong partner. The wonderful things we can accomplish together. The beautiful family he and I will make. It’s beautiful.

I also know that I cannot influence other people’s thoughts. But I want to make it work with him… I hope he does too. How should I control my train of thoughts to continue to vibrate this amazing energy that’s radiating out of me that has kept him in my life and hopefully continues to bring me closer to him?


P.S. He actually came into my life when I was reading “the secret”. He had noticed me on the train a few times. But I had not seen him until he made eye contact and introduced himself.

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

When two people first meet, they are attracted to what they like about each other. They wonder if this new romance will prove to be ‘the one’, and they spend their time looking for ‘the things they like most about….’.

As each of this new couple give their attention, energy and focus to these likable, and loveable qualities of their new partner, the Law of Attraction will align all cooperative events, people and opportunities, for their reality to match their attention, energy and focus, and as long as this new partner is a cooperative match to this vibration, more likable and loveable behaviour will be manifest.

Unfortunately, as the excitement begins to diminish, so does the attention, focus and energy on those likable and loveable traits of behaviour, and of course, so does the manifestation of these likable and loveable things.

Some time soon, as one or both partners start to experience behaviour that does not please them, they offer this unwanted behaviour attention, energy and focus. Thoughts like, “if only he’d help more around the house, I would be happy,” or “if she wouldn’t nag so much I would be much happier.

And as this couple give their attention, energy and focus to these unlikable, and unwanted qualities of their partner, the Law of Attraction will align all cooperative events, people and opportunities, for their reality to match their focus. And as long as their partner is a cooperative match to this vibration, more unlikable and unwanted behaviour will be manifest.

Eventually there will be more unlikable and unwanted behaviour than likable and loveable, and the partnership will cease to grow.

So how do you avoid this?

By staying focused on the things you like best, of all your relationships.

Write list of ‘the things you like best’ of all your relationships, from colleagues to workmates, from children to family, from companions to lovers. Focus your attention and your energy on the ‘things you like best’ of everyone you meet, and everything you experience.

When you are faced with an unwanted experience, give it no time, give it no thought, give it no energy and give it no life.

You are the creator of your own reality, and whatever you focus your attention and energy to, shall be manifest.

To live with the experience of your desires, focus on nothing that contradicts that experience.

Think only about the good in your life, and only the good things will keep turning up.

If you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below…



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Jun 22, 2010
How to get him back?
by: Anonymous

Dear John and Nat
I immediately connected with your story. I met a wonderful man, whilst having asked for him from the universe. It was so wonderful for a while but we ended up going our separate ways. Since then I have cleaned up my vibrations immensely and have learnt more about the LOA and who I am and I am a much nicer person now than I was then. I so want our relationship back but he is seeing someone else. I know from Nat's email and my knowledge you cannot affect someone else's desire but I am totally convinced that we should be together and that there is more to get from our relationship.

I understand what I have to do once I get him back, but how do I get him back????? I visualise him in my life, remember happy times and emotions fully but I do not know how I can get him to a stage where he can see and listen to know it is the right thing to do. I cant bump into him as it is a long distance relationship but I know that he is my soulmate and it is the right thing.

Is there anything I can do to assist this process or is it just being patient and enjoying the journey wherever it takes me? I just want it to be to him.

Thank you so much for your time and I am so pleased Nat that you have got him back. Treasure every moment as though it is your first!

Aug 27, 2011
Going through the same
by: Anonymous

Dear John,
Just by chance i came across this website. Yes I'm going through the same phase... I've liked this guy for a long time and out of blue he wanted a relationship with me.Previously he had a bad relationship. So he is being very careful. Everything was right.. But now past 2 days i'm avoiding without meaning to. My parents don't approve the guy or his family. So I got scared. I do love him a lot. Please tell me what to do

Feb 29, 2012
how to cope with loosing the love of your life?
by: Kay

today i lost the love of my life due to a missunderstanding. he is the only one person that motivated me in every aspect of life, he is the only person that makes me happy. We are both 19 but knew that we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. We were friends in grade school lost contact and became best friends in 11th grade and two years after that we became an item. My question is, what help would the laws of attraction do if a relationship is indeed ment to be? He told me he wanted nothing to do with me. how can i go about this and stay positive because i feel it in my soul that we are ment to be.

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