How Do I Get The Love of My Life Back

by Joanne
(Ireland)

I have recently broken up with my boyfriend. I have never felt a love so strong and deep as the love I have for him and I would do anything to get him back. I have only recently discovered The Secret and am completely intrigued by it... Can I use The Secret to win him back? My heart is breaking.

From reading The Secret I am focusing my thoughts on all the goods things in life, he by far is my best. We have so much fun together and were planning to get married.

We are from different religions and our parents would not give their blessing, something that he could not accept and broke off our relationship.

I am broken and want him back more that anything else in this world.

Can anyone please give me advice?

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

You create your reality and your experiences, and you do this by focusing your thoughts and feelings. In other words, your reality is a match to whatever you focused thoughts and feelings are.

I refer to these focused thoughts and feelings as your vibration, and it is through your vibration that the Law of Attraction brings, all matching cooperative opportunities, events and people to you.

However, your boyfriend also creates his reality and his experiences. His reality is a match to whatever his focused thoughts and feelings are.

This is his vibration, and through his vibration the Law of Attraction brings, all matching cooperative opportunities, events and people to him.

In understanding this, there is no way that you can adjust your vibration to manifest a different reality for him. That would defy Law.

It is definitely good practise to focus your thoughts on all the good things in life, by doing so, you are focusing your thoughts and feelings on the good things you have, and as you do, you shift your vibration to these good things, and all matching cooperative opportunities, events and people are brought to you, through the Law of Attraction.

In other words, by focusing on the good stuff, you attract more good stuff to you.

But I have a major concern about this, as you said, “From reading The Secret I am focusing my thoughts on all the goods things in life, he by far is my best. We have so much fun together and were planning to get married.”

You are focusing on the good things in your life, yet the main focus is on something you do not have.

You are focusing your thoughts and feelings on a relationship you lack.

By doing this, you activate a greater feeling of lack, more thoughts of lack, and you add the lack of this relationship to your vibration, and all matching cooperative opportunities, events and people are brought to you, through the Law of Attraction.

In other words, by focusing on the lack of this relationship, you attract more lack to you.

The purpose of focusing your thoughts on all the good things in life, is to adjust your vibration to the good things you have, you switch your focus from the experiences you are missing, and adjust your vibration to the good things you have going on.

This helps you to focus your thoughts on what you want, without feeling the lack of having it now.

But you must remember that you cannot manifest in another’s reality, and all your aspirations should be You orientated. They must be goals that you have power and control over.

That is not to say that this relationship cannot come back together, but it is important for you to let this go, so that you can stop vibrating the lack of this.

It may be helpful for you to introduce him to these ideas, so that he could possibly take some of these ideas on board, but you need to understand that his Religion ‘rules’ could be a stumbling block to big for him to overcome, and he may not be able to get over this.

I would also suggest that you read Neale Donald Walsh’s book, Conversations with God, it will give you a deeper understanding of God and our purpose, it’s a wonderful book, and if you could get him to read it to, it may help you.

Abraham-Hicks book The Vortex: Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships, is also well worth reading.

It is also extremely important to focus your thoughts on all the good things about him, not as a condition of being together, but because you love him and you wish him the greatest happiness he could have.

When you do this, you shift your vibration the best parts of him, and if he does change his focused thoughts and feelings to be back with you, you will be a cooperative match to his positive vibration, instead of an uncooperative match to the lack of him.

If you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below…





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