How? How? How?

by Lisa

How can I "act" like I have lots of money? I know that we are to feel and act like we are rich. I just don't know how to do this!! I first learned about the Law of Attraction back in 2000, and I still just don't know how to do this pretending and feeling like I am rich!!

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

Many people will tell you that if you want to attract money, you must first visualize money, you must then emotionally feel having money, and as you focus your thoughts and feelings on having money now, the reality of financial abundance will come.

As a process, this is true, but when you are in a reality of not having money, and you only attempt to change your focus, you will find this very difficult.

The Law of Attraction will bring you what you vibrate, and by vibrate I mean your most predominant thoughts and feelings.

If you have an experience of not enough, then you must have a vibration of not enough. When I say a vibration of not enough, your predominant thoughts and feelings would be of fear of lack of money.

Similarly, if you have an experience of just getting by, then you must have a vibration of just getting by, or your predominant thoughts and feelings would be that believe you would just get by.

If either of these situations were your experience, then an obvious method to change the unwanted experience would be change your predominant thoughts and feelings. That is, change the vibration of not enough to match the vibration of your desire.

And to do this, you would usually be told to visualize, emotionalize, talk, act and pretend, that your desired experience was your reality now.

In other word if you were experiencing a lack of money, you would visualize, emotionalize, talk, act and pretend that an experience of plenty of money, was your reality now.

But how can you do that when you have to face the difficulties of the reality of lack you have now?

You see the real secret to changing your reality, is at first, accepting your reality as it is.

I know that sounds a bit confusing, especially when you are continually being told to focus on what you want,
but believe me, until you accept your reality now, no matter what you focus on, it will never come about.

This is because the Law of Attraction lines you up with your predominant thoughts and feeling, and when you are aware of these thoughts and feelings, and all you try to do is focus on what you want, you are never really changing your vibration.

All you are doing is defining where you are and where you want to be, and noticing, thinking, and feeling, how bad the difference between these realities feels. And you create a reality that hold these to places apart, making you feel exactly how you have been feeling.

No amount of acting and pretending will ever get you to what you are acting and pretending about. Accept where you are today, and become happy, satisfied and content with where you are and just look forward to where you are going.

Thoughts of lack, sponsor a reality of lack, and it is really important that you redefine the thoughts about the lack that you are experiencing, so that they cease to sponsor more lack into your future.

What is the best of this moment?

What is the best of this experience?

What positives has this reality of lack brought you?

List these things, think about these things, be grateful for these things, and whenever a though or feeling enters your mind that contradicts these thinks, switch to the thoughts and feelings that are of the best of now.

When you come to terms with where you are now, you can start to define where you want to be tomorrow.

But do not sweat it….

You know where you want to be, God knows where you want to be, the universe knows where you want to be, your soul knows where you want to be, and they are all holding your desires for you, all you have to do is catch up.

I hope this helps….

If you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below…


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May 18, 2010
Thank you
by: Anonymous

A million thanks, I now feel much better by accepting my reality as you suggested.Turns out it is far better than I thought and thus shifted my focus. I am in a positive equity situation and while cash flow needs to improve my foundation is positive.

Jul 08, 2010
Brilliant advice and questions
by: Ivanka Bajri

This puts a whole new perspective on everything. Thank you very much. Its absolutely AWESOME. May the Universe bless you now and forever. Love Ivanka

Aug 23, 2010
Thank You
by: Anonymous

I found your website by browsing. So far it is great. Your article How? How? How? hit the nail on the head and has given me that missing part that I was in need of to understand. Thank you.

Jun 01, 2011
start with small
by: Anonymous

I think that if you are lacking, you cant just say i want to be rich, of course its hard to imagine and act and feel rich when you are far from it, and thats why its important for my perspective to manifest what is more closer to you, more comfortable, more at ease, i know they say expect more but if your mindset is not there yet, you have blocking mindset, limiting beliefs that you are not aware of, so its important to say affirmations to see how you feel when you say those affirmations, do you feel comfortable when you say "I Lisa am wealthy, or I LIsa deserve to be rich" how you feel? if you feel umcomfortable with any of the sayings then go back and think why? where did it come from? what are the limiting beliefs about money, im sure you know all this, and you heard about it, im just giving you examples, that start with small, after you start manifesting little things you will feel comfortable with more, and feel more confident and you will not have any problem feeling and acting and seeing (pretending) yourself rich :)and its easier when you know that you dont have to create anything, its already there, you are just bringing it to your physical life, :) the more you practice manifesting little things easier its going to get emotionally to be ready for wealth. :0)
good luck, and God Bless :)

Jun 02, 2011
Accepting our current situation
by: Anonymous

beautifully put!

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