I Think I Used The Secret To Find Him

by Hailee

I really really like this guy, but I'm not too sure if he likes me back. I can't make him like me right? Is there any way to get some good hints from the universe?


I think I used the secret to find out who he is. And meet him. I mean, he matched my 'perfect boyfriend' list almost exactly. But, the problem is, he seems to maybe like me, but I'm not positive.

I can't force him to like me. I don't know what to do.

I'll try to get hints from the universe, and they so far have been all a yes, but I don't know if he feels the same about me.

I did have a dream about him. Doesn't that mean he had a dream about me? I'm so confused.

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

Ok, back up a minute….

You say that you found this guy by writing a list? I that is the case, then well done, you must be on the right track. But let’s just take a step back a minute.

The Secret….. or the Law of Attraction, will give you what you are thinking, feeling or vibrating, and when you stop and evaluate how you are thinking, feeling or vibrating, is it a vibration of being in the perfect relationship now, or is it a vibration of not being in a perfect relationship now?

I know that this sounds odd, but when I read your question, it feels to me that you are vibrating ‘not being in a perfect relationship.’ I sense an almost desperate grasping at a relationship, and since the Law of Attraction will line you up with what you are resonating, the experience you will get, will be one of grasping at a relationship.

You said that you wrote a list of your ‘perfect boyfriend’ qualities. When you wrote this list did you write it from a position of having it now, or did you write it from a position of ‘wanting’ it.

I am guessing that you wrote from a position of ‘want’, and as ‘wanting’ is a quality of not having something, you are in danger of manifesting a stronger feeling of ‘want.’

Indeed this seems the case, as you have been perfectly lined up with what you are wanting. This guy matches your want list, and you are experiencing a stronger feeling of want.

To attract someone with the qualities that you have written, you need to be living as if those qualities are your experience now. You need to feel them, enjoy them and have them now. And as you begin to vibrate as someone who has this special relationship, the circumstances that will bring you what you are vibrating will find you.

These circumstances of ‘finding you’ is just as important as vibrating your desires, this is called letting go, it means that you stop looking for signs. You see when you are looking for hints and signals, you are back to being without, and your whole vibration changes.

Trust and believe, this is the way forward, this is how this relationship will find you.

Remember you must Be as if you were in this relationship, you must Do as if you were in this relationship, and then you shall Have.


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Aug 30, 2010
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Could you please clarify?
by: Anonymous

Thank you for this wonderful website and I thought this was a great post. Since this is all very new to me, could you please clarify something for me? When you said,"To attract someone with the qualities that you have written, you need to be living as if those qualities are your experience now," how does one begin living as if those qualities are your experience now? Could you perhaps use an example to illustrate?

Thank you, once again.

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

You always ask for the things you prefer, even when you are experiencing an unwanted reality, the asking of what you do want is really taken care of.

The way you 'ask' for an improved reality, would be through visualization

The reason that visualization is so important, is to raise your vibration to your requests, instead of holding your vibration to your reality.

When you visualize, it is important that you add feeling to your visualization, as it is your emotions and feelings that make up your vibration, and it is your vibration that acts upon the Law of Attraction, ensuring that you receive an exact vibrational match.

So to attract someone with the qualities that you desire, visualize and feel as though you were living those qualities now, and carry this feeling through into your day.



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Sep 03, 2010
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Thank you!
by: Anonymous

Thank you, John. Really appreciate the explanation.

Oct 15, 2010
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can u explain further
by: Anonymous

Hey John.
What does "living those qualities" mean. Does it mean that we visualize ourselves as exhibiting those qualities OR we visualize and feel like it will feel if the person with those qualities were already there in our life??

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