I Want This Guy Can I Use The Law of Attraction
I have been talking to a guy I met online over a year ago, we text each other every weekend, get on, great same interests and feel like we really connect. But he's quite shy and every time we arranged to meet something happened.
Anyway I read The Secret and watched the DVD. I visualized him, had positive thoughts and decided I would just go and see him, as he had given me his address.
When I turned up and he had a woman there, obviously he was shocked to see me, we spoke again by text and he said he's only been seeing her 2 weeks and still wants to keep in touch with me.
Now though I feel pretty bad, but would love to be in a relationship with him, so what do I do, can I still be with him even though he now has someone else?Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
Many people make the mistake of confusing people with experiences. A person is a person and an experience is an experience.
You do not attract people, you attract experiences, and it is through the people that you are aligned to, that these experiences are born.
The Law of Attraction works for all people at all times, it works by matching our thoughts and emotions to events, circumstances and people, to make us feel the way that we have been feeling.
If you are predominantly thinking and feeling love and romance, regardless of whether this is your now experience, you will be aligned to the best events, circumstance and people to make you feel love and romance.
But this must be a cooperative alignment, which means that each event, every circumstance and all the people involved, also align to these things as a match to their predominant thoughts and feelings.
This is why you cannot guarantee to attract a specific person, as the resulting relationship would have to be a cooperative match to universal law, and as you cannot control the predominant thoughts of another, you cannot know what they are attracting, and you cannot know whether or not you are a match.
However, the very fact that you have been aligned to the events and circumstances that have brought this person to you, it must have been as a cooperative match to the predominant thoughts and feelings you had.
So the question is here, what were your thoughts and feelings, before you became aligned to this person?
And, more importantly, what are your thoughts and feelings now?
We have seen that predominantly thinking and feeling love and romance, aligns to the best events, circumstance and people to make you feel love and romance.
But this is an inclusive universe, it includes all thought, and all feeling, whether this thought or feeling is
a match to your true desires or not.
In other words, it may have been your desire to find a perfect relationship, but if your predominant thoughts and feelings were of a lack of love and a lack of romance, you will be aligned to the best events, circumstance and people to make you feel more lack.
So what do you do?
The very best way to experience a relationship with someone, is to act, feel and think, as if that relationship existed now.
This is why you are told to visualize.
But visualization is often misunderstood, as it is not the images that you see that brings these experiences to you, it is the thoughts and emotions that you have, as you see these images, and the better you carry these thoughts and emotions with you throughout your day, the more evidence you shall see as the results of your efforts.
Does that mean that action is not required?
Not at all. Action is a big part of claiming your desires, but there is not enough action that you can take to realize a different reality than you have been attracting.
What I mean by that is this….
If you have been predominantly thinking and feeling the lack of a relationship, you will attract that reality, and you cannot take action to alter the experience of this lack, you are aligned to it.
Yes, you may get the guy, but undoubtedly, and somehow, this guy will make you feel more lack.
On the other hand, if you have been predominantly thinking and feeling, having this relationship, you will attract that reality, and any action you take should be inspired, should have the gut feeling that ‘you must do this’.
As I have no idea how you feel and how you have been thinking, I guess that this is the best answer I can give you…
If you have been predominantly thinking and feeling the lack of a relationship, you cannot take action to alter the experience of this lack, you are aligned to it.
The only thing you can do is adjust your thoughts and feelings, so that you predominantly think and feel as if you are of having this experience now, and only then should you take the action your inspired to take.
But if you have been predominantly thinking and feeling, as if your having this relationship now, follow your gut feeling and do the things you must do.
If you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below…Law-of-Attraction-Guide.com
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