Is It Possible, or Just Wishful Thinking?
I met a man online around 10 months ago and we instantly liked each other. For a couple of months we had communicated well and found out we have a lot of mutual interests. Our feelings started to grow and we made plans to meet each other.
But then his ex girlfriend entered his life and he got engaged in a week.
I was really hurt because he didn't say anything about it to me and I had to find out through other people.
That's when we stopped communicating and I decided that if he liked her, then I would let it be and focus on myself, even though I still had deep feelings for him.
I was getting over it little by little, feeling good about myself, making progress and trying not to let this influence me that much. And then, a couple of months later he contacted me again saying that he had broken up with his ex, that it didn't work out for him, that he missed me a lot and that he was sorry.
I forgave him and we started talking again. And then we finally met and liked each other in person. We spent a really nice time together.
As we live far away from each other we don't have the opportunity to see each other that often. After our meeting things are good. He says he likes me very much, and our communication is full of tenderness. We made plans to see each other again. But I am in such fear that everything will collapse.
I have a bad history in relationships with other people. I feel that if I believed that it would work out fine that I will get disappointed in the end and get hurt again. As we live different lives, far away from each other, it seems so unbelievable that anything would come out of it, even though there is mutual attraction present and a lot of passion. Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
Simplistically the Law of Attraction works in this way…
You vibrate, the Law of Attraction aligns to this vibration, and you experience a matching reality.
To expand on this I would say that your vibration is the accumulation of your focused thoughts and feelings, and depending on this accumulated thought, the Law of Attraction aligns to you a reality that keeps you thinking and feeling this way.
If the accumulation of your focused thoughts and feelings on a subject was fear and worry, the Law of Attraction would align you to a reality, in which you could continue to have, more thoughts and feelings of fear and worry on that subject.
For example, if the accumulation of your focused thoughts and feelings about relationships was disappointment and hurt, the Law of Attraction would align you to a reality, in which you could continue to have, more thoughts and feelings of disappointment and hurt about relationships.
It is not your historic relationships that will cause your bad experiences, neither is it your future relationships. The only reason that you will align to a bad relationship experience is because you hold that bad experience in your vibration.
You need to start to think and feel differently about your relationships. You need to see them in a new light. In a light that shines on the best of what can be, the
best of what is, and the best of what was.
For as long as you focus your thoughts to the worse of what can be, you shall continue to see the worse of what is.
I would suggest that you write a list of the best things and the best experiences of this relationship and this person, as they are now. Even though this relationship is so new, this is a worthwhile exercise as you begin to focus on the best of what you have.
I would also take some time to look back at your previous relationships and try to list the best of those experiences to.
Spend some time focusing on these good things, and whenever a thought enters your mind that contradicts your list, again focus your mind to the best of what you have and have had.
When it comes to relationships, you will find that any partner you are with can only manifest a match to your vibration. If you focus your thoughts to the best parts of an experience, then only the best parts of that experience are included in your vibration, and therefore your partner can only manifest the best parts of that experience to you. Otherwise, to comply with Law, they must leave your vibration.
This also works the other way around. If you focus your thoughts to the worse parts of an experience, then only the worse parts of that experience are included in your vibration, and therefore your partner can only manifest the worse parts of that experience to you. Otherwise, to comply with Law, they must leave your vibration.
It seems that you are resisting moving forward because of the fear you have that when you do move forward, the steps forward will not take you to where you want to be.
So I ask you this, can you stand still and get to where you want to be?
This is the dilemma, you cannot stand still and get what you desire, yet you will not move forward to get what you desire, so you really have no choice. You have to move forward.
But do not move forward in trepidation of what was, in fear of your history. Move forward with intention, with purpose. Align yourself not to the fear of what can go wrong, but to the certainty of what will go right, and as you include this certainty in you, you shall include it in what you experience.
If you are having trouble focusing on the best of what was, and the best of what is, and you find that you are being dragged into fear and worry, it would be a good idea for you to follow my 30-Day program to raise your vibration
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