Law of Attraction And Love

by Keira
(UK)

I've noticed that when I affirm to myself, I don't want to date or a boyfriend, I attract loads of men. (What you resist persists, I know lol). But when I genuinely want a boyfriend I cant find one?

How does the Law of Attraction attract the love you really want?

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

We live in an inclusive universe, and whatever we give our attention to, becomes our experience. You cannot deny, remove, chase away or diminish anything, by giving these things attention and energy, as it is this very attention and energy that calls them into existence.

This is the most basic principle of the Law of Attraction, that you align to your experience everything you give your attention, focus and energy to, whether wanted or not.

This attention, focus and energy, can be described as your predominant thoughts and emotions, the way you think and the way you feel, and it is the predominant way of thinking and feelings, that recreates a reality to keep you thinking and feeling this way.

To have a specific reality, it must be the case that if your thoughts and feelings were the same as the thoughts and feelings that you would have, if that reality existed now, then the Law of Attraction would have to recreate a reality to keep you thinking and feeling this way.

In other words, if you predominantly thought and felt as if the relationship you desired was already in existence, then you would have to be aligned to a reality that matched your thoughts and feelings, a reality that included your desired relationship, as a now existence.

So why is it that when you genuinely want a boyfriend, you cant find one?

You may think that because you are predominantly thinking about being in a relationship, the experience should manifest, in much the same way as it does when you affirm what you do not want.

But, do you predominantly think and feel, as if the relationship you desired was already in existence, or are you predominantly feeling the ‘want’ of this reality?

You see there is a huge gap between having, and wanting to have.

If you have something, your thoughts and feelings match your ‘having it’ experience.

But if you are ‘wanting’ something, your thoughts and feelings match a reality of not having it, and you align yourself to an experience to match the ‘wanting’ that you have been thinking and feeling.

I know it may seem like a subtle difference, but when it comes to the experience you manifest, there is absolutely nothing subtle about it.

In essence, to manifest a reality that includes your desired relationship, as a now existence, you need to stop wanting that experience, and predominantly think and feel as if this desired relationship was already in existence. Then, through the Law of Attraction, you would have to be aligned to a reality that matched your thoughts and feelings.

If you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below…





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