The Law of Attraction and marriage will show you how to use this law to help to build a loving, sharing and successful relationship.
Because most people who are introduced to the Law of Attraction are often dissatisfied with their current reality, and are desperately seeking to improve their experiences, the Law of Attraction is all too often thought to be, a law of change.
A law by which new experiences, (that is exciting and desirable experiences), are brought to our realities, by the introduction of new thought processes, which are said to attract these things.
But the Law of Attraction has always played a part in our lives, it has been the process by which all experiences have come to us, wanted or unwanted, and to affirm or visualize to successfully align to new and wanted desires, without attempting to change the thoughts that have sponsored the unwanted experiences we have had, would be an impossible task.
When you think about it, as we tend to think and feel in a habitual way, the Law of Attraction can be likened to a Law of Status Quo, as our habitual thoughts and feelings sponsor a habitual and repeating experience, and if these experiences that keep turning up tend to be unwanted, to change them, we would have to alter our habitual way of thinking and feeling.
This is why so many people struggle to master the Law of Attraction, as they attempt to focus upon the things they want, without trying to change their thoughts about what they have, and no matter how hard they think about their desires, their unwanted experiences keep turning up.
And, when it comes to the Law of Attraction and marriage, it becomes very difficult to get what you want from a relationship when you spend a lot of time thinking and feeling about what is missing, or what would be preferred in that relationship.
To harness the power of the Law of Attraction you must exercise control of the mind, and to do this you must practise thinking in a particular way.
This is the purpose of my Unlock The Power WorkBook, as it teaches you step-by-step to come to terms with the reality you have now.
But if you follow the steps in this WorkBook and manage to exercise control over your thoughts and emotions, and master the Law of Attraction, will your marriage be everything you wish it to be?
The Law of Attraction aligns to our reality events, circumstances and people that cooperate with the way we think and feel.
This 'cooperation' is an important part of the whole process, as for this Law to be a Law, it must work for all of us, and therefore cooperate with the way we all think and feel.
For instance, the Law of Attraction aligns to my reality, events, circumstances and people that cooperate with the way I think and feel.
It also aligns to your reality, events, circumstances and people that cooperate with the way you think and feel.
As does it align to your partners reality, events, circumstances and people that cooperate with the way they think and feel.
And as the Law of Attraction must work for all people at all times, each of our realities must align with each of our thoughts and feelings, and the resulting experience must cooperate with each person who is sharing in this experience.
So, when it comes to the Law of Attraction and marriage, as you and your partner think and feel about your marriage, the conditions that must be produced in this shared experience must be a match to each of your thoughts and feelings.
We can see the Law of Attraction and marriage at work when we look at a typical growth of a relationship.
In new relationships couples tends to be on the look out for the things that please them, and as they are unaware of the displeasing parts of their partner's behaviour, these displeasing parts don't manifest themselves that often.
When it comes to the Law of Attraction and marriage, it becomes very difficult to get what you want from a relationship when you spend time thinking and feeling about what is missing.
However, as this relationship grows, and we start to notice some, not so desirable behaviour, we tend to offer this unwanted behaviour, attention, focus and energy. We align with it vibrationaly, and as a result we see more of this behaviour manifest.
It is easy to understand that to change and experience you must change the way you think and feel, but, if you change the way you think and feel towards a partner, does it necessarily mean that the experience with that partner must become the way you think and feel it will?
This is the confusing thing about the Law of Attraction and marriage that many people have trouble understanding.
Yes, it is correct to say that to change an experience you must change the way you think and feel, however, it does not follow that a partner has to become the cooperating part of your new experiences that match the new way you have been thinking and feeling.
Don't forget that the new reality you are focusing on, when it manifests, must cooperate with each individual that shares that reality, and if your desires go against your partner's thoughts and feelings, for them to cooperate in your new reality, would mean that that reality would have to defy law.
Yes, you can focus on the experiences you desire.
Yes, you can match your thoughts and feelings towards the existence of your desires.
However, you cannot manipulate the events, circumstances and people within your current reality, in order to match the experiences that you want.
In fact, by feeling the need to manipulate the events, circumstances and people within your current reality, your thoughts and feelings would not be a match to your desires, they would be a match to the lack of your desires, and as such, would result in a reality that lacked the experiences you most wanted to manifest.
The power you have is the control over your thoughts and emotions, and by exercising this power, you will not need to manipulate and mold your reality to represent the things you want to experience, instead you only need to let go and allow the events, circumstances and people to align with your reality as cooperating parts of the resulting experience.
If it is the case that we have no power to manipulate or mold our reality to match the experiences we want to have, what is the point of the Law of Attraction and marriage?
Although it may seem that the Law of Attraction strips the influence we have on the way our partners act and behave, this law is actually the most powerful force acting between people, and can be either an irresistible energy that brings people together, or a force so repellent that two people can never be drawn to each other.
The Law of Attraction brings vibrationaly matching people together so that their cooperating realities provide for each other an exact match to how they think and feel. And it separates vibrationaly unmatching people so that their uncooperating vibrations cannot contradict the forces of each individual's thoughts and feelings.
It is the reason that couples find bliss and happiness, as the experience is matched to the bliss and happiness each partner holds. And it is also the reason that couples find distrust, discord and misery, as the experience is matched to the distrust, discord and misery each partner holds.
In truth, we cannot align to specific experiences with specific people. All we can do is focus our thoughts and feelings to match the experiences we desire, and then, instead of pushing our realities around to try and represent these desires, simply detach, let go, and allow the events, the circumstances and the people to align to us in order for these most wanted experiences to be realized.
Understanding the Law of Attraction and marriage, that we cannot control our partners, and we cannot expect them to act and behave in a certain way, where does this leave the institution of marriage?
Traditionally, marriage is made through some civil or religious ceremony in which promises are made by the Bride and Groom to define the expectations and behaviour that each partner may expect from the other.
At the beginning of the marriage this expectation is usually satisfied as the Husband and Wife are still identifying and focusing on the things they like best about each other.
But, as couples grow together, it is not uncommon for one or both Husband and Wife to start to notice, think about and feel about, the things they don't like to much about their partners habits, behaviour and attitude, and as we have seen, the more we think and feel about what we don't like, the more these unlikable things are attracted.
And, as our partners are the ones offering this behaviour, and we are thinking and feeling about it, the reality that results cooperates with the way we both think and feel.
Does this mean that we must redefine marriage?
To me it does, because if the wedding was not based on unkeepable promises, but instead, based upon unconditional love and motiveless sharing, with the only expectation being honesty, the pressure placed upon such a union would be released, allowing this partnership to flourish and grow.
This could then be a union of two people in which the focus could be towards what brought joy, not heartache, happiness not discord and harmony not confusion, and for as long as this partnership continued to cooperate and grow in joy, happiness and harmony, so shall this union remain.
Of course, it will always be advantageous to see the best of the people you interact with, it will give them the best opportunity to cooperate with the thoughts and feelings you have towards them. But understand, this is never guaranteed, and as soon as you start to notice, talk about, think about and feel, that these people do not match the thoughts and feelings you have towards them, you are including their unwanted behaviour in you, and as a part of you, their unwanted behaviour continues to manifest.
Remember, see the best of the people you interact with to give them the best opportunity to cooperate with the thoughts and feelings you have towards them, and if they can offer this cooperation, they will.
But if they cannot bring to you an experience that matches what you think and feel, they must leave your experience as they cannot be an unmatching and uncooperationg part of your reality, and as such, they cannot exist with you. It is then, as you continue to focus on what you wish for and what you desire, that the events, circumstances and people shall align to you to fulfil these wishes and desires.
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