Law of Attraction Money Block
I just sold my home and was shocked with how little we made after fees and commissions. We are focusing on the wonderful condo we made an offer on and how happy we will be there. The bummer part it seems is that we just barley have enough in down payment and closing. I may not have enough to pay the mover we are so tight.
We never go without. Our needs are always met but it seems like I have some kind of "set point" when it comes to cash. I can manifest $1000 and then a bill will come in for $1000. Instead of manifesting abundance, it seems I attract "just getting by." How do I change this?
Ron Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
The Law of Attraction is a mechanism by which what you think and feel becomes an experience for you, not that each thought and each feeling will correspond in your reality, rather it is the sum of your thoughts and the sum of your feelings that will determine what you experience.
This sum of thought and emotion is what I would term as your predominant thoughts or your vibration, and as you vibrate at a certain frequency about any given subject, the Law of Attraction shall align you to events and circumstances in which you can continue your vibration.
For example, if you think and feel content, your predominant thoughts or vibration will be one of contentness, and in order for you to maintain the way you vibrate, the Law of Attraction shall align you to events and circumstances that help you to feel more content.
Similarly, if you think and feel lonely, your predominant thoughts or vibration will be one of loneliness, and in order for you to maintain the way you vibrate the Law of Attraction shall align you to events and circumstances that help you to feel more lonely.
When you understand that it is your thoughts and emotions that create your reality, you will start to see that you are both the cause and the cure for any experience that you have that is unwanted, but unlike most other people you will begin to appreciate that the cure does not come through manipulating your reality, it instead comes from adjusting the way you think and feel.
For the majority of people, when they try to change their experiences, they focus on the parts of their reality that displease them. They focus on getting more money to cure their debt, they focus on changing their partner’s behavior to cure their relationships, and they focus on drugs and medicine to cure their disease. But what they fail to understand is that by thinking and feeling about what they don’t want, they predominantly think about what needs changing and add this need for change to their vibration, and as a consequence of the way they vibrate, they align to more events and circumstances that need to be changed.
You create your reality by what you think, and for as long as you think and feel that you never manifest abundance but always get by, you shall continue to see the evidence of your thoughts in the experiences you align to.
The trouble is, as it is this experience of just having enough that causes you to think about just having enough, and thinking about just having enough is the cause of you experiencing just having enough, you end up in a circle of creation in which you react to conditions, only to recreate that condition in
So how do you change this?
Most people will try to change this by trying to earn, or align to, more money, but as the intention of more money is to solve a problem of not enough, each time you focus on the need for more, you activate the thoughts of not enough, and simply re-align to that experience.
Strangely enough, to attract more than enough, you have got to stop trying to attract more than enough, this is because the only reason that you are focusing on having more is that you think and feel that there is always only just enough, and to keep you wanting more and thinking and feeling that there is only just enough, you have to align to an experience that helps you think and feel this way.
Yes the Law of Attraction can bring you everything you desire, but if your desire is born out of a need to change, undoubtedly you’ll simply end up attracting a need for change.
But of course most desire is born out of preference, but as preference has two sides, the preferred and the unpreferred, it is only by focusing on the preferred that a new preferable experience can be attracted.
So what is it that you prefer in your now existence? Is it having enough, or is it not having more than enough? Surely it is having enough, and by simply focusing on the wonderful fact that you always seem to have enough, you shall start to turn off the thoughts of not having more than enough, allowing the vibration of having more to be activated.
I would do this by writing a list of all the things I was grateful for now, in your case you could include the fact that you are moving to your dream condo, that you managed to align to someone to buy your home, that you have enough for the down payment and closing, and as you know that you always attract enough that you’ll be able to move, and that no matter what, you always attract enough money to pay all your bills.
Use a affirmation such as, “I am so happy that we are moving to our dream condo, having attracted a buyer to our home, I am grateful to have enough for the down payment and closing, it’s fantastic that no matter what, I always attract enough money to pay all the bills.”
Focus on what is good now, and when you start to think about not having more than enough, refocus on what is good now. Do this until you start to forget about not having more than enough, and instead focus naturally on always having enough. And only then start to think about having more.
To do this, turn your affirmation into a gentle intention, such as, “I am so happy that we are moving to your dream condo, I am grateful to have enough for the down payment and closing, it’s fantastic that no matter what, I always attract enough money to pay all the bills, and I am looking forward to having a little extra soon.”
And of course as you start to see a little extra start to manifest, add this to your gratitude statement, and intend even more.
I hope this helps in some way.
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