Law of Attraction Relationships Parents Disapproval

by Kejal Sohan Bhai Agrawal
(Surat ,Gujarat)

We love each other so much...but my family finds another groom for me, my family doesn’t agree with our relationship, and hi Mom is also against. We are both 23 years old, and in his home the plan is traditionally to marry at the age of 26

He wants to marry me, but not go against his mom.

Please help me soon. What will I do?

My parents know about my relationship, and they don’t agree.

Please help as soon as possible.

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

Where do we find happiness?

Where do we find contentness?

Where do we find companionship?

Where do we find love?

If I was to believe that happiness, contentness, companionship and love where found in the conditions of my reality, it would be understandable that I would need to control those conditions in order to feel these emotions.

If I believed that happiness was found in the conditions of my experience, then to find happiness, I would manipulate and control the people in my experience so that they acted in the way that made me happy.

If I believed that contentness was found in the conditions of my experience, then to find contentness, I would manufacture rules that allowed people I associated with to only act in a way that met my approval.

If I believed that companionship was found in the conditions of my experience, then to find companionship, I would chase the people I was attracted to, and persuade them to be with me, regardless of what they wanted.

If I believed that love was found in the conditions of my experience, then to find love, I would make my partner and children behave in a way that kept me so pleased that I would never feel the need to criticize or chastise them.

As most of society believes that we must control the events and people that we interact with, it is not surprising that we have cultures, all around the world, that exercise the control of others, in an attempt to eliminate unwanted conditions.

What is strange is that up to now, no unwanted conditions have ever been eliminated, and as countries national laws expand, so do their prisons, to the extent that, in order to control the system, more and more countries now make it mandatory to release their prisoners early.

The fact is that there is no amount of rule making, controlling and persuading that can rid anyone of unwanted experience. This is because, when someone attempts to change conditions from unwanted to wanted, they must first focus on what needs change. It is through this focus that, through the Law of Attraction, they simply recreate more unwanted conditions.

The Law of Attraction works in this way….

When you predominately think and feel in a certain way you set up your vibrational tone. It is to this vibration that, through the Law of Attraction, events and circumstances are drawn to you to help you to continue to think and feel in the same way.

Because the Law of Attraction brings us what we are thinking, when we are unaware of the importance of our thought, we tend to think about our experiences, which recreates more experience that help us to think in a similar way about our experiences.

Great when your experiences are desirable, but disastrous if our focus is switched to what is wrong or difficult in our lives.

Simply put, to get what you want out of life you must, at first, stop focusing on what you have that is undesirable. By focusing in this way you only recreate more undesirable conditions.

Gratitude is one of the best ways of doing this, as it switches your attention to the best parts of your experiences so that more best parts can be drawn to you.

If you wish to follow a step-by-step program to help you change your focus, the very first part of applying the Law of Attraction, download my 30-Day Unlock The Power WorkBook.

Once you have managed to stop focusing on what is wrong, you will start to see the evidence of your change of thought, in the conditions you experience, and you will know and feel that your reality is starting to represent what you want. It is then that I would start to attract new experiences.

You attract new experiences by focusing your thoughts to the existence of new desirable conditions, as if they already existed. You would then become a vibrational match to the things you wanted so that the Law of Attraction would align them to you.

Would your new thought change the thought of your parents and his family?

Probably not, as you have no power of what they think and feel, and ultimately attract, and for as long as you focused on what you do not like about their way of thinking, you shall continue to match that vibration of what you did not like, and of course, always seem to be in their company when they expressed their disapproving thoughts.

I guess I am saying this…

You cannot change them, and for as long as you focus on trying to change them, you shall continue to attract circumstances in which you feel you must try and change them. That is Law.

But you can accept them and focus on what is best, and as you do you only align to what is best. Whether they become that matching part of what you hold as best is unknown, but to share you experience they will have to vibrate with it, otherwise they must vibrate right out of how you feel. That is Law

You have the choice to experience the things you wish to. In fact, there is no choice as you are the only one who creates your world, and your world only exists for you. Yes there are people and circumstances that will offer you new choices and new experiences, but only you can focus or ignore these new things, choosing to include them or exclude them in you new tomorrows.

Choose freedom and choose love, and it can’t go wrong, that is Law.

I hope that you have found this information useful, and if you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below…

With Gratitude

John Peace

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