Law of Attraction Tips – How To Attract A Life Partner

by Sujitha
(India)

How to attract a life partner? I want to know how to attract my soul mate for myself, and I want to know when I write the qualities of my future soul mate, should I write in the present tense or in the future tense? For example, should I write…

My husband is very caring….
or
I am going to get a very caring husband….

Out of these two statements, which is right?

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

The Law of Attraction brings us a match to our most focused thoughts and feelings. That is, what we think about most, and what we feel about most, becomes our reality.

These thoughts and feelings are what I refer to as our vibration, and as you think a thought, or feel a feeling, you add these thoughts and feelings to your vibration.

It is this vibration that the Law of Attraction responds to, and this response is to align to your reality, experiences that keep you vibrating this way.

The Law of Attraction does not bring you what you want, or what you need. Neither does it bring you what you desire, it simply brings you what you vibrate.

In essence, the Law of Attraction is recreating you, because as you vibrate, it recreates and aligns the events, circumstances and people, that caused you to vibrate that way.

A common misunderstanding of this Law has been put about by an over simplistic idea, that if you think enough, if you ask enough, and if you visualize enough, the things you think about, ask for and imagine, shall become your reality.

This is a misunderstanding because the Law of Attraction will not necessarily respond to this thinking, asking and visualising.

Here’s what I mean…

If you are experiencing an unwanted reality, then this unwanted reality causes you to think about the things you want, it causes you to ask for what you think is the remedy for this unwanted reality, and for those people who know about the Law of Attraction, they will try all sorts of techniques to make their asking clear.

For example, if someone were to be in debt, then this unwanted reality would cause them to think about the things they want, (no debt). It causes them to ask for what they think is the remedy for this unwanted reality, (more money). And if these people know about the Law of Attraction, they will try all sorts of techniques to make their asking clear, (they want more money!).

They think about debt, they need more money, and they want more money. And as they vibrate these thoughts and feelings, the Law of Attraction recreates and aligns the events, circumstances and people that caused them to vibrate this way.

More debt, more need for money, and more reason to want money.

In this example it would be impossible for these people to align to a reality of more money, as their vibration matches the thoughts and feelings of lack.

This is what I mean when I say that the Law of Attraction does not bring you what you want, or what you need. Neither does it bring you what you desire, it simply brings you what you vibrate.

So how do you match the vibration of your desires?

Your vibration is made up of your most focused thoughts and feelings, so I guess that to match the vibration of your desires, you need to match the most focused thoughts and feelings that you will have, when your desire is a reality.

To try to identify these thoughts and feelings, answer these four questions.

What is your Desired Outcome?

How will you know when you are successful?

What will your success look like?

How will it feel when you are successful?

The most focused thoughts and feelings that you will have, when your desire is a reality, is the answer to the last question.

Your answers could go something like this….

What is your Desired Outcome?
Attracting a life partner.

How will you know when you are successful?
I will be with someone who I love, and loves me.

What will your success look like?
A happy, caring, respectful and loving relationship.

How will it feel when you are successful?
In love, excited, romance, joyful and secure.

The most focused thoughts and feelings that you will have, when you have your desire would be, in love, excited, romance, joyful and secure.

So in answer to your question, I would write your statement of intent rather like this.

“I am so excited with the love, romance and security that this joyous relationship with my life partner continues to bring Me.”

The phrases ‘I am so excited’ is a present tense statements, you are stating your goal as an already achieved reality.

Joy, love, romance, security and excitement are your focused thoughts and feelings, as if this goal was a now reality.

A ‘relationship with my life partner’ is your most desired outcome, And, one more trick, the word ‘continues’ is important as a ‘process word’ as it presupposes that you will ‘continue’ to have you desire.

I use a step by step process like this in my free mini-course called Unlock The Power of You, if you would like to follow it, and learn how to use these thoughts and feelings in your visualisations, simply sign up for the course.

If you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below…





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