Law of Attraction Tips – Manifesting My Husband
My intention is to manifest my husband into my life and be in a romantic relationship with him before the end of the year. I try to think positively about this desire and feel ‘now’ how I will feel when he is in my life.
My problem is that when I encounter negative people (who say why aren't you married etc), negative circumstances (guys not calling or not being attracted to a guy interested in me), and other people that are getting married and having babies (I wonder why not me).
If I don't catch and replace the aforementioned negative thoughts with positive thoughts immediately then it takes me a while to get back to my positive vibration.
Please tell me what I need to do/think to manifest my soul mate by the end of the year and keep myself in high vibration. Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
What you are correctly trying to do, is match to the vibration of your desires, by adjusting your thoughts and feelings, as if your desires existed now.
But what you are experiencing is a difficulty to Let Go.
It is our human nature to look for solutions, certainly without it, we would not have evolved to such intelligent and creative creatures.
In our quest to find the right ways to create our desires, we often overlook ideas and inspirations, because we are bound by our preconceived ideas of what will work or not.
We therefore set goals, and try to achieve our goals based on what we think will work, rather than just going with the flow.
When you turn things over to the universe, you have to understand that the Universe, God, Cosmic Mind, or whatever you want to call it, sees things from a much bigger perspective than you ever could.
So you have to trust that the right opportunities, ideas and circumstances will come to you, at exactly the right moment.
I guess the best way to describe Letting Go, is having Faith And Belief that what you ask for, will come.
When you are not Letting Go, you will hear it in your ‘Brain Chatter’ as it is demonstrated by questions like How, Why, Where and When, that seem to uncontrollably keep popping into your head.
These little thoughts can also express themselves as doubt, criticism, impatience, anger, frustration or worry, and as much as you try to knock them down, they more and stronger they seem to pop back up.
All these uncontrollable thoughts are signs that you are not letting go, and demonstrate an understandable lack of faith and belief that you are experiencing.
Abraham-Hicks have recently referred to Letting Go, as living in The Vortex.
When you are in your Vortex, you have Let Go, and you are aligned with everything you have asked for.
When you are asking How, Why, When and Where, or feeling Doubt, Impatience or Frustration, you have not Let Go and you are outside your Vortex. You are then Not lined up with the things you have asked for.
Here’s a short video from Abraham-Hicks explaining the idea of The Vortex. Abraham-Hicks The Vortex
In this next video from Abraham-Hicks, Abraham, through Esther Hicks talks about Letting Go as allowing, and answers a question for someone who is clearly
struggling with the idea of Letting Go.Abraham-Hicks Aligning With My Veritable Fortune
The new book from Abraham-Hicks, called The Vortex is definitely worth a read, and can be found at Amazon, or any good book retailer. The Vortex: at Amazon
To describe the moment of not Letting Go I would say that, although the positive focus is on the desire, a seemingly uncontrollable thought exists that contradicts this desire.
But the thing about thought is that in the moment, you can only carry one state of thought. That is, you cannot feel excited and powerless at the same time. Nor can you at any given moment feel eager and angry, hopeful and frustrated, nor happy and sad.
Basically, positive and negative thought cannot exist at the same time.
So how do you turn your negative thoughts into positive ones?
Well you can’t really change a negative thought, but you can forget it.
When I say forget it, I mean get something for it. We have seen that a negative thought cannot exist in the presence of a positive thought, so the only way you can stop a negative thought, is to replace it with a positive one.
So what do you have in your experience right now that makes you think and feel positive?
Is it family, work, career, health, wealth, friends or interests?
Write out a list of all the good things in your life now, and go through your list every morning and every evening, to remind yourself of what’s good in your life now.
Become very familiar with this list of positives that you have, and as soon as you find yourself encountering negative people, repeat your list.
Again, as soon as you find yourself encountering negative circumstances, repeat your list.
And again, as soon as you find yourself thinking about other people that are getting married and having babies, repeat your list.
Replace your negative thoughts with thoughts of gratitude for what you have now. And in time, and with practise, you shall change your state of mind from predominately negative, to predominantly positive, and as you do, you shall feel the change in your experiences.
However, as you have also experienced problems getting back to your positive vibration, I would also suggest that you start to meditate. I have practised Vipassana Meditation for some time now and I am sure it will help you, take a look at the UrbanDharma.org Website
for some great information, you can also download an eBook on Vipassana called Mindfulness in Plain English
Another possibility that may be worth considering is that your inability to focus on your desires, may be down to some limiting beliefs you have about yourself.
I use a step-by-step process to uncover and remove limiting beliefs in my free mini-course called Unlock The Power of You
. If you would like to follow it, and learn how to use these ideas, simply sign up for the course.
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