Law of Attraction Unhappy At Work

by Sunny
(Bangkok)

I changed my job in Nov, 2008 for betterment. The new job came to me all of a sudden but I chose the new job very carefully and took a lot of time to decide. I joined this new company hoping for the best and flourishing career.

From day one I sensed negative vibrations at place of work, unhelpful and stubborn colleague etc etc. So due to this instead of moving 2 steps ahead my career has gone 10 steps backward.

I joined as the Head of Marketing but the management is afraid of the existing person who is under me, and is listening to him only. And that guy is acting against me and not listening to me.

All this has made me very frustrated and I have lost interest in this job.

Now I am trying to attract the job of my dreams and I have written down all characteristics for this new job like location, work environment, salary, growth prospects etc etc.

Kindly guide as to how I can achieve my goal very quickly by applying the Law of Attraction.

Many thanks in advance for your kind help.

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

You cannot attract the job of your dreams from your current reality, in fact, given your emotional state about your job now, any new job will be a step backwards.

Why? Because you have attracted your reality now, as it is, and as much as you try to push against and change this reality, by trying to change the environment, the people or the experience, another environment, more people and a similar experience will be brought to replace it.

To understand this, it would be helpful if you could go back to when you started this new job, back in 2008. You changed your job for betterment. The new job came to you all of a sudden, and when you joined this new company, you were hoping for a flourishing career.

Now it sounds to me that you took this position from a positive point of view, full of enthusiasm, optimism and hope. It was a joyful time.

So what happened?

On day one you sensed negative vibrations with unhelpful and stubborn colleague, and because of that your career has gone backwards.

This has left you feeling powerless, uninspired and frustrated, with people acting in an uncooperative way towards you.

Now lets try to think about this from a Law of Attraction point of view, but before we do, let me give you a quick overview of how the Law of Attraction works.

Your vibration is made up of your predominant thoughts, feelings and beliefs, and the Law of Attraction aligns to your reality, each person, all events and every opportunity, that is a match to your vibration.

So the reality we experience depends upon our predominant thoughts, feelings and beliefs. And contrary to popular belief, your reality has nothing to do with visualizations, affirmations, lists and goals.

Yes visualizations, affirmations, lists and goals can be useful tools to help you change the way you think and feel, but that is it. They will never bring a changed reality, until you learn how to use them properly.

In fact using any of these techniques when you are feeling powerless, uninspired and frustrated will just make you feel more powerless, uninspired and frustrated.

So let’s go back to the start of this job, when you were had a positive point of view, you were full of enthusiasm, optimism, hope and joy. Surely the Law of Attraction should have lined you up to an experience that matched this vibration?

If enthusiasm, optimism, hope and joy was your vibration, then this new job would have definitely lined you up to experience more feelings of enthusiasm, optimism, hope and joy.

But, as you said, you sensed negative vibrations with unhelpful and stubborn colleague. That may be true, but that does not mean that the Law of Attraction was not at work.

You see you will always be exposed to sources of vibration that are a contrast to your desires, if you were not, if you only ever experiences the ‘good’ stuff, how would you ever know it was good.

Difference and contrast will always be there to help us decide what it is we want. These things help us define our desires, to help us to design our preferred reality.

Now the mistake you made was this… As soon as you sensed this negative vibration and noticed these unhelpful and stubborn colleague, you offered it thought and feeling, and as a result of the thought and feeling you offered, the more unhelpful and stubborn your colleagues became. You then offered this reality more thought and feeling, and as a result of the more thought and feeling you offered, your colleagues became even more unhelpful and stubborn.

This has got worse and worse until now, your predominant vibration is one of powerlessness, lacking inspiration and full of frustration, and any attempt to use the Law of Attraction from here, will only bring you less power, less inspiration and more frustration.

You can’t get to where you want to be from here.

It would be much more value if you start to get some satisfaction of where you are now, and to do that I would start to look for all the positive things about now, whilst looking forward to the positive things of the future.

List everything that is good in your life right now. When it comes to your job, write down all the good aspects of your job, what it gives you, what its advantages are, the security it provides, absolutely any positive thing you can come up with..

Spend some time sitting quietly contemplating these positives, and make the positive parts of your job, your predominant thoughts and feelings.

When any negative thought enters your mind, repeat your list of positives, putting on the end.. “won’t it be nice when have ________________, in my life.” (just fill in your desires).

When you shift your vibration to the positives, and dismiss the negative, you will find your whole work experience will change. People will cooperate, will help and support you, or they will vibrate right out of your experience.

Once you have done this, you can then start to define the job you desire, (if you haven’t got it already!!)

I hope this helps in some way…

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