Living with A Negative Manifester
I am actively practicing manifesting, and have some successes. My problem is that my elderly mother lives with me. She isn't able to live on her own, and has always had that victim persona.
She has a very negative view, and constantly complains of what we don't have and how poor we are. Bad things and drama are always rolling her way--which by default I deal with. I try to explain the Law of Attraction to her, but she won't listen.
I guess my question is--If I concentrate on bringing positive things my way, will her negative views just cancel them out (like I'll manifest extra money, but she'll have a mix-up in a bill and have to pay extra?)
Is there a way to manifest around someone with such negativity?Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
You do not need your mother to be positive in order for you to feel positive, and you there is no way that she can bring a negative situation to you, if you are in a positive frame of mind. However, if you let your mother’s negativity effect you, then I can see that this would be difficult.
To deal with this you have to understand that your mother’s negativity is really a reflection of your own negativity. That it is your own thoughts and beliefs that cause this negativity to be manifested in your presence.
I am not suggesting that your mother is expressing your thoughts, but I am suggesting that her expression of negativity has to be a match for your thoughts about her.
If you are trying to apply the Law of Attraction, you will be aware that what you think, feel and focus on, will bring to you experiences to match. So, for example, if you wish to attract financial abundance, you need to think, feel and focus on financial abundance, and the circumstances, people and opportunities to have this experience, will be brought to you.
In just the same way, if you wish to attract romance, you need to think, feel and focus on romance, and the circumstances, people and opportunities for you to have this experience, will be brought to you.
This goes for every experience you wish to have, if you wish to experience something, you need to think, feel and focus on that experience, and the circumstances, people and opportunities will be brought to you.
But this is not just a method to get the things we want, this is a Law, it operates at all times, it is the way that all experiences are brought to us, whether we want them or not.
This is why people facing debt problems have so much difficulty getting out of them, they think, feel and focus on debt, and the circumstances, people and opportunities for more debt are brought to them. It’s why people with health problems experience more poor health, and why someone who is abused, tends to move into another abusive relationship.
So it follows that if you are experiencing something you want, it’s down to your thoughts, your feelings and your focus, in just the same way, if you are experiencing something you don’t want, it must also be down to your thoughts, feelings and focus.
You say that you have been actively practicing manifesting, and have some successes, which may be true of your conscious efforts, but unconsciously you have a 100% record of using the Law of Attraction, as every experience you have is a result of your thought, your feeling and your focus.
So is every experience you have a desired experience?
If not, what are the thoughts, the feelings and the focus that you have that is causing you to experience this unwanted reality?
Read this part of your question again, “My problem is that my elderly mother lives with me. She isn't able to live on her own, and has always had that victim persona.
She has a very negative view, and constantly complains of what we don't have and how poor we are. Bad things and drama are always rolling her way--which by default I deal with. I try to explain the Law of Attraction to her, but she won't listen.”
I know that you are describing the experience that you have with your mother, but this statement is also a belief you have about your mother.
What do I mean by a belief?
Belief is a practised conscious thought, to believe something you practise the thought of your belief through focus and repetition. So belief is thought and focus. But belief is also a feeling to, as you feel that these opinions are true.
You have experienced your mother’s negativity, you have noticed this negativity and offered it thought and feeling. As you have offered it thought and feeling, you tend to notice it more, offer it more thought and get more emotional to it. When you offer these experiences enough thought and enough feeling, it becomes a focus, and as the Law of Attraction gives you what you think, feel and focus on, you get more of this experience.
Put simply, you have become a vibration match to your mother’s negativity.
So, to change this experience, change your thoughts.
Concentrate on all the positive aspects of your mother. See her in the way you wish to see her. Think, feel and focus on what you want your mother to be, mostly to you, and as you become a vibrational match to the positive aspects of her, she will become that.
You are not changing her, you are not manifesting in her reality, your are just adjusting your vibration to match the positive side of your mother. You are becoming a match to her positivity, which in turn, allows her to express more of her positivity to you.Law-of-Attraction-Guide.com
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