I just wanted to know about how to apply the law of attraction on a previous relationship. I had an amazing one-year relationship with this guy and I spoiled it. I pushed him too far, so far that he ended up in another girl’s arms. It hurt me a lot, as this girl was the complete opposite to me. She was negative, possessive, jealous etc.

It’s nearly been one year since we ended our relationship, but during that time we have had direct and indirect contact.

I still have feelings for him, as I know that even though he hurt me...I brought on that pain, not him. I've read 'The Secret' by Rhonda Brynes and now I am reading 'The master key system' by Charles Haanel.

In Charles Haanel’s book The Master Key System, he states that if you intend to help someone, look at how you would like them to be and automatically they will be set free. Ever since I broke up with my boyfriend and he pursued another relationship with that woman, he has changed so much. He's so negative as a person, although I'm visualizing how I would like him to be.

The Law of Attraction states that you will only attract the things those are in alignment with you. So if you are positive you will attract positive things and positive people, however if you negative you will do the opposite.

I want to attract him back into my life, I visualize us laughing together, going out etc. However, if he's negative and I am positive am I able to still attract that person into my future. Do I have to visualize him being the person he used to be, all very positive, to attract him into my life.

I understand the Law of Attraction also says, that just think of the qualities that you want in that person, and that person will manifest- My previous relationship was everything I wanted, but I messed it up. But I've also read, that just visualize that person in a better light, see them how you would like them to be.

I would really appreciate if you could guide me, so that I can start applying the Law of Attraction correctly to my life- I don't want to give up on him, I haven't for one year. It’s only that I found out about the Law of Attraction recently.

Thank you for your help

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

I’m sorry to say, but you seem to be misunderstanding how the Law of Attraction works.

The Law of Attraction says that you bring into your life, whatever you strongly focus upon, whether you want it or not.

There is no magic formula, this works every time for everyone, whether they know about it or not.

You believe that you are focusing on being together with your ex-boyfriend, yet what is it that you are noticing?

You are noticing that it is not working, which is making you sad.

So what is your strongest focus?

Is it your 1 hour of visualization, or your 23 hours of emotional loneliness?

And, for arguments sake, let’s say that you could focus 100% on being with your X, unless his strongest focus was the same as yours, how could it work?

I know that The Secret talks about visualizing a partner the way you wish them to be, and they will become that person to you, it also goes on to say that otherwise, you’ll zig why they’ll zag.

In other words you will either be together in the way you want, or you won’t be together at all.

I cannot stress this enough, You cannot manifest in an others reality.

By all means use the Law of Attraction to bring love and happiness to your life, but if you try to control where it is coming from, you’re in for a tough time.


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