Still Love Him
I am married and he is married, not to each other. We saw each other for five years, and stopped seeing each other 2 years ago. I can’t be happy in my marriage because I am always thinking of him.
Are we ever going to be together again?Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
You say that you can’t be happy in your marriage because you are always thinking of him, if that is the case, then really what you are saying is that you can never be happy in any relationship, because you can’t stop thinking of someone.
OK, if that’s the case, where do you go from here?
Do you have a choice?
Can you be with him and be happy? Or can you be without him and be happy?
It is your right, as it is everyone else’s right, to be happy. So I am just wondering, if this relationship gives you everything you suggest it will, why are you not together?
If it is the case that you don’t think you can be together, for whatever reason, it seems to me that you need to forget him, and start living your life. You are doing no one any favours by hanging on to a past, which has no relevance to now, and only brings to heartache and pain.
You need to stop affirming to yourself what ‘can’t be’, for it is untrue. It is not the case that you can never be happy in your marriage. It is only the case that you will only be happy if you allow yourself to be.
You state, “I can’t be happy in my marriage because I am
always thinking of him.” Now what chance do you have of being happy if that is what you affirm to yourself?
Far better to affirm gratitude for the love you shared with this person, as now you understand how good it feels to love in this way, and you now understand that through these feelings you shared, you know what you desire, and that is to love like this again.
You see it is not the person you crave, it is the experience.
If you were having the same kind of feelings with someone else, would you be thinking or desiring this guy?
I’m sure you would not.
So you need to give yourself a chance and start to put things into perspective.
Yes you can be happy, Yes you can be without this person, but only if you let yourself.
A great technique to help you drop these feelings of loss, is called The Sedona Method. I have posted a video as an introduction to Sedona, which you can watch here
Read Esther and Jerry Hicks book, Ask and It Is Given: Learning to Manifest Your Desires
, also John Grays book How to Get What You Want and Want What You Have
Heal Your Unconscious Pain is a fantastic way of overcoming negativity, this book is written by Chris Dines, author of Power, Love and Abundance.Click Here To Read Heal Your Unconscious Pain
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