Strong Believer of The Law of Attraction Yet Lost

by Jackie
(New York)

I am a strong believer of the Law of Attraction; I have been for a few years. I read about it, practice it and I have also introduced many friends and family to The Secret and the Law of Abundance. I simply believe that it works, a hundred percent. However I need some guidance with this experience I’m about to tell you about.

I met a man about 6 month ago; it was a much-unexpected person to meet at the time. I wasn’t looking to get involved with anybody, I was just happy with myself, therefore I repeat, it was unexpected to have met somebody and let him into my life and I have no regrets about it.

We developed a beautiful romance through the period of five months. We spent as much time together as we could, we were together every weekend. We went for simple walks around town or very fancy dinners and had the best time. We got along great, liked the same simple things in life and loved to be around people. I introduced him to all my friends and they loved him.

But at the beginning of May, things began to get complicated when the company he works for, took more work than he could handle.

He was not in a good mood anymore because he had no time to do anything; it got even worse when he lost his life savings in the stock market.

Then he started to work until very late in the evening and at weekends to get as much work done as he could.

Although he was so busy and couldn’t spend much time with me, we got some Saturday afternoons and Sunday mornings to be with each other. During the week he used to call and text from work wishing good days and send kisses, (it is a gesture that I like and miss the most from him).

Then, during a month of madness, to be exact May 22nd, he called me and said that he couldn’t have a relationship with me, because he didn’t want me to wait around for him to do things. He said he simply had no time to even take care of me or himself.

I was pretty much in shock, and still am, because that was the last thing I expected from him. Since then we email each other, just to check how we are doing, but nothing has come out of it. He is still pretty aggravated with his work and fanatical situation.

He treated me like gold, and I felt so appreciated, wanted and spiritually rich, when I was with him. I really want to use the Law of Attraction to reunite with him, but think I’m not doing it right.

I’m a healthy, strong and positive woman, But I can’t figure out what is it I’m not following about the Law of Attraction.


Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

If you read some of the answers I have written on attracting a specific person back, you may start to recognise a theme.

The theme generally goes like this…

The Law of Attraction aligns to your experiences a match to your most focus thoughts and feelings. But so to does it align to the experiences of another, a match to their most focused thoughts and feelings.

Understanding that we are all brought to a reality to match our thoughts, it would be impossible to change our thoughts, to align someone else to a different reality.

Simply put, I align to my reality through my thought, you align to your reality through your thought, and your partner aligns to his reality through his thought.

In saying that, it would be naive for me to suggest that your combined reality, has not brought a unique experience to you both, in a way that this shared experience has affected the reality for both of you.

This is because the Law of Attraction, not only aligns experiences to us, it aligns cooperative experiences.

Experiences that not only match our most focused thoughts and feelings, but that also match the focused thoughts and feelings of the people we share our reality with.

It would therefore be wrong of me to categorically say that we cannot manifest an experience for another, as clearly we do, all of the time. What would we could more accurately say is this….

“My experiences will always be brought to me as a match to my thought, as will the experiences of the people who I share my reality with. And as they are a cooperating part of my reality, I will choose to focus my thoughts and feelings to the best of what they offer me, so that they can manifest to me, the best of what they have.”

“However, even though I will focus my thoughts and feelings to the best part of the experience I have with others, I fully understand and appreciate, that if they cannot be a part of this good cooperative reality I have with them, and they cannot align to my best thoughts about them, through Law, as an uncooperating part of the best of what I see, they shall leave my experience altogether.”

What I am saying here, is that if you learn to focus your thoughts on the good parts of any relationship, then you align to these good parts.

And if the people you are with can cooperate with this vibration, and manifest to you, the good things you have been focusing on, whilst aligning to their thoughts and feelings, you shall experience from this person, exactly what you have been focusing on.

But if the manifestation of a match to your thoughts conflicts with their thoughts, then through Law, they must leave the experience for a new cooperative reality to be created.

If you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below…


John Peace

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Sep 20, 2010
Not lost anymore
by: Jax

Thank you so much for your response, time is the best healer. Today I am in very good spirit. Im not longer giving energy to a person that simply is not present in my life. Im focusing on me, family and friends. Im happy, have a new career to focus on, fall is almost here and I love it!!
Wayne Dyer is coming to NYC in november, Im so excited!

Aug 25, 2011
Then what's subjective reality?
by: Anonymous

DOn't u influence everything that happens in your life, irrespective of anyone else's consciousness.
I didnt understand this co-op attraction phenomenom. THis would be contradicting wouldn't. If the mind has umlimited potential and abillity then u should be able to do anything, right.
I"m confused.

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