The Law of Attraction And A Specific Love

by Pam
(California)

So the Law of Attraction cannot work to attract a specific love interest? What if only he will do?

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

OK, this question is really causing some people some problems.

The Law of Attraction brings experiences to your reality, based on your predominate thoughts, feelings and beliefs.

Therefore, if the Law of Attraction brings experiences to your reality, based on your predominate thoughts, feelings and beliefs, you cannot alter your thoughts, feelings and beliefs to bring an experiences to someone else’s reality.

But that does not mean that you cannot change the experience you get from another, or change the way someone acts towards you.

There is a deleted clip from the film The Secret, which demonstrates this really well….

“Sometimes people will say, “Those people at work are so negative,” or “The man I live with is so angry,” or “My children are so worrisome to me,” and we say, you must orient yourself to the best part of those people that surround you.

We encourage that you get a notebook and you make a list of the positive aspects, of the people that you spend a lot of time with.

There could be someone that you have a terrible experience with, a terrible relationship with, and in the privacy of your own mind, and with quite a bit of work we will admit, as you focus upon the things that you like most, those people will become that, mostly to you.

And even though you cannot create in their reality, if they are in a mood or an attitude that doesn’t match the mood or attitude that you have about them, they’ll zig while you zag. Law of Attraction will not put you in the same space together. Your frequencies don’t match up.

If you knew your potential to feel good, you would ask no one to be different so that you can feel good. You would free yourself of all of that cumbersome impossibility of needing to control the world, or control your mate, or control your child.

You are the only one who creates your reality. For no one else can think for you. No one else can do it, it is only you. Every bit of it you.”

As you can see, you can start to think of the positive aspects of another, and as you concentrate on the things that you like, the things that make you feel good, they will either become those things to you, or you will not be put in the same place as them.

I am not at all saying that you cannot encourage the attention of a specific person by complying to the Law of Attraction, but you will only be successful, if this person’s vibration matches yours.

Another point to mention here is the position from where you are attempting to manifest this reality.

If you believe that there is only one person for you, and you are trying desperately to attract that specific person, you will be trying to attract from a position of being without this experience, which is a difficult thing to do.

The Law of Attraction brings experiences to your reality, based on your predominate thoughts, feelings and beliefs, and if your predominate thought, feelings and beliefs are of being alone, then that is what you will be attracting.

Do not underestimate the value of being happy and content with where you are now, before attempting to change an experience and ending up manifesting yet another unwanted reality.

You do not need anyone else to make you happy, and as soon as you align yourself with happiness, and learn to love yourself, most, if not all of your desires, will quickly fall into place.




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