The Law of Attraction And An Unbearable Home
I receive your Law of Attraction Newsletters every month and can't thank you enough for the sound advice that you give to people that are in distress.
I am practicing the Law of attraction and I tell you it can be hard work sometimes. I have used it so far in most things that I do, but it seems like some of the things are just hard.
My situation at the moment:
My 1 year old and I are sharing a 4 bedroom flat with 3 other girls (students). It was all good in the beginning. We laughed and joked all the time and couldn't get enough of each other. It was like that I think because I was the only one cleaning our flat, and never asked any one to chip in.
They started irritating me when the one girl started putting her feet on the table when we were eating (I didn't say anything about that) and they would leave the place dirty by the time I got back from work. I flipped the one day when I realised that I never had the time to spend with my baby because I was always cleaning.
I screamed at everyone, just like a madwoman. I asked them why they weren't cleaning, their response was that they weren't told what to do. I even drew up a roster and that only worked out for 2 weeks. Now they are not cleaning at all, they don't even flush the toilet at times.
I don't mind for me but they don't even greet my sweet little baby and that drives me NUTS. She follows them everywhere around the house and they just ignore her. I am so frustrated, I feel like hurting someone. All of this has got me drinking and smoking more than I should.
Because my eldest daughter is coming stay with us at the end of the month, I called my landlord last week to let him know that I am moving out, to my amazement, he tells me that they all are moving out at the end of this month.
How can I make it through the month without fighting or causing bodily harm? And how can I attract better people without having to move out?Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
Yours it not an uncommon run of events that can easily be described as the Law of Attraction in action!
Although many people hear and see the Law of Attraction as a method to get the things they want, what must be appreciated is this…. The Law of Attraction is a Law, not some theory that can be turned on and off at will, it is the means by which all experience is brought to us, regardless of how much effort we put into applying these ideas or not.
The Law of Attraction is. And through this Law, by the alignment of thoughts and feelings to experience, it is the way our realities are moulded.
What this means is that this situation you find yourself in, is completely and utterly made by you.
It has been created by the way you have been thinking and the way you have been feeling, and although I fully appreciate that these experiences in no way match what it is you want, and the idea that you created such an unwanted experience may seem a little bewildering to understand, the most powerful thing that you can take from this, is that if you created this experience through thought, you can surely remove this experience by simply removing the thoughts that lead you here.
So what is it that you have been thinking that aligned you to such an undesirable experience?
No doubt, when you first made plans to move into this house with your child, you were looking forward to spending a great time with your friends. A happy, fun environment for you and your child to live.
And at first, I am sure that the good expectation of this home was surely matched as you started to enjoy a fun time together.
You had focused your thoughts to a new experience, full of expectation of fun, laughter and happiness, and as you thought and felt about this experience, you were aligned to it as a match to your thoughts and feelings.
Easy to see that this is the Law of Attraction in action.
But…. this experience offered you something else, (as all experiences tend to). Not only did it offer you fun, laughter and happiness,
it offered you other parts, other things that you could think and feel about. No doubt, some things that felt good, as you said, in the beginning you couldn’t get enough of each other, and of course, it offered you some things that felt not so good, for example, it seemed that you were the only one cleaning.
So what is it that you have been thinking about when it comes to you being the only one who cleans?
As I don’t really know your exact thoughts, I will try to put simply demonstrate what thought process you probably went through.
In the beginning when you moved into the flat there was lots of fun and laughter, you thought about this fun and felt the laughter and things seemed to be going well.
After a short time you noticed that you were the only one cleaning, you noticed it, thought about this, and began to see how often others would or would not help.
After a while you started to get a little bugged that no one else seemed to care about how clean the house was, just you, and to make matter worse, one girl even started putting her feet on the table when you were all eating. But even through the thoughts and feeling of irritation you kept quiet, you kept those feelings to yourself so not to upset the house.
You even left for work with expectation of the flat being dirty on your return, anticipating the annoyance and irritation you would feel, and to compound this they were even taking time away from you and your child.
But for how long could you keep quiet about this seemingly unfair situation?
And then it came, “I screamed at everyone, just like a madwoman.”
And even after they had been rostered in to clean, they still let you down, they still upset you, frustrated you and annoyed you.
Not so easy to see, but this is the Law of Attraction in action.
You see the Law of Attraction is not about getting what you want, it’s about getting an experience that matches your most focused thoughts and feelings. It’s just that when you are aware of this, you can start to focus your thoughts and feelings towards what you would like and, in turn, create that wanted experience in your reality.
How can you make it through the month without fighting or causing bodily harm?
By not noticing, thinking and feeling about, what it is you do not like about them, but instead, notice, think and feel, what it is about them that you love.
And how can you attract better people without having to move out?
By focusing your thoughts and feelings to what it would be like to have these people in your reality, and when they come, if they ever offer you an experience that is removed from what you want, do not notice it, do not think about it, and do not feel about it, but instead, notice, think and feel, what it is about them that you love.
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This part of the course is not about using visualizing or affirming to manifest a desired experiences, it is about aligning to the experiences through changing the way you think and feel about your current reality.
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