The Law of Attraction And Jealousy
For a past few weeks I have realised that one of my friends likes the same guy as I like, and she knows I like him. The thing is she doesn’t say it, but she acts like she does and always talks to me about him and their conversation, and she knows that I like him and that will get me upset.
I feel like she is trying to build some kind of competition and acts as if nothing is wrong.
The problem is that I know I’m not responsible for her actions, but I just can't imagine how I would feel if they were together, and she would still keep on pretending that nothing is wrong.
I am trying to get these horrible thoughts of my mind, but it’s hard, and I have all these dreams that she is flirting with him in front of me, and I am being ignored, and that she pretends that nothing is wrong.
I just really don’t know what to do. I feel scared all the time. I am a nice person so when she talks to me about him, I just pretend that everything is fine, when I don’t feel like it is.
I know I can't control their reality but I also can't help but get upset by the thought that they might be together.
Is there a way I can just move on from both of them, and not let their decisions affect me?
Thank you loads :)Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
You are the creator of your own reality. You will experience many different things, some you like, some you don’t like. Out of you experiencing this contrast, your desires are born, and you will receive your desires, by coming into vibrational harmony with them.
So to begin with, don’t be put off by experiencing an unwanted reality, this serves you, as it is through this reality of now, that you choose the experiences of your future.
The trick is though…. To alter your vibration to the wanted desire, instead of wallowing in the vibration of the now reality.
When you alter your vibration to the wanted desire, all opportunities and events will lead to the experience of that desire, while when you wallow in the vibration of the now ‘unwanted’ reality, all opportunities and events will lead to more experience of that unwanted desire.
In other words, by focusing on the unwanted experience your friend is offering, you are matching the vibration of that unwanted experience, and as a result, you are manifesting more of that unwanted experience.
I would strongly suggest that you begin to focus on
the wanted experiences your friend offers you, in fact, all your friends offer you, and spend some time visualizing and imagining more of this wanted experience.
I would do this by writing all the things that you like most about your friends, and become a vibrational match to these qualities, instead of the unwanted ones.
If you ever notice a behaviour from your friend that goes against your positive ideas, try at best to ignore this experience, if you find this difficult or it makes you feel bad, repeat your list of positive aspects about your friend, saying something like, “I am so happy that my friend is ………”, inserting all their positive qualities in place.
When you do this, you are readjusting your vibration to her positive side, and as a result, will either experience the side of her that resonates with you, or she will vibrate right out of your experience.
Just to take a step back a bit, and go back to an important part of your question when you said, “I know I’m not responsible for her actions”, and “I know I can't control their reality but I also can't help but get upset by the thought that they might be together.”
I think that you also need to appreciate that you cannot expect them, or anyone, to change their behaviour, for you to be happy. In fact, trying to achieve that is not only impossible; it also denies you your own power of happiness.
By focusing on someone changing his or her unwanted behaviour, what you are actually doing is attracting that unwanted behaviour to you.
After first hearing about the Law of Attraction, many people seem to think that they can alter a bad experience by thinking it away. In an attempt to do this they first notice this unwanted reality, they then offer it emotion, and then try to concentrate on removing it.
While what they are really doing is giving this unwanted experience Focus, Attention, Emotion and Vibration which, rather than pushing it away only serves to bring it to them.
If you want the best of everything, Focus on the best parts of all your experiences, give Attention to the best parts of all your experiences, get Emotional with the best parts of all your experiences and Vibrate to the best parts of all your experiences which, rather than pushing them away, only serves to bring them to you.
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