The Law of Attraction And Love Matters

by Ana Sousa
(London, UK)

I met a boy in September last year, when I arrived in London to study, and he asked me to be his girlfriend, and I accepted. We have been together as a couple with some arguments and problems, but two months ago he told me that he doesn’t want me as a girlfriend, but only as a friend.


We still saw each other and slept together like a couple, but he continues to tell me that it is only a friendship, and I am not his girlfriend.

I got so desperate and frustrated, and at times I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to loose him, because I love him so much and see him like a perfect husband and father of my kids in the future.

Can you help me please?

I don’t know what to do to have him back, and be a happy couple with love and romance.

Many thanks,
Ana

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

The experiences you have, come to you through the Law of Attraction, depending on your vibration, which is your emotions and the way you think.

It does not matter what you want, what you wish for, or what you desire, as none of these things mould your reality. The only thing that matters, is the way you vibrate.

If your experiences depend on your vibration, your vibration being your emotions and the way you think, then to change an experience, you must change your thoughts and feelings.

So to experience that you are with your perfect future husband and father of your kids, you must vibrate it, you must emotionally feel and think that this is your reality now.

And, as the experiences you have, come to you through the Law of Attraction, depending on your vibration, holding the vibration of being with your perfect future husband now, must produce that reality in the future.

However, there is a catch….

You see, the same can be said of your friend, that the experiences he has, come to him through the Law of Attraction, depending on his vibration. His emotions and the way he thinks.

It does not matter what he wants, what he wishes for, or what he desires, as none of these things mould his reality. The only thing that matters, is the way he vibrates.

If you accept the Law of Attraction, and accept that your experiences depend on your vibration, and his experiences depend on his vibration, there is absolutely no way that you can change your thoughts, to change his reality.

So if you can’t get with this guy by using the Law of Attraction, what’s the point?

This is where many people get confused about how they can apply the Law of Attraction to their lives.

You see, we experience our reality through the events, the people, and the circumstances that happen around us. However, we did not put these events, people and circumstances there, they were aligned to us as cooperating things that match the vibration that we are in.

In other words, we set the vibration by choosing what we wish to experience and matching our thoughts and feelings to it, then the Law of Attraction aligns the events, the people, and the circumstances that happen around us, so that we can experience that reality.

So if you cannot choose the events, the people, and the circumstances that happen around us, how do we define and affect our relationships?

By simply deciding the experiences we want from our relationships, and aligning our vibration to that.

In your experience now, your friend has set certain restrictions to your relationship, which has left you with certain thoughts and feelings.

It is these thoughts and feelings that make up your vibration, and for as long as you continue to vibrate this way, you will continue to set yourself up to a similar reality.

By focusing on the arguments and problems, you shall experience more arguments and problems.

By feeling desperate and frustrated, you shall experience more reasons to feel desperate and frustrated.

By fearing loosing him, you shall experience more reasons to fear this loss.

It is only by putting this relationship in its best light, that the best of what this relationship has to offer, can shine towards you.

It is only by focusing your thoughts and feelings on what you like best about this guy, about this relationship, and about this situation, that what you like best, can be manifested to you.

And if he is unable to manifest the best of what you vibrate, he shall leave your experience completely, for the best of what you vibrate to come to you.

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law of attraction didnt work
by: Anonymous

I want to share my knowledge on using the law of attraction to attract an ex, in my case It didn't work.

I was with my ex boyfriend for 14 months and earlier this year he broke up with me. Our relationship was rocky at times and we fought a lot but no matter what we always stood by each other. I put more effort into him than he did with me but he loved me at my worst and was extremely sweet.

I wanted to come first, his friends and work were his main priority and I resented it but I knew this guy had other qualities I knew I wanted.

I have done everything in the past 6 months to win him back when I came across the secret.

I felt hope and began writing my positive affirmations daily and visualizing us being together. We got on speaking terms for a bit but he wasn't clear what he wanted and took ages to reply.

As it turns out he was just curious to see how I was and if I was okay but had no interest in continuing to talk to me or be anything.

I actually felt like the Law of attraction was working at first, and was so happy only to end up shattered.

We have now said our goodbyes and He has made it clear he doesn't want me in his life.

Law of attraction cannot attract someone who doesn't want to be with you. I have learnt this the difficult way.

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