The Law of Attraction And Marital Separation
I have been separated since a year, and I believe in my heart that my husband will return one day. Since the last many months he comes to see me more often and has a better attitude.
My wish is that he will come back and stay with me, but he still needs time.
I have talked about a divorce, but he says he does not want to do something he might regret.
What should I do?Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
When it comes to relationships it is important to remember that you cannot manifest an experience, in another’s reality.
Your husband’s reality depends on his predominant thoughts, as does your own.
However, as it is your reality that depends on your thoughts, it is good to be aware of what you are thinking.
All to often, relationships collapse because the attention, focus and energy of each partner, is on an unwanted part of the relationship, rather than the wanted parts.
It is the idea, that if our partners behaved in a different way that somehow, the relationship would move to a better and happier place. When it is in fact, our very thoughts to this behaviour that we want to change, that recreates the experience that we don’t want to experience.
This is because when you focus your thoughts towards something, that something is recreated in your experience.
Have you ever noticed, commented or complained about, anything your husband has ever done, that makes you feel bad?
The chances are, if you are like most people you have, and if you have, you need to be aware that this very noticing, commenting and complaining, is the cause for the manifestation of the very thing you do not want to experience.
The Law of Attraction will always align you to an experience that matches your thought, whether it is a complaining thought about what you do not want, or a complimenting thought of what you do want.
And the trick to applying this Law is to simply shift your thought to match your desired experiences, instead of your undesired experiences.
So what are your desired experiences?
I know that your first
answer may be for your husband to come back to you, but truthfully speaking, that is a desire that requires him to change for you to be happy, and as you cannot control him, and you are focusing your attention and energy on you being apart, you will end up manifesting more things to keep you apart.
Really, when you think about it, your true desire is to be in a happy and loving relationship, and as that is the case, to manifest this reality, you would be better thinking happy and loving thoughts.
However, that is not to say that this experience will definitely come from your husband, although, if you switch your attention to what it is you desire, it does give him the opportunity of aligning to your wanted reality, rather than aligning to your unwanted reality, as he has been doing up until now.
And this is the secret to using the Law of Attraction, to get the best from any relationship. That is, spend more time thinking about the good experiences, than the bad experiences.
I would encourage anyone, no matter what their relationship status is, to write lists of what they like best about the people they associate with, and spend time contemplating these ‘best of’ things.
Never notice, complain or comment on anything you do not like, and if you ever become tempted to, remember this ‘best of’ list.
Use these thoughts to eradicate the temptation to dwell on the unwanted, and the unwanted will never dwell on you.
Never expect anyone to change anything in order for you to be happy, as that will keep you in a reality of wanting change. Simply align to the best of everyone, and as you do, you shall give them the opportunity to manifest the best of what they can offer you.
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