The Law of Attraction And Marriage

by Geetha
(Malaysia)

I got married 2 months ago and we have been in an relationship for the past 5 years. Ever since we were married, my husband doesn’t want to spend time with me or even touch me. But we are staying together.

Our relationship is an unmeaning relationship. He is busy with his business appointments.

I have tried my level best to be romantic with him, but failed.

I got to know about The Secret about 1 year ago.. and I am being very positive. I do write down my best experience with him, his good behaviour and whatever I appreciate about him everyday.

Everyday I visualize how I want our relationship to be.

But the problem has yet to be resolved.

Please advice.

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

You must concentrate all your efforts on, ‘what you like best about your husband’.

Yes this includes writing down all the experiences you enjoy with him, but more than that, you should take some time to contemplate these good experiences.

The problem is that you seem to be pushing this a bit too much. You seem to be concentrating on the good experience, and then you are going about your day looking for evidence of this good behaviour.

You need to let go, you need to have faith that you create your reality, you need to trust that what you ask for is given, at every and any time.

By looking for this evidence of what you seek, you are noticing that you do not see it.

Just noticing that you do not have the things you ask for is counter productive, as you add the lack of these things to your vibration. And as your reality is always a match to your vibration, you manifest a lack of what you are looking for.

List your good experiences, spend time thinking about these good experiences, and whenever a thought, a situation, or an event happens that contradicts these good experiences, ‘forget it’. Or, more accurately put, ‘get something for it’, substitute your negative thought with a positive one from your list.

By doing this you de-emphasise your negative thoughts, and stop them in their tracks, this starves them of your vibration, which in turn, starves them of vitality. They cease to be.

I would also try to de-emphasise some of your limiting beliefs about your relationship.

What do I mean by limiting beliefs?

These are statements that you believe to be true about your self, your abilities, and your circumstances, which are limiting the experience that you desire.

For example…..

My husband doesn’t want to spend time with me or even touch me.

Our relationship is an unmeaning relationship.

He is busy with his business appointments.

I have tried my level best to be romantic with him, but failed.

These are statements that make up your vibration, and for as long as you go on believing them, you shall find the evidence for them in your reality.

Change them, and everything changes.

Sign up for my free mini-course called Unlock The Power of You, for some help on discovering and removing your limiting beliefs.

I would also be careful about writing down what you refer to as ‘his good behaviour’.

This is not about good or bad, because to make that judgement, you need to notice the bad, and as I have already pointed out, you cannot notice something, and pass judgement on it, without giving this ‘unwanted’ experience thought and emotion.

There is no good or bad, there just is what is, and if you give what is enough attention, you will experience what is.

You create your own reality, and everything you experience, matches some part of your thought and feelings, and if you have an unwanted experience, then you must be having an unwanted thought or feeling.

If your husband gives you something to feel negative about, he is only matching some part of you that is vibrating that negative. So instead of trying to change him, change you.

Now I cannot say that a change of your vibration will put meaning back into your marriage, but what I can say is this….

Choose your experience by only thinking and feeling in a way that is in harmony with your desires, and your reality shall be a reflection of your thoughts. If your husband is a matching vibration to manifest your desires, he will shift his behaviour to provide you with what you seek, if he is not, he shall move out of your vibration completely.

Your thoughts are powerful creators, choose them wisely and choose them well. As your experience shall always be a perfect match

If you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below…





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