The Law of Attraction And Separation

by Christina Lopez
(Estancia, N.M.)

I am very new to all of this and wish to learn more. I have been separated from my husband for 1 yr now, by his choice. I filed for divorce so he can be free and not married to me any longer, and go about his life as he wishes. The divorce is in the process of being completed soon from what I understand.


I believe he made the right choice in not wanting me back or our relationship because if he had wanted me back, I would still be involved with a man I love, but who abused me, cheated on me and not cared for my other son whom doesn't belong to him.

So I see now it was and is the best decision for both of us. I still have a little love for him but I believe that will just take time to let go of. I only love and miss the Good times we shared and the good part of him he showed me.

With all this being said it leads to my question. I am ready to move on with my life and start talking to other men. I just don't know if by Universal Law I should because of the fact I stated earlier that I still have a little love for him (which by the way, I do want to let go of and release the feeling I have for him) and because I don't feel morally (only because of the beliefs I had and the way I was told to believe) it is ok. I want to have my own believes (Universal Law) and learn to make choices based of Universal Law. I need to know if it is ok to move forward talking to other men, dating. Is ok in the Universal Law?

By the way I have not been intimate with my ex and we have lived separate for over a 1yr. Please help me. Thank You. Blessings.

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

The one thing I want to assure you is that you can do nothing wrong, and there is never a bad time for anything.

The Law of Attraction creates your reality by matching experiences to your predominant thoughts and feelings, to help you to maintain your way of thinking, and as we all think and we all feel, we all continually create our realities, so there is no time better than now to consciously choose your thoughts, so that you consciously choose your reality.

If you choose thoughts that are constructive, and match the existence of the desires you would like to experience, the Law of Attraction shall align the desires to your reality, but if you choose thoughts that are destructive, and match the lack of the desires you would like to experience, the Law of Attraction shall align the lack of the desires to your experience.

When it comes to any desire you have, there will always be two ways of thinking about it.

You can think with anticipation and excitement of your desire, or you can think in disappointment and upset that your desire is not yet here, and depending upon what thoughts you have, the Law of Attraction shall align you to the experience that best match your way of thinking.

Anticipation leads to experiencing what is anticipated, disappointment leads to experience a disappointment that what you desire is held from you, and as we all have desires and thoughts about them, we all have experiences that are being aligned, so it is never a bad time to anticipate what you would like, and it is far better to anticipate that to align to disappointment.

But to be honest I don’t think you need to worry about where you are going, you have written the perfect affirmation which demonstrates how anyone should move forward, “I see now it was and is the best decision for both of us. I still have a little love for him but I believe that will just take time to let go of. I only love and miss the Good times we shared and the good part of him he showed me.” I would simply add to that something else that you said, “I am ready to move on with my life.”

Remember, dwelling on unpleasant experience will attract an unpleasant experience to dwell upon, so always try to see the best of what you have had, so that you can align to the best of what is.

With Gratitude

John Peace
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