The Law of Attraction And Unreturned Love
I met this girl a year back, we started chatting on a social networking site. After sometime, she asked me whether I had any feelings for her? And also said that if I do have such feelings, I should stop there and then. Because she just doesn’t believe in this love and all. To her love is BS.
I replied and confessed that yes, I love her and completely opened up with what I had in my mind. She shut all her contacts with me since then, by saying that she just does not believe in all these things.
Before this, we used to chat really well, but since I disclosed my feelings. She just shut all her contacts. She is not even replying to any of my messages.
I love her a lot and just want to marry this girl and settle things in life.
What are your suggestions?Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
The Law of Attraction aligns us to the cooperative events and circumstances, which enable us to experience a reality as a match to our predominant thoughts.
That is, what you think most becomes your experience.
So why is it that if you think love for this girl, and you predominantly think about being with her, this is not your experience?
If you read my description of the Law of Attraction, you will begin to see why…
“The Law of Attraction aligns us to the cooperative events and circumstances, which enable us to experience a reality as a match to our predominant thoughts.”
For you to have an experience that matches your thoughts of love for this girl, and your thoughts of being with her, she would have to be a cooperative part of this reality.
In other words, a reality that includes a loving relationship with you, would have to be a match to your thoughts, as well as hers.
The Law of Attraction works for all people, at all times, and everyone who shares an experience, must be in a cooperating manifestation of that experience.
Each thought, of each person, matches each experience.
This is why it is impossible to manifest in someone else’s reality, as your thought defines your experience, and their thought defines theirs.
Does this mean that the Law of Attraction does not work in a relationship?
Not at all, it is the overriding power behind the bringing
together and the pushing apart of matching and unmatching thought and experiences.
So how do you apply the Law of Attraction to find the perfect relationship?
To begin with, you have to understand that the person you are trying to attract is not an experience in herself. A person is a source of an experience, and can only be brought to your reality if they are a cooperative part of both of your experiences.
In other words, you do not choose the person, the person is aligned to you by what you think.
So the very first thing to do, would be to let go of the control of where this experience will come from.
Secondly, as the Law of Attraction aligns us to events and circumstances as a match to our predominant thoughts, only thoughts that match being in a happy loving relationship can manifest that experience.
I know that you may think that your thoughts and feelings are love now, and if so, you should be aligned to that experience, but I would say that they are not.
Yes you may think most about being with a girl, and this maybe the case, but your predominant thoughts are of, not being in a relationship, not being in a relationship.
And yes you may think that you have love for a girl, and this maybe the case, but your predominant feelings are the lack of love you are getting, not the existence of love.
Your predominant thoughts are of a lack of a relationship, and the lack of the love within it, and as the Law of Attraction aligns you to the cooperative events and circumstances that enable you to experience a reality, as a match to our predominant thoughts, you are attracting the exact opposite to what you desire.
In short, if you wish to be in a loving relationship, you have to think, feel and act, as if this loving relationship existed now, and as you do, the Law of Attraction will align you to the matching experience.
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