To Be With A Man Who Lives Abroad


This past weekend, I met a man from Amsterdam who travels internationally for his work. He was here for a festival in Nevada where I met him, and then we arranged to meet in San Francisco the next day.

I am 25 and I have met and dated many people in my life, but I have never felt such a strong connection with anyone on so many levels as I did with him. He is 34.

We shared the same philosophies on life and sense of humor. I felt as if we had known each other for years and that we clicked better than I had with other people who I had been in relationships with for years at a time.

After spending time with him I felt very energized and as if interacting with him helped me to increase my awareness.

We talked for hours and I felt that we clicked perfectly and our perception of the world and society were nearly identical. Something like this has never happened to me before.

I feel that my time spent with him increased my energetic field and understanding of a connection to another person.

During our conversation he said that he may buy a house in the San Francisco area which is only a few hours from where I live, and also that he will return to the same festival in Nevada where I live this same time next year. He currently primarily lives and works in Amsterdam and China.

I am wondering if there is anything that I can do in order to energetically attract and/or manifest this connection into something more?

He told me that he would like to keep in touch. I have his phone number and email but I am not sure how I would go about keeping in touch with him in a realistic way?

He is very attractive, intelligent and financially independent. I believe that he would have many women interested in him, and I suppose I can't be sure that he felt the same strong connection that I did.

However, I do believe the connection we shared was unique and although I can't speak for him, in my experience thus far our connection was one of a kind.

Do you have any advise on how I might manifest this relationship to a further level, or attract another man with whom I share a likewise strong connection?

Thank you for your time,

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

I am pleased that you seem to have grasped the concept of how the Law of Attraction works, with regards to attracting a specific person.

That is, you recognise that you may not be able to attract a specific partner, but you can manifest someone who you can share this strong connection.

Charles Haanel, in his book The Master Key, wrote, “Would you bring into your life more power, get the power consciousness, more health, get the health consciousness, more happiness, get the happiness consciousness. Live the spirit of these things until they become yours by right. It will then become impossible to keep them from you.”

What Haanel is saying here, is that
if you live in the spirit of having something, then that something will have to come into your experience.

What is ‘Living The Spirit’ of a thing?

To live the spirit, you need to live in the emotion and feeling of having it now, you need to keep experiencing the feelings you were having when you were interacting with this person, as if these feeling were still your experience today.

You need to keep imagining this strong connection, as if you were still sharing the same philosophies and sense of humor.

You need to keep feeling the click, the connection and this energised feeling

Every positive feeling you had when you were with this person, needs to become part of you, as if it was still a reality, and the best way to do this is through visualization.

The secret of any visualization exercise is to concentrate your mind on a new reality, without thinking about your current circumstances.

So, when you visualize, not only must you see your most wanted desires, but more importantly, you must feel your most wanted desires.

This visualization exercise involves these simple steps;

Find a quiet room, somewhere where you can sit for 15 to 20 minutes without being disturbed.

Think of something, anything that brings you strong positive emotions of love, joy, or gratitude.

Once you are feeling relaxed and positive get into a comfortable position and relax your body.

Start to feel the emotions you have identified.

Re-live the experience of ‘having it now’ until you can feel the joy in your entire body with all your senses.

It is important to feel it, as this adds emphasis (and speed) to you manifesting your desires. Make sure all your senses are being used. What did it sound like, smell like and feel like.

Really get into the feeling and use this experience to its fullest.

When you are done, repeat your goal out load and write it down, Say this in a confident and commanding tone and expect it to happen.

Now go about your day and forget about the ‘how's.’ This is where you must ‘Let go and let God’ as the saying goes. This is the true Art of Allowing.

Remember this is the part where we often fail because we question or we keep noticing that we don’t have it yet.

To enhance your visualization further, you may want to try Alpha Brainwave Entrainment Track.

This is a relaxing audio that pushes you into an Alpha Brainwave State, this is the state that your brain is in, when you are waking from a dream.

Alpha State is the goal that anyone practising meditation aims for, it takes months to practise naturally, but these audio tracks will get you there after a couple of tries.

Probably the best place on the internet for this type of program is The Super Mind Evolution System. I have used many of their audios, and I know that you can get a lot of them for free.


Finally, A Step-by-Step System To Master The Law of Attraction
Visit Unlock The Power of You Now, To Claim Your FREE Lessons

Click here to post comments

Return to Law of Attraction Relationship Advice.

Copyright 2007-2016

Members Log in

Promote Your Page Too

First Day Of The Rest Of Your Life