Understanding The Law of Attraction - Am I Doing The Right Thing
Hi John, I am now in a healthy loving relationship with someone. We both are in love and respect each other and our relation continue to blossom everyday. However I intend to get married and have a wonderful family and as you said that we can not attract a specific person because we can not manifest in another's reality, so what I am doing everyday is feel the feeling of being married and feel the feeling of having a wonderful family with wonderful house for our beautiful children.
I visualize, say my affirmation, feel the feeling and sometimes even have tears in my eyes when I say thank you for it as I feel that it is already a reality.
Right now I just keep saying thank you for the wonderful relationship that I have but at the same time also focus to what I want, which is getting married. I don't know whether our relation will lead to marriage. I just believe that I am married, I know that I am receiving it now and I am not suppose to worry about how when and whom.
Am I doing the right thing?
Feel blessed and say thank you for our current relationship and at the same time focus of getting married and not to worry about the vehicle?
Can you also help me with a sample of specific marriage affirmation. Thank you so much and hoping your fast reply (^_^).Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
All to often people look and the reality they are experiencing, and express thoughts of what they most dislike, and would most like to change. And as the Law of Attraction gives us what we most strongly focus our thoughts on, it is not surprising that these people have so many problems getting away from their unwanted experiences.
This is the importance of gratitude, because as you focus on the things in your now reality that you are grateful for, the Law of Attraction aligns you to more things that make you feel grateful.
So what I would say to anyone, as a first step to applying the Law of Attraction, is this,
“Whatever your experience now, find the best of what you have, and focus fully on that before you try to focus on a different experience.”
For you, when it come to relationships, this should easy, as you have an healthy loving relationship now, and the absolute best thing to think about that, is healthy thought, loving thought and happy thought.
In short, yes you are doing the right thing. You are thinking thoughts that continue to help your relationship blossom, you are offering thoughts to the direction of your new experience, and you are letting go of the source for this experience.
My best advice would be to continue to do what you are doing, for as long as what you are doing makes you feel as good as it has been.
Your affirmations need to acknowledge your gratitude for where you are, as well as offer an indication for where you are going.
To structure the best affirmation I would suggest that you start with the words I Am
, as this is a statement of self, and there is no stronger affirmation. I would then structure your gratitude thoughts of your now experience as a statement, and follow with a sentence of where you are going.
Something like the opening statement in your question….I am happy and thankful that I continue to experience a healthy, loving and respectful relationship with someone, that continues to blossom everyday. And I am looking forward to being married and having a wonderful family
Your visualizations are less important at the moment, but for as long as they feel good, I would continue to do them.
But if you ever feel frustrated that you do not see the things you are focusing on, it may be worth considering stopping visualizing until you have removed the frustrating thoughts.
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