Understanding The Law of Attraction And Love

Before asking this question firstly I want to say that the Law of Attraction does work for me and I am very grateful. The problem is that since I was a child I always believed that you can only truly love one person in your life and they will love you back.

It was my biggest dream but I started getting older and realized that I loved every single person I was with and every single person made me feel so much pain. So now it seems pointless meeting a new guy being positive and happy with him, love him when you know that it wont last forever, that you don't have any power for keeping this person with you as he or she can change their mind any day and wake-up feeling differently.

Also its never possible to know if the person truly loves you or he or she is lying or just don't feel as strongly as you do.

So my question is….

Is there really such thing as love and is it possible to make it last and save yourself from getting hurt?

Or is it better to just live and not have any expectations on anybody, to avoid any pain, because this is what I think I should do now.

Thank you.

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

The Law of Attraction aligns to your reality a match to your focused thoughts and feelings.

By focused thoughts and feelings, I mean the things you notice most, the things you think about most, the things you believe, the things you know, the things you talk about most and the things that make you emotional.

It does not matter whether you want this reality, as the assumption is made that if you are focuses your thoughts and feelings towards something, you must be trying to re-create it.

This is easy to see when for example, someone is in debt. It would be understood that what this person wants most of all would be financial security, but because they are experiencing debt, they notice the debt they’re in, they think about the debt they have, they believe they have debt, they know they have debt, they talk about their lack of finance and they feel fear and worry about money.

The Law of Attraction will respond to these thoughts and feelings by aligning opportunities, circumstances and people to this person, to allow them to continue to notice the debt they’re in, to continue to think about the debt they have, to continue to believe they have debt, to continue to know they have debt, to continue to talk about their lack of finance and to continue to feel fear and worry about money.

It essence, they are recreating themselves

The same could be said of your circumstances. You realized that you loved every single person you were with, and every single person made you feel pain.

You noticed that you loved these people and they hurt you, you think about how you loved these people and they hurt you, you believe that love ends up as pain, you know that love ends up as pain, you talk about the love you’ve given and the pain you’ve received, and you feel the pain that love has brought you.

The Law of Attraction will respond to these thoughts and feelings by aligning opportunities, circumstances and people to you to allow you to continue to notice the pain love causes, to continue to think about the pain love causes, to continue to believe that love causes pain, to continue to know that love causes pain, to continue to talk about the pain your lovers give you and to continue to feel the pain that love has brought you.

It does not matter whether you want this reality, as the assumption is made that if you are focuses your thoughts and feelings towards something, you must be trying to re-create it.

You are recreating yourself by aligning to opportunities, circumstances and people that cause you to feel love, and ultimately cause you to feel pain.

So how do you change this reality?

By noticing, thinking, believing, knowing, talking and feeling, in alignment to your desired experiences, not your undesired experiences.

If it is love you desire, notice love, think love, believe love, know love, talk about love and feel love, and as you do, as you remove the thoughts about the undesirable experiences you have had, you shall recreate yourself by aligning to opportunities, circumstances and people that cause you to feel love.

If you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below…





John Peace
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