Use The Law of Attraction To Find Someone For Marriage

by Mik
(South Africa)

I am 41, which is above average for someone single in my country. I don’t feel or look my age, but it surprises ladies when I state this… They think I’m not too correct to have stayed single up to now.

I need to feel eligible and attract a nice lady slightly younger than me for marriage. I also need to stop feeling pressured by family and feel like I’m doing this for me.

I have a person in mind but she needs to connect with me. She also seems pressured by friends & family but she a professional who works hard and long and appears not to have sufficient time for other issues.

We haven’t said anything but I think each feels the other.

I’m shy with women and find it very hard to express myself to them. Recently used the Law of Attraction and it helped me improve in business, but not as much socially.

Please advise

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

The Law of Attraction aligns to your reality, a match to your focused thoughts and feelings. That is, what you think most, and what you feel most, becomes your experience.

To many, this sounds quite simplistic, and they attempt to bring their desires to them by thinking about and feeling about, the things that they want.

For example, if the Law of Attraction aligns to your reality, a match to your focused thoughts and feelings, and the reality you most want to experience, is being with the perfect person, surely focusing your thoughts and feelings on that reality, must manifest it?

Unfortunately, as many people are finding out, this is not the case.

To understand what the Law of Attraction is responding to, you have to understand the subtlety of thought.

It may be the case that the reality you most want to experience is being with the perfect person, but focusing your thoughts and feelings on that reality, isn’t the same as matching your thoughts and feelings to that reality.

Many people fail to see their desires because they focus their thoughts and feelings on what it is they want and need, but their thoughts and feelings are wanting and needing, and as they fail to see the results of their focusing manifesting in their experiences, they tend to think more want, and feel more need.

Don’t forget, the Law of Attraction aligns to your reality, a match to your focused thoughts and feelings. That is, what you think most, and what you feel most, becomes your experience. And if your ‘most’ thoughts and feelings are of what you want and need, the Law of Attraction has to align you to an experience that causes you to want and need. Which, has to be a reality without the things you are wanting and needing.

To apply the Law of Attraction, you can’t focus on what you do not have, you have to focus on what it would be like to have it.

The Law of Attraction aligns to your reality, a match to your focused thoughts and feelings, and if your focused thoughts and feelings resemble the thoughts and feelings of what you desire, even if you do not have it, it must be manifested.

In other words, pretend…

If you wish to have the perfect relationship, pretend to have it, focus your thoughts and feelings to the thoughts and feelings you will have, when this relationship is here, and the perfect relationship will be here.

Although this is the way to manifest your desires, there is another part of the equation you must be wary of. That is, letting go.

Letting go is just as important a step to make as matching your thoughts to your desires.

What do I mean by letting go?

Letting go is the act of not thinking of who, when, where, how, and why. Letting go means leaving it to Law. Trusting that the right person, place and circumstances will be there, at just the right time.

Remember, if you wish to have the perfect relationship, pretend to have it, focus your thoughts and feelings to the thoughts and feelings you will have, when this relationship is here.

If you are thinking who? You do not match the thought of have.

If you are thinking when? You do not match the thought of have.

If you are thinking how? You do not match the thought of have.

If you are thinking why? You do not match the thought of have.

Your job is to match your thought to your desires, the Universe will take care of the rest.

If you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below…





John Peace
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